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Ya girl is getting the hell out of [red state] and moving to [city in blue state] this week! Will edit mega with more later perhaps.


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[โ€“] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (14 children)

Since I just realized that @gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net hasn't posted it this week, here y'all go:

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

GayTuckerCarlson* (8/10 - 8/16)
SockOlm (8/17 - 8/23)
Eco* (8/24 - 8/30)
Shaleesh* (8/31 - 9/6)
BountifulEggnog (9/7 - 9/13)

โ€‹ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

Transmasc meme!

[โ€“] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

men are so annoying and terrible

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[โ€“] sleeplessone@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I admit it. I'm a girl. ๐Ÿซฃ

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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Mentally categorizing every comment as either sh or sex

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (18 children)

Girlmoding for the first time going decently, bit hungry though.

The worst thing to do is shop for cute shit it makes me even more self conscious.

Love the feeling on my legs, going to be hard to not do this again.

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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago

Job hunt is fucking brutal

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Being out for a long time, past the early and middle and late stage changes HRT does (its been 6 years for me!), finished the big surgery, its an odd feeling to be like... done? Of course, Im not, but so much of my life was consumed by the next waitlist, the next call, the next form, the next med switch and now its just the rest of my life. Its a nice feeling!

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

waow-based

i once shared a quote from an academic book on trans-ness that described transition as akin to a career, as an active process that we work at consistently, but i never imagined that couldโ€ฆ end? idk im a long way out but that still is wild

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

This shit really is a fucking career tbh. Except you don't get paid. So it's more like an internship of learning to woman.

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Trans woman who crossdresses to explore her masculine side from time to time

[โ€“] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (10 children)

Well, boymoder eggnog got a dress and blouse. Let's fucking go I guess :) hope this goes well.

Edit: I'd like to add it was my cis woman friend helped me pick out both pieces, and the belt, and was generally great through the process of pointing out stuff for me. Very strangely though she's never gendered or named me correctly?? But is cool with helping me put together an outfit. Bit weird. But very glad for her help.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

Honestly- dress doesn't look as bad on me as I feared. Also I got titties now.

Only problem is really my face but wtf is there to do about that

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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago

LittleKuriboh, creator of Yu-Gi-Oh Abridged, is trans! catgirl-happy

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Cis people are cute sometimes, like when they think chromosomes do anything.

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[โ€“] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago

Just mogged a cis woman wearing the same outfit as me. I am wearing a denim overall skirt with a red striped shirt and a straw hat with a flower. The cis woman on the bus was wearing demin overall shorts with green stripes and no hat. Even out striped shirts looked identical besides for color, it's probably the same brand, idk tho I just got this at a thrift store a few years ago.

But yeah, having a skirt instead of shorts and a hat? Get sauced on

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

::: spoiler diaryposting

Holy shit I'm out of my home for a week or two!!! For reference my home is miserable and my roommates kinda terrible. Now I'm housesitting and god I'm so happy to be out of there if only for a moment. Fuck. I brought way too much like I always do when I go anywhere, but I'm so happy. Gosh I wish this was forever.

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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I want to be the type of poster that uses the trans mega as a public diary but IDK if I have that in me

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

world war one tanks are so weird i love them

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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

Had an awesome date today, I loved it soooo much

[โ€“] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (4 children)

Is estrogen making us get cold easier :p

[โ€“] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (3 children)

Short answer: Yes.

Long answer: You bet your ass it does. ๐Ÿฅถ

I used to have incredible cold resilience until a couple of months into HRT. Then it got worse and worse over time, and nowadays it feels like being dropped off in the middle of Antarctica when local temps start dropping in October. On the flip side, summers don't feel as hot as before.

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (6 children)

i built another gundam

i built calibarn from witch from mercury

fuck the green stickers on the variable rod rifle

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[โ€“] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

What if you had Michael Bay leaves and they exploded when you put them in soup

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

starts rapping about how you shouldn't eat bay leaves, not because they're poisonous but because the spines may cause intestinal damage if consumed

[โ€“] Sword_of_Eos@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (7 children)

transphobia, dysphoria, Blanchard typologycomrades I'm so terrified of being seen as AGP because I'm mainly attracted to women and

In a discord server this bully called someone else AGP because she had a deep voice and the bully posted this awful shitty-looking mspaint illustrated screed claiming inspiration from Contrapoints about Blanchard's typology and of course it was ridiculous, all about how trans women attracted to men all are short and thin and girlish and demure and proper and played with dolls as kids, and trans lesbians are tall and old and mannish and ugly and loud and awful and had 'male hobbies'

But I was totally in the dark about being trans when I was younger because I am ADHD as FUCK and never had any measure of executive control and direction over my life. Of course I didn't realize I my gender might be wrong when the only trans rep in media was fucking Buffalo Bill and Ace Ventura and I was struggling to even wash my body and initiate any social contact. I was allowed by my parents to dissociate onto the internet as long as I kept getting good grades, and I got moved into a school program full of nerds who weren't so stereotypically masculine so I was just allowed to drift off and be nobody instead of trying to be a man. It was a nice cope being no one with no body on the internet, but it all caught up with me eventually.

