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Hi everybody!

I'd originally planned on having a big effort post, but I've had some Bad Brain^TM^ the last couple weeks so that'll just have to wait until next time.

In the meantime, it's my 2 year HRT Anniversary! These past couple years have also been the first time I've really been in community with other trans folx; I've had so many breakthroughs and discoveries of myself that I don't think would have been possible without that and I can't be thankful enough.

I hope everybody has a lovely week!


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

meler* (3/23 - 3/29)
Shaleesh* (3/30 - 4/5)
Carcharodonna* (4/6 - 4/12)
GayTuckerCarlson* (4/13 - 4/19)
Busgirl (4/20 - 4/26)
SwitchyandWitchy* (4/27 - 5/3)
Disaster_of_Passion* (5/4 - 5/10)
sodium_nitride* (5-11 - 5/17)
peanutbuttercupola* (5/18 - 5/24)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Yall have fallen for my trap catgirl-smug. Been upvoting my posts for a long time ...

[–] star_sparkling_soda@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

HAPPY 2 YEAR HRT ANNIVERSARY!!

I am going to complain here that, that, so much mental health related groups are so extremely and intensely liberal. I really love to talk with others who are also plurals who may or may not have DID/OSDD and such but gosh I really can’t deal with the awful politics anymore πŸ˜΅πŸ’” I need a communist plural server like YESTERDAY! UGH AAAAGHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Also just to complain I have been dissociating so much it is impacting my studies AGAIN <:(

but on a positive note i am learning and trying weh

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If youre using /tttt/ and youre dysphoric a lot you should stop using /tttt/

If it hurts to touch the hot stove, stop touching the hot stove.

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If youre using /tttt/ ~~and youre dysphoric a lot~~ you should stop using /tttt/

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Well it almost goes without saying lol

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Damn I really want to get out and maybe hopefully get a partner. Hopefully this time next year.

[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yes do it!!! It took some time to feel comfortable going out to social events and stuff, but now it's just normal. And we've been starting to build up contacts and have people to go do stuff with spontaneously which feels amazing XD

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[–] communistlara@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

transphobia ig?, mention of suicide and sexual harassmentMy mom found my HRT medication a few days ago. Things haven't been going well.

Normally i take my HRT with me so i have access to it at all times no matter where i am. I kept my usual medication along with some vials in case i was desperate and out of options in my work bag. One day when i was walking my dog, i absentmindedly left my bag at home. When i realized that i shrugged it off and said "nah, it'll be fine" because my mom makes a big deal about privacy and respecting boundaries. Those don't apply when you're 19 and still in the house apparently!

She sat me down and asked me what i was doing with these drugs. I had to explain everything that happened between me and my now ex, how suicidal i was before HRT and why i took it. It was a stressful conversation that ended in me having to tell my mom my partner coerced consent from me several times for their own sexual pleasure. Eventually she said that we'll "revisit this conversation" after telling me i'm "toying with my hormones" and that it'll "get me killed". I'm doing DIY through my own research and checking in w my trans comrades both online and irl, for context.

With the way things are looking i might have to move out, run away, something - anything. I can't let her keep controlling me and i'm not gonna change that by living with her.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

When in doubt, blame the 5G towers! Mom is already 'skeptical' in regards to 5G towers. Who knows? It might work.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

The mtf sub is such a shitshow fuck those mods

Been half wanting to make an effort post explaining the whole situation but just look at tw*tter if you want to see the latest shitshow from the clowns.

Tldr with no posted proof though: one of the mods is a convicted pedophile. Got exposed as such. Head, power mod told her to make a new account and he wanted her back to mod. Mod team is now deleting any posts about this and 10s of millions of people on twitter are reading this fucking story. Head mod is also lying about the situation (including wildly downplaying what she actually did/has been doing).

god I really should just make the effortpost but its a lot fuck me.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Im always a little suspicious of accusations against trans women because they will accuse us of that without evidence and it will be accepted by the public even if the accusation is later proven untrue. Regardless, in this case its because shes a fucking reddit mod not because of anything else that I believe it lol.

The mtf subreddit is definitely cursed, like almost as bad tttt.

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

Oh wow πŸ˜”

sometimes writing effort posts can take a lot out of you, so make sure to check in with yourself!

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I saw the thing as well and quit the sub.

There's also some drama with some raccoon clit magnet girl where the mods have beef with her for no particular reason (it can't be the nsfw, the sub is flooded with nsfw stories).

Unironically, we need our community spaces to be run with democratic centralism or else they get fucked up like this. And reddit is not built for that as mods are basically dictators (ironic?)

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

It's been absolutely wid to watch it play out. The head mod really seems to think there's still a way to salvage the situation. They can lock r/MtF down as long as they want, but everyone's seen how big of a fuck up this is. The sub is definitely not without issues, but it's a helpful place for many. Hopefully a better mod team can get control of it.

[–] meler@hexbear.net 12 points 4 weeks ago

transphobiaA bunch of kids were transphobic to me when I walked by a playground yesterday. And I don't know I just can't stop thinking about the event in a positive light??? It's like. I didn't try to girlmode or anything. I had some beard scruffles and was wearing gender neutral clothes, and somehow they knew I wasn't a guy? Granted, they used that information in a bad way, but they knew just by looking at me walking by that I wasn't a guy. Idk it just feels weirdly nice

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Talking to an acquaintance in a social setting.

Them: do I detect you are a comrade?

(Me lowering filter)

Me: oh yeah I'm a communist...

Them: I'm more of a democratic socialist.

(Filter back up 50%)

Me: oh cool haha

[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

I scored a 3/30 on the self esteem assessment πŸ™ƒ and my therapist said that I'm much cooler than I think I am and then I cried

[–] alycat@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

I chose a really bad time to want to order more e. The only homebrewer in my country has closed shop indefinitely because of that silly media hitpiece, and every time I have ordered from overseas customs has taken it and sent me a love letter claiming that they seized "androgenic substances" (yeh it's basically the opposite of what I ordered lmao).

Feeling glad that I have a reasonable stockpile, but I do need to sort this out within the next two years. I don't want to make my own vials, but I will do it if I am forced to.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Actually coming around to this bra because it's helping me boymode more effectively!

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Stop! This is a happiness checkpoint!

You may now continue

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[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

catgirl-huh my booba are still small but lately they feel more solid, like they don't flatten out when i lie down and i can feel them when i press my chest against a pillow or something

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[–] Muinteoir_Saoirse@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Some of my learners were complimenting my style, saying I always dress really well and fashionable. I told them:

"Every time I step outside, no matter what I wear, there are people who want to kill me for how I look. It might as well be a look to die for."

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[–] mean@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

reddit warned me for anti-British posting so I'm stopping by to say death to the British, may transgender missiles rain down on them anti-thatcher-action

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

stress wtf is going on with DIY suppliers, many of the big ones seem to have gone down in the last few weeks. i hear chud news sources got the spotlight on them recently? i have enough to last maybe a couple more years but this is concerning

if it comes to having to buy from darkweb suppliers that only sell on TOR markets ig i know enough to navigate that, but what's happening rn is concerning

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

Its very concerning, especially with attacks on adult care on the horizon. I don't even care about having to buy on TOR and shit, but will there even be those?

Yea I'm super thankful to have gotten a bit more in. Not sure if I should try and get raws in too or what.

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

I want a beautiful nice lady to take care of me and treat me like a treasured possession or pet :((((

want to be wanted so bad that they'd exert that level of control over me if they had the opportunity

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

what's the name of that one trope where a masked, mysterious character who doesn't say anything, usually an antagonist or someone who saves the protagonist for unknown reasons, gets gendered as male for like a whole season but then has a dramatic reveal where they remove their helmet and it turns out they were a GIRL ALL ALONG??? 😱😱😱

idk what that trop is called but that's my gender

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[–] Ceres@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

one upside of the too-tight sports bras I have (see previous mega comment) is that its both soooo nice to take off at the end of the day and then also a lil euphoric to recognize that relatable experience

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

12 weeks, 13 injections. The amount of liquid in my vial is going down, but it was a lot more than I expected, well, that's normal I guess but it kinda makes me anxious about getting another one.

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

horny posting I guess (it's either this or depression posting)

Marrying a girl and a boy at the same time would be so amazing. The bisexual dream. And then me and my wife will double team our straight cissy boy cutie patotie husband and milk him fr fr crush

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Did you know, I love you? Yes, you specifically kris-love

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[–] BattleshipPokemon@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

i think i need to stop blasting my brain with constant tttt exposure, and remember that im well liked irl, i have a good social life, im somewhat attractive, there's no reason for me to be zapping my brain into incoherence and an inability to take action.

[–] BattleshipPokemon@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

the thread they have up rn for cis men on hrt is pretty funny though ngl, its mostly effeminate gay men taking hrt to stay looking young mixed in with a few chasers taking tren to get insanely big.

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Yes you should

"It hurts when I touch the hot stove" "You should stop touching the hot stove" unless you like being hurt why continue???

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

hrt making me not hungry?? I expected to be hungrier starting puberty again but I've eaten maybe 1200 calories today (most of that fast food too) and I'm getting ready for bed. Going to eat something else before bed so I'm ready for tomorrow dw. On T my maintenance cals are double that. idk why my eating has been messed up lately. Maybe depression, kinda variable how that effects me.

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[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago

My enanthate arrived today! Now I have E for at least 2 years! And I can give some away if needed!

[–] MerryJaneDoe@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Joy! I'm getting back on HRT! And taking a trip!

spoilerIt's a good news/bad news situation. I've given up hope and I'm moving overseas. I don't know how long I'll be able to survive, but I at least want to be away for midterm elections. On the bright side, I'll be going to a very trans-friendly country and I'll be able to afford HRT, which is absurdly expensive in my state.

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago

when chuds refer to disagreeing with the "trans lifestyle" i'm going to assume they're talking about the choice to use distros like arch and nixos instead of more mainstream ones like ubuntu

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

Okay finally something good, Slay the Spire 2 has been the most fun I've had in a game in a long time. I love deckbuilders and this is perfect. Used to love playing dominion but haven't had anyone to play with in a long time. But its PvE, has coop or single player, its just great. Reconnected with a couple friends and have played several games already. Would rec.

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My obsession with making a DIY computing device continues, and I finally went ahead and ordered a display and an assortment of buttons to test for the keyboard. I ordered an hdmi adapter board to help test the display, but I still need to figure out how to convert the display 30-pin mipi dsi display ribbon to 22-pin raspberry pi, and it seems I might be able to just route the signals correctly instead of having to do anything fancy with additional chips? Aside from maybe a display driver on the pi side. I’m new to this stuff and really don’t know, however, so I guess I won’t know what I’m missing until I actually try it out.

This device would also have a cool sliding screen that slides up and reveals a physical keyboard, similar to some blackberry or sidekick style phones in the 2000s. I anticipate this being a major hurdle, along with the display and figuring out a carrier board, but I do have an idea now of how I might do this. I just need to start modeling it up and then get some cheap hardware like shafts and springs.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] meler@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Men with long hair are hot I fear

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