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[–] HazardousBanjo@lemmy.world 8 points 17 hours ago

Fuentes looks like an actual rat person.

Like someone genetically blended a rat and a loser.

[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 10 points 20 hours ago

I dont think men want to fuck him either

[–] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 13 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

As someone who is aromantic and thoroughly insular on a social level. This is a pretty piss poor excuse, I may be a virgin but that's because I don't like dealing with folks in general, Fuentes is just a gay Nazi who is so fucken