So I don't have the narrative of "oh I always knew I was a girl", I didn't because I'm neurodivergent and had a weird childhood. And I'm starting late so I'm tall with a gut and don't have the first idea about how to make my voice sound feminine and god fuck. Those awful caricatures felt like they were attacking me directly and I can't shake them out of my mind. I know AGP isn't a real thing and I know I'm a woman and I've started adopting some lesbian language because it feels affirming, but I can't shake those awful images and needed to vent about it

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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

Iโ€™m in my note taking arc. Iโ€™m such a studypilled learncel.

[โ€“] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

sexChat, i need your transbian advice. Remember that girl with the cage in her living room that i was flirting with? Well, i was in VC with her (not the VC were we both had our tits out, that was two days later) and she complained about having nobody to tie her up, so i just went "i would tie you up, i only have to learn how" because, well, i would really like to tie her up and do all the things to her she constantly hornyposts about. Well, at least the ones that are physically possible without serious harm. She seems onboard with the idea, she just doesn't fully buy it yet that i'm going through with it bc it seems that a lot of people tell her this and then chicken out. According to her, the number of potential rope tops and rope bottoms is about 50/50, but most of the tops do not want to invest the time and money it takes to actually become a rigger. She went on infodumping about how long it took her to learn shibari, what to look out for when buying equipment and sent me links to very extensive tutorials (both text and video) and her favorite shop for bondage rope.

Chat, do you think this means anything?

I'm joking btw, i know what this means, it is getting kinda obvious by now. And after she did a quick self tie on camera to demonstrate, i can't get some images out of my head anymore (in a good way). It looks as if i'm seriously going through with this and will learn how to do shibari. I've looked at starter sets for ropes already. It will take a long while to do stuff like suspensions, but something like a futomomo looks like i could learn it in a few months. What a coincidence, that would also be about the timeframe when she's fully healed up from her last round of bottom surgery. Hmmmmm.

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

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Not sure what the specific advice being sought is, but if youre interested in treating you own rope, you can get untreated hemp rope rather cheap, in various lengths. There was a seller on etsy selling hemp (and jute I think?) untreated rope in various lengths called my nawashi (i think? Could be misremembering the name) that was cheaper than elsewhere and decent quality. Plus ive been told treating your own rope is very rewarding, and you can make it exactly like you want it!

Rope is really fun and knots are so interesting, its so fun to do selfties not just for being bound but also for knowing all the aspects of the rope and the knots. I hope you have a ton of fun not just in the tying her up but also in the learning part of it too!

spoiler your future play partner is right most people who say they want to be a rope top dont want to put the effort in to learn it. Hell, ive got a mildly funky body and have given up on finding someone who would be up for binding me (not even suspension which would beโ€“uhh I shouldn't hornypost here... but even just basic decorative or nonconstricting ties). Not gonna vent just like, it makes sense that she's skeptical and also excited ^^

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[โ€“] kittenzrulz123@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

I am still very girl even if the world hates me for it, at least the silly people on my computer love me :3

SHIt's wayyyy too hot here

sexso we all had our tits out in VC yesterday

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

the ying and yang of BountifulEggnog's life:

Bitching and complaining about how miserable it is

Day dreaming about it being better/what could have been

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[โ€“] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

I was out amongst the humans for 7 hours 55 minutes yesterday and didn't even come close to a panic attack. Sooner or later I'll smash 8 hours but the bus comes when the bus comes I guess.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

My day of girlmoding is over now. Good, but long. Had a couple spells where I was getting really down on myself about things. Overall it was nice wearing a dress. No one really said anything to me about it. One family asked me to take their picture and then asked if I wanted to take a selfie with them after which I don't quite know how to interpret. Probably just being friendly. Nice wearing a dress. My tits itch a lot now.

dysphoriaMy body definitely has some issues but I think my bigger issue is my face. That's what I always hated the most. Was a bit weird seeing so much of my shoulders too though.

Anyway it was pretty good. Glad I did it. Not as humiliating as I feared.

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[โ€“] dragongloss@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I am having a hard time making trans femme friends irl. The ones I meet end up either wanting to date me or are incredibly reactionary. cri

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Fuck I'm perpetually lonely and worthless

meets a friend

Wow I feel better now wtf?

Edit:

Having e-sex with the friend also probably helped me with my brainworms about being a "virgin loser". I mean that's not really internal growth and more an external circumstances but well still something.

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago

I want my friend to see this at her own time when she finishes her enjoyable activity

cw:mental health

Developing something of an emotional dependency on the friend. Today I didn't talk much to the friend. What did I do for the rest of the day? Fuck all. I ... it felt empty. In the end, I still have depression and just forming a connection with someone doesn't magically cure that.

I still need a hobby.

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

what the fuck do you mean I need 18 different documents to change up only my first name?? absolute despair the hoops you gotta jump through for daring to be trans

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[โ€“] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (9 children)

A girl wants to come over and show me how to play Magic The Gathering. I have what I think is a head cold. I havent been sick in like two years. Turning her down again sucks.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

I feel weird, lightheaded, off

you should lay down

But then I'll nap chat oooaaaaaaauhhh I don't wanna nap. I wanna get my stuff done. I got packing to do, terraria to play, people to chat with...

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

Autistic girl recommends 4mg een weekly. The "doctor" gives you 1mg oral and 200mg Spiro.

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

What if I'm an autistic nerdy trans girl with a hyperfocus on hormones, HRT and endocrinology and a ~~witch~~ pharmacist?

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