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Hi everybody!
I'd originally planned on having a big effort post, but I've had some Bad Brain^TM^ the last couple weeks so that'll just have to wait until next time.
In the meantime, it's my 2 year HRT Anniversary! These past couple years have also been the first time I've really been in community with other trans folx; I've had so many breakthroughs and discoveries of myself that I don't think would have been possible without that and I can't be thankful enough.
I hope everybody has a lovely week!
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Damn I really want to get out and maybe hopefully get a partner. Hopefully this time next year.
Yes do it!!! It took some time to feel comfortable going out to social events and stuff, but now it's just normal. And we've been starting to build up contacts and have people to go do stuff with spontaneously which feels amazing XD
oh oof I see how I said that now. I was mostly meaning moving out on my own. But yea I mean where else am I going to meet a partner. Social events and stuff does seem scary.
Well we hope that works out too. Getting into a supportive environment does wonders.
I wonder if anyone will even have me tbh. Unattractive, autistic, I don't come across that depressed irl but I know in a relationship that'd be a barrier too. Want someone really bad but never have had someone. Trans woman into women.
Idk I just want someone real bad. And to be out in my own place.
No, uh uh. None of that. The only thing you brought up that's actually unattractive is that you think you're unattractive. Even then that'll attract some people but I don't trust those that seek out people with low self esteem unless it's out of shared experience.
I am unattractive though, worse because I'm looking for someone who's into women. I am not an attractive woman.
Being autistic makes it harder to get into a relationship, it just will. I've been flirted with once and kinda freaked out. It makes all social stuff a struggle, new social stuff more so. Being trans and wlw removes a lot of people from wanting to date me. Plus never having been in a relationship before will probably also hurt me. I fear a lot of people don't want that. I hear a lot of people saying they want someone with experience and who knows how to be in a relationship. And it makes it harder for me, not having that experience.
Depression and my general dissatisfaction with life probably wouldn't be an issue at first but I do worry about it long term in a relationship. Same with my sex issues. idk I feel like a lot of things are stacked against me getting a partner :/ very sad bc I really want someone.