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Would prefer it to not be "hair" 'makeup" girlish oriented, but rather something challenging for her mind. I am her Uncle, and would like something maybe aimed at DIY outside of Lego if you know what I mean. Budget is small, maybe 39.99? Can move either way if needed

Advice, much needed as a 36 y/o male with no kids

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[–] runner_g@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Spirograph, Crystal growing kit, search for stem toys for 6 year olds, ask her parents what she's into.

I've been doing stem toys for my niece for a few years and she always loves them. She just turned 9 in August.

[–] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

those crystal growing kits are awesome! I might get myself one for Christmas jijiji

[–] RestlessNotions@sh.itjust.works 29 points 6 days ago (2 children)

My 6 year old son absolutely loves the Snap Circuits kits. We've also started teaching him collectable card games (Pokémon, Yu Gi Oh , etc) which challenge his reading and strategy skills. Plus great quality time activity. There are tons of Stem kits out there for less than $40.

[–] 7toed@midwest.social 11 points 6 days ago

Sent me back mentioning those snap circuits lol. Have her build the simple AM radio and watch her mind be blown OP, you won't be disappointed

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[–] Luffy879@lemmy.ml 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Thinkpad thin client with Gentoo

[–] Johnmannesca@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

You gotta make sure there's that little dot in the middle of the keyboard or else it isn't worth it.

[–] moondoggie@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago

She needs a sword. It’s educational.

K'NEX. I used to build all kinds of cool stuff out of those when I was a kid.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

I bought my kiddo a book about robots that came with a simple, buildable bot. It was well received

A microscope

[–] ook@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 6 days ago

If she likes drawing a big set of decent-ish markers could go a long way.

Something like that.

[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Board games. Catan junior, Loopin Chewie, Robot turtles, Tsuro, Abracada...What?, camel up.

Regular price

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Catan Jr, didn't know that existed I'll have to look into what games are around. I know her Dad taught our parents how to play Settlers of Catan a number of years ago before she was born, so that's something that she may have parents/grandparents to play with. She has a brother that is 2 years younger, so maybe they'll be able to play that together soon enough.

[–] RowdyRaider79@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Ticket to Ride: First Journey and Qwirkle are also good choices for that age range. Qwirkle is great because it's simple but fun for all ages. My kids loved it when they were young and still play it frequently at 16 and 25.

[–] sefra1@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 days ago

Maybe a musical instrument, like those blowing organs or a tiny guitar?

Or a puzzle? Can she read yet? Or will soon, maybe a book?

Does she like chess? Maybe a chess board or similar?

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 7 points 6 days ago

Maybe not in the "smart mind challenging" category but there are plenty of craft kits for your budget: paint canvases by numbers, make your own accessories with clay, bead jewelry, basic engineering kits (build your own robot types), dig your own fossil kits, build-this-or-that-with-LEDlights, gardening kits for kids, etc.

My point is to expand your horizon a bit, it's perfectly fine that you want to cater to her intelligence and not just go for something girly in a cliche sense. But she can also enjoy crafting stuff.

[–] Enkrod@feddit.org 9 points 6 days ago

Get a crystal growing kit and grow colourful crystals with her. It's gonna take multiple days and is a great entry to stem-topics.

[–] Todd_cross@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My niblings have liked the Kiwico and other sciencey kits I've sent them

[–] hactar42@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 days ago

My kids love the Kiwico boxes. They have different ones designed for different ages. You can buy a single one of get a subscription where they get a new one every month.

[–] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

There are plenty of brain teaser type toys. Maybe something like Rush Hour or Snap Circuits

Books are always good too. When I was her age I was really into the Magic Treehouse series

[–] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Both of these are great and another cool one is laser maze!

[–] user1234@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 6 days ago

Get her a rock tumbler.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Modeling clay and good quality paints.

Artistic, technical, no real "rules", and a good amount of skill building.

[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 4 points 6 days ago

https://www.smartgames.eu/uk/one-player-games/iq-gears

My boys love this game.

Loads of replay value.

Awesome to also have it to teach others how to play. If she has that teaching spirit, this game is great.

[–] smh@slrpnk.net 5 points 6 days ago

At about that age, I enjoyed putting together dominos runs and knocking them down. I also liked wooden building blocks. Nowadays they have building made out of dense foam which probably hurt less when your baby brother knocks your tower onto your head.

[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

If you want diy that’s not Lego for a 6 yo, I’d go with magnetites. The original brand is best but the knock off brands are good too. Not all brands are compatible, though, so if you plan to get a recurring gift and add to it over time, I’d stick with the magnetile brand.

My 8yo boy loved them at that age. However, they don’t have the staying power of Lego. Why not Lego?

[–] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Why not Lego?

Probably cost, Lego's really expensive for what you get, sadly.

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[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Sudoku book, maybe? If the likes making things, origami paper and an insteuction book? OH, I remember as a kid this toy that was short plastic sticks with magnets at the end and ball bearings ao you would make structures and stuff with em, fun to play with and suits the vibe you're looking for I think.

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

There ar handheld sudoku machines on ebay for like $15. Their quality is likely not great tho.

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[–] toiletobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Charades for kids. It uses her creativity.

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