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If you have any questions, please ask. I love yapping.

yapLet's say we have some periodic function f. The goal is to represent it as a bunch of sine waves. This is called a Fourier series (FS).

The FS coefficients are given by

            โŒ 2โ‹…ฯ€
         1  โŽฎ         -iโ‹…kโ‹…x
fฬ‚(k) =  โ”€โ”€โ”€ โŽฎ   f(x)โ‹…e       dx
        2โ‹…ฯ€ โŒก0

for whole numbers k. We can then approximate the original function with

  n
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 โ•ฒ          -iโ‹…kโ‹…x
 โ•ฑ    fฬ‚(k)โ‹…e
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k = -n             

and make the approximation better by making n larger.

For non-periodic functions, we can still get an approximation! The Fourier Transform (FT) uses a continuous range of frequencies instead of whole numbers, and the sum is replaced by an integral (the inverse FT).

FT's are used everywhere, for example in signal processing and spectroscopy. If a recording contains an annoying high-pitched noise, we can apply the FT and filter the unwanted frequencies. Spectroscopy separates light into its different wavelengths. By comparing the resulting spectral lines with known measurements, we can determine which elements and molecules are present in stars and planets, for example.

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 2 months ago

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

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[โ€“] RondoRevolution@hexbear.net 28 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (6 children)

Today I have felt genuine happiness through the day after coming out to you all in c/chat. I caught myself smiling multiple times throughout the day when thinking about myself in a feminine way, using she/her pronouns and referring to myself by a new name in my thoughts. I haven't felt close to this way in a long time. catgirl-happy

Last night I dreamed of getting my hair done, trying makeup and painting my nails. One of my dogs gets very loud out of nowhere during the middle of the night, so I woke up a few times, and every time I went back to sleep I got jumpscared by the image of a giant lesbian flag. I don't why because as far as I know I'm bi, lol.

Also I have decided to come out on BlueSky too, but maybe because I'm not a poster it got absolutely 0 engagement. Eh doesn't matter, the cool gay people are here anyway. rainbow-has

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[โ€“] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 27 points 2 months ago (3 children)

gotta reset the "days since men of hexbear have gotten up in arms and nasty over women pointing out mundane features of patriarchy" counter i see yea

[โ€“] shallot@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

Yesterday we were toxically heteronormative. Today we were paternalistically ableist. I wonder what weโ€™ll be tomorrow.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Wait, the other night with the not chaser, or another thread?

[โ€“] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (42 children)
[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

This thread literally has a person claiming that misandry is real and another saying that the problem with "feminism" (scare quotes put there by them) is that it doesn't center men enough

What the fuck...

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I just flat-out treat all men like shit and decenter them wherever possible. Reserving all of my kindness for women and nonbinary people is the only way to ensure my safety. Not my fault that men continue to materially benefit from and uphold patriarchy.

Edit: Reading through the "patriarchy is actually not benefitting men at all" replies once more shows me that i am fully justified in this. You incel mfers can't be trusted around women.

@SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net has the correct take i feel

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[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

fuck i saw that thread in the morning and just knew it was going to be shit lea-tired

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

oh my god that thread is rancid jesus christ. and they say women are sensitive and fragile

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

so fucking whiny i dealt with those brainworms on leftbook when i was a fucking closeted child god how infuriating i guess it may be easier to let it go when you're not a man but good lord

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

in awe at how we got from "men are affected by patriarchy" to "The number of men that actually enjoy any benefits from [patriarchy] is small. Sure, most men get some benefits from it. However we mostly don't enjoy them." and "The patriarchy runs itself and benefits and hurts all genders." IN A THREAD ABOUT HOW TO INTERACT WITH SHITTY MEN

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[โ€“] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

they really can't help themselves, like the very least a man can do on a thread like that is shut the fuck up lol

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

literally, if i felt scratched or attacked by some men are trash shit back in the day, i just knew not to stick my head in

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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I have a character voice I do to squick my (trans) GF out called "French Chaser", it's just saying chaser stuff in a French accent ::: spoiler I KO'd her the other day with from that thread (CW transphobic chaser) "I am attracted to, how do you say, androgynous sexuality" with every syllable of the last two words drawn out

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[โ€“] Sierra@hexbear.net 23 points 2 months ago (10 children)

Hey, my egg cracked and its been a sleepless couple of days. My mind has been racing about how I want to be, who do I come out to, imagining people's reactions etc. Uh, what do I do now?

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[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (5 children)

::: spoiler small win

I went to the store. My sister got on the phone with me to help talk me through it. But. I went to the store. I bought food. I bought good food. Like, to cook. Not instant or frozen, but real, good, food. I didn't have spoons to make it today. But. Tomorrow I will make myself a dinner worth eating. And it will be good. I'm proud of myself. The anxiety was strong. But. I did it. I went to the fucking store. Success. I hate that this is a big deal for me but this is the first time ive gone shopping shopping in a very long time. Even if its a little pathetic, I'm really proud. I'm debating going to the park again today. Ive been doing that as well, and have been proud of my ability to go out and be around people. But maybe not today. I'm tired. But proud. Prouds.

[โ€“] scrungus@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I hate that this is a big deal for me but this is the first time ive gone shopping shopping in a very long time. Even if its a little pathetic, I'm really proud.

I've been having a lot of similar experiences and feelings lately, shit is fucking tough. I can't seem to give myself the love and grace I can extend to others, so to you I say: I'm proud of you too! Good for you, and I hope you enjoy the tasty dinner you worked so hard for cuddle

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[โ€“] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] scrungus@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Called my brother to come out to him, it went well. We don't talk very often and he's always busy, so I texted him to give me a call when he had a chance because I needed to tell him something. He thought it was going to be bad/sad news (it usually is when one or the other of us uses that phrasing) and was audibly worried when I finally talked to him. A few moments of stammering confusion that were a bit awkward (because I'm so awkward) later he understood what I was calling about and I managed to say what I needed him to know

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

secret life tipas a girl you can win any discussion with a guy by calling him weird because there's no response that won't make him look worse doggirl-thumbsup

[โ€“] RondoRevolution@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I came out to my closest friend last night, and he was very supportive of me!! cat-trans

I messaged him 1 am and we ended up talking through text until 3 am. I was so anxious and nervous about that, but he was there for me. I ended up crying towards the end of the conversation. catgirl-cry

Incredibly he always suspected but never said anything because he thought that would be rude lol. I never thought someone suspected but he knew. Truly no experience is individual.

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[โ€“] ConfusedPuppy@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 2 months ago

The urge to be owned but the social anxiety of talking to women

[โ€“] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

sexEarlier tonight I was high and frotting with my girlfriend, then choked on her gock while she patted my head and called me a good girl, then so much more...

I feel alive again, like God if I could just get this every day I think that'd fix me

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

This is the limit of my artistic talents unfortunately

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Im in a different trans group chat with more local people, we do irl meet ups too, and the latest drama is someone left because I said there should be a moratorium on oversized pickups and you shouldn't be allowed to drive anything larger than a 90s ranger size without a commercial license and for strict commercial purposes lol

She loved her pickup more than a possible community (also I think she was shocked by how socialist and left wing trans people tend to be)

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[โ€“] scrungus@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

I hurt my shoulder so I'm taking left over painkillers from my partner's surgeries years ago. We have two different types, one prescribed after their top surgery and one after their hysterectomy. To differentiate between the two I've been calling them the top surgery pills and the hysterectomy pills, which makes it sound like that's their function instead of being painkillers. So that's been mildly amusing

[โ€“] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago
[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

good news everybody, i made enough gazpacho for all!

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

No because why is a cishet man in this mega telling me misandry is real

https://hexbear.net/modlog?page=1&actionType=All&userId=4312310

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[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Holy shit. How do you do full time office work. I'm only doing 8hr days every now and then. But. Its fucking killing me already. I dont know how to do any of this. I dont know what's worse, when theres too much work to do, or too little work to do (theres never just enough work to do). I'm terrified and anxious, and alone all day (I see 1-3 people in my workday, if that, and always for short periods). I can't just... Idk. I can't just be the way others seem to. Either I want to be doing work or I want to go home. I hate this so much.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (8 children)

After a long and good conversation with a friend she told me monkey-typewriter I should spend less time thinking about negative things?

Chat is this real? Is this a thing you can just do?

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

we've had rain for the first time since like may spongebob-party

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Is it tacky to give this person I'm going out with a drawing of her in the lying venus pose? Fully clothed because I don't have that intimacy, but I really just want to draw them

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

i did a half (0.5)-hearted girlmode today and only had one (1) panic attack

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[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

sooooo

items of a sexual natureI successfully took my dildo properly today, like all the way to the base! I mostly credit the new lube I got (sliquid silk), hybrid seems a lot better than water based and apparently still fine with platinum cured silicone toys. I've still got a ways to go with technique and getting my body used to it but I'm proud of the progress I've made :)

I'm also really just struck by the peaceful sense of being tuckered that's overtaken me. I'm really not sure the last time I felt like this but it's great, weird to say but it reminds me of my childhood. my head feels like it's slowed down.

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[โ€“] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

Had one of those days where I feel so cute catgirl-happy

[โ€“] Arahnya@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

got some liquid eyeliner so I can draw a cute little moustache, I think the dorian electra pencil thin style suits me the best however.

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[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Talking with my therapist about a new coworker who will just touch me in passing at times, and how it feels nice that a seemingly normal person is willfully making physical contact and not repulsed by me or anything.

She expressed she's glad that I can have that experience but also taken aback at how I view that as significant, almost like I see myself as a leper. Teared up a bit when she said I'm deserving of touch.

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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

anxiety about toiletsNot me being too afraid to go to the female toilets at uni even tho I have been out since day 0 and I even got a reassuring speech from the course coordinator (she's super cool, I like her) and have never been misgendered in here, well I guess a teacher used he/him with me once, but then once he read my name he corrected it

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[โ€“] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Why do we feel like shit

drinks water, eats and takes estrogen

Oooooh

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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Can't do shit today, I'm so tiiireeeed. Brain is exhausted

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