meler

joined 3 weeks ago
[–] meler@hexbear.net 5 points 6 hours ago

Yooo wadda hell happened to my site pronouns? How long have you all let me be none/use name??? I think the secondary pronouns feature is bugged. I can't seem to get she/her, ze/zir to stick making me think it's some kind of off by one error since that's the last set in the list. I'm going with ze/hir on the site for now because I think that's second place for me.

annoying pronoun shitI told several people that I wanted to try a little bit of ze/zir but still no one's used that once. Like yes I fucking love she/her with every ounce of my soul and I would never give it up but it'd be nice to hear the neos every now and then.

I mean it's been a little bit since I decided I was this weird bigender demigirl whatever the hell. I'll take this treatment over being treated as a guy ever again any day of the week. It's not the end of the world for me that my friends gender me as a woman all the time. I just kind of would rather it happen some of the time. Maybe it's on me for not being very clear with what the hell my gender even is. Which brings me to...

what the hell is my gender evenI know the two main components of my gender are woman and agender but I still can't figure out how they fit together. I feel it's some sort of weird bigender but the specifics confuse me. Presenting fem makes me feel so good. Being called a woman makes me feel so good. All the binary transfer shit makes me feel really good. But it's like. I simultaneously feel like a woman and like gender shouldn't apply to me, and I'm not sure what to do with these seemingly conflicting ideas. I'm not really willing to let go of either of them completely for the other, and it's not a sort of gender fluid situation where I'm one for a period and then the other. I'm both somehow, but I don't know how.

[–] meler@hexbear.net 12 points 11 hours ago

I must report that I am rediculously cute today. I should have done my nails. That would have really completed it

[–] meler@hexbear.net 8 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Similar question. 3 card. How can I be gayer?

[–] meler@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That's fantastic news for me, but I'm scared for what part of yourself you've lost by having to use Matlab if it wasn't your genders.

[–] meler@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago (7 children)

If I use C for a project is the trans police going to come for my gender?

[–] meler@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago

Today is a "very happy to be trans" kind of day. I've got a bit of a fever and don't feel super great, but I feel super happy to be a woman

[–] meler@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago

there's not a lump after today so it looks like it might have been a speed thing

[–] meler@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

spoilerHow do I know if I'm not going deep enough?

[–] meler@hexbear.net 5 points 3 days ago (4 children)

injection questionSometimes when I inject there's a lump that lasts quite a while after. It didn't happen for the first few ones, but now it seems a lot more common. They're not itchy, and I'm rotating my sites. What could be happening? Subq BTW

[–] meler@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago

My dance classes explicitly referred to the followers as "ladies" 😭😭 it's so needlessly gendered

[–] meler@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I talked about this a bit on sodium's last dance report but I used to do a ton of swing dance too. I learned to follow and lead and a lot of the guys made it really weird

[–] meler@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is not a drill. This girl has hair scrunchies

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