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[–] naught101@lemmy.world 70 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] Lfrith@lemmy.ca 57 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Email to avoid email providers from companies like Google or Microsoft.

[–] python@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

It's a great deal too! My own domain was 50€ for 10 years, and Purelymail hosting is 10 bucks per year.

[–] turboSnail@piefed.europe.pub 4 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

I’m still using the services of Big Email, which means I’m the product in this setting. From a philosophical standpoint, that sucks. From a practical point of view, I don’t really see any downsides. Surely there are some that I’m just not aware of.

If they want to show me some ads, I have ublock origin and NextDNS to take care of that. What else should I know about my situation?

[–] Lfrith@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago

They get access to all emails used for banking, shopping, social media accounts, etc. Depends on if you are fine with them being able to build a detailed profile off your emails.

Ads is like the least problematic aspect.

[–] mlfh@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 3 weeks ago

Your email is the root of your digital identity, and pretty much everything in your digital life is tied to it. If your email is provided by Big Email, they own your digital identity and it exists at their whim, with no recourse if it gets taken away, compromised, or abused.

If you own your domain and pay for mail hosting, you can at least move your email between providers if something goes wrong, and have some recourse with those providers since you're a customer instead of a product.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

You have zero privacy and also generate power for them to do the things they do, which is gargle trump's sharty grey scrote and thus empower trump

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[–] ieGod@lemmy.zip 53 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Electricity has been a pretty good subscription. Zero sales or promos ever though.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

What? We get sales, like every night.

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[–] remon@ani.social 31 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Nebula is pretty cool, though I have the lifetime pass. Or patreon.

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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 25 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] SupraMario@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

And if you want a double whammy, get keepsolid, it's a Ukrainian company. So you're supporting Ukraine and getting a good vpn provider.

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 21 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

I'm happy to give Qobuz my money for providing an excellent music library and be the best paying streaming service for the musicians that I listen to.

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Your own email domain + an account at a privacy respecting email service is more than worth it. Avoids the privacy nightmare that is using Google/Microsoft for your email, and gives you the flexibility to change email providers on a whim if your current one starts doing anything you don't like.

[–] homes@piefed.world 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Health insurance, if you can afford it

[–] naught101@lemmy.world 32 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Or, hear me out, tax that goes toward socialised healthcare.

[–] homes@piefed.world 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Lmao!

Better healthcare than I’ve ever had for a tiny fraction of the price? You’re insane!

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[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (6 children)

Judging based on what I'm actually paying for myself I'd say Mullvad VPN, Protonmail and a nameless AI assistant.

Edit: I forgot I've got a website too, so hosting of that is another one.

[–] thatsnothowyoudoit@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 weeks ago

Mullvad is stellar. I’ve been a user for years and it’s never let me down.

I strongly disagree on proton mail. If you use a custom domain with a catchall it’s absolute trash. Also possibly the worst email search ever. Don’t even get me started on the proton bridge.

I lasted a few months (about 8) and then switched to fastmail. Worlds apart.

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[–] akacastor@lemmy.world 11 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Kagi is a great search engine that I've found to be worth paying for.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Internet and/or phone service.

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[–] john_lemmy@slrpnk.net 8 points 3 weeks ago

Dropout is one I enjoy and they do profit sharing internally, which is nice to see.

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

None. Other routes or methods exist for just out everything. Knowledge, services etc. stop buying into this concept created to part you with money. We did years with subscriptions not being a thing.

Take the slightly harder path and keep your money in your pocket. Learn how to get what you want without further enabling big tech and the greedy class. Sorry probs not the answer you want.

Only decent one is as above VPN!

[–] SoggySandwich@piefed.social 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's fine man. Just wanted to see people's thoughts and opinions. In fact I personally agree. Hell, I'm watching NBC right now through a third-party source.

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[–] vane@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

Internet, the shit show is 24/7 no need to pay more for anything.

[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 weeks ago

Mobile data.

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

A good VPN that values privacy is a pretty easy answer

Random one, but I get a lot of use out of a boardgamesarena premium membership. I've got a few mates that I can't see IRL as much any more, so it's nice to be able to jump on a video call and play some board games. Only one in the group needs a membership to unlock all the games and it's about £30 for the year. Easily better value than a few hours in a pub

I have other subscriptions I find varying levels of useful for me, but hard to argue for many of them being particularly good value.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

Costco, Credit cards (assuming you can get your moneys worth).

On the nerdier side, Nabu casa, VPS.

And on the mundane, internet.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The only thing I pay a monthly subscription for is domain/web hosting, food, and medication

[–] HorikBrun@kbin.earth 4 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah...my meds for sure.

[–] klymilark@herbicide.fallcounty.omg.lol 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Email, Nebula, Dropout, Borgbase, a domain name.

I also have humble choice, but that's a bit of a tossup. I've found some great games through it that I still play, but most months it still feels worth it to me

Edit: Forgot Mullvad VPN! Love that thing, 15/10 would recommend. Reddit doesn't like it, but also I don't like reddit so whatever

[–] turboSnail@piefed.europe.pub 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

NextDNS.
This way, you can very easily filter out most of the ads on your mobile devices.

If you want to, you can also play this game on hard mode, and start blocking telemetry more aggressively. It can be done, but various apps will stop working. When that happens, you'll unlock a fun new mini game: DNS White List Tuning.

[–] CathyBikesBook@piefed.zip 5 points 3 weeks ago

PBS Passport. Support your local PBS station

[–] Arcane2077@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Dropout, Revolut, power and water

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[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Online backup. Because it will happen, eventually.

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[–] meow@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 3 weeks ago

Mullvad, and a strong internet connection from the spyware company of your choice. With that you can pirate any media, and browse the internet. I have never needed more.

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