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[–] vrek@programming.dev 1 points 10 minutes ago

Ok, i read the comments and... Now I'm regretting the cruisenart order on Amazon.... That saucepan though... Damn

[–] ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world 3 points 53 minutes ago

I think pansexual should be for people who would fuck an alien who has no corollary on the human gender spectrum.

[–] Rawrosaurus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 51 minutes ago

The only way to truly begin understanding pansexual or bisexual is to be either pansexual or bisexual.

[–] BartyDeCanter@piefed.social 21 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (3 children)

Bisexual - You’re over 35

Pansexual - You’re under 35

Omnisexual - You’ve spent way more time thinking about your sexuality than getting laid

Demisexual - You’re way more queer than you’re ready to admit.

Sapiosexual - You’re a straight guy trying and failing to impress the cute barista by seeming cool and intellectual.

[–] ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 4 points 16 minutes ago

Flexisexual - you'll take what you can get

I've been Demisexual since I first watched Striptease as a teenager.

[–] SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I like to call it "millenial" vs "gen z" pan/bisexuality

[–] Mesophar@pawb.social 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I'm pansexual, solidly a millennial, and started using the term nearly a decade and a half ago. Which was late to the game, since the term had been around for about a decade before that.

[–] SGforce@lemmy.ca 2 points 46 minutes ago

Swear I heard it late nineties

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 1 points 54 minutes ago

I'm biromantic; I like many different genders. But I most certainly do not like all genders. And those I do like, I do not like equally

[–] Planchette_Phantom@lemmy.zip 25 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (4 children)

To be fair, pansexuality is under the umbrella of bisexuality. What makes it more confusing is that there is no rule saying that bisexuals must only be attracted to 2 genders. Nor is there a rule stating that a bisexual must care about the gender of their partner.

Edit: bisexual is a very old term, but it does not strictly refer to only two genders.

[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 hours ago (5 children)

Doesn't the name imply only two?

[–] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 12 points 1 hour ago (3 children)

No it implies once every other week

Wait

[–] synae@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago

Well then what's semisexual?? I'll never get this figured out

[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 1 points 54 minutes ago

Shit, that's the rough life. I'll take the twice a week definition instead please, Trebek.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 1 points 58 minutes ago

Or twice a week?

[–] Semjeza@fedinsfw.app 24 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

The "bi" is for both homosexual and heterosexual relations. Not gender itself.

[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 28 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Sure but it can be interpreted as "people who share my gender" and "people who do not share my gender."

[–] percent@infosec.pub 3 points 56 minutes ago* (last edited 55 minutes ago)

This is off-topic, but... For some reason, that reminded me of a funny exchange I had with someone who was buying a lottery ticket, years ago...

Me: "What are the chances that you'll win?"

Him, with a heavy southern (US) accent: "50/50. You either win or you don't."

[–] anotherspinelessdem@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

It does, but definitions often diverge from the original over time

[–] Planchette_Phantom@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

That's because it's an extremely old term; it merely refers to someone who is attracted to more than one gender.

[–] bellsfry@thelemmy.club -4 points 2 hours ago

Actually it originally refers to having two sexes. Aka hermaphroditic.

I really hate how the word “sexual” has evolved in meaning into “relating to the activity that evolved to happen between the two main sexes”. We have the perfectly good Greek root “ero” and for some reason we have gradually muddled up the meaning of “sexual”.

[–] blargh513@sh.itjust.works -3 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Ok but did we really need yet another term that is difficult to distinguish from pre-existing terms?

When you have to write an essay to describe it, that should be a clue.

[–] Planchette_Phantom@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Bisexual is the original term.

[–] Carnelian@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago

A clue to what? That some concepts take more than one second to explain?

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 hours ago

As someone who identifies as pansexual, the distinction i make is that I don't consider gender when vetting a potential partner, it's just not a metric that is part of that decision.

Aside from that, your description here is spot on from what I understand at least. Of course gender and sexuality is a social construct so other people may feel differently

[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Err shouldn't it be the other way around? Ie bisexuality under the umbrella of pan-?

[–] Planchette_Phantom@lemmy.zip 10 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

No, not really. Bisexual is older and not enough people can even agree on what pansexuality is. There are people with gender preferences who still identify as pansexual, which kinda distills any point of the word.

[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 1 points 3 hours ago

Fair enough

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I tend to head canon it as binarysexual and pansexual, just as a way to keep them straight (heh) when running through things in thought

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 1 points 12 minutes ago

That's incorrect though. Bisexual means "homo- and heterosexual" as in, "those that share your gender and those that don't".

Which is the same as pansexual. But pansexual is a term invented by people who didn't understand the above.

[–] thenextguy@lemmy.world 18 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Being a lover of cast iron cookware, I identify as pansexual.

[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 9 points 3 hours ago
[–] jdr@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 hours ago

Pan-sub identified

I dominate all my dishwasher contents

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Wait, wait, wait, pansexual is when you have a love for wide screen photography, right?

[–] abrake@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

Stupid sexy panorama

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 15 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

What are the columns called, the stalactite-stalagmites in this analogy.

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 14 points 4 hours ago

When a bisexual and a pansexual love each other very much... they grow together :)

[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Agender, neopronoun, and nonbinary identities

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 0 points 10 minutes ago (1 children)

Those are still covered under bisexual though. Technically, if you're a woman attracted to nonbinary people, you're heterosexual.

And this is why we invented new and better words.

[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 1 points 6 minutes ago* (last edited 5 minutes ago)

My understanding is that bisexuals select all partners from both sexes and pansexuals select all partners from all genders

Bi-Bi relationships.

[–] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago

This made my day. If Lemmy had awards I would award this post but awards are pointless. So this comment will do. I laughed so hard at this.

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 7 points 5 hours ago

TIL stalactites are pan....

[–] Zannsolo@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I kinda thought pansexual was more open to the whole lgbtqi+ and bi people were more just into the lgb parts of the acronym.

[–] teslekova@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Nah, that's the annoying myth that bi people hate. My partner is trans, and transitioned during our relationship, and I always joke that as a lazy bisexual this is perfect for me.

Really it's just old people (millenials) call it bi, and you young whipper-snappers with your eight track tapes get all pedantic about the sound of the word.

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 1 points 53 minutes ago

I'm into more than two, but not all genders.

[–] roguetrick@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

The bisexual erasure's final form: generational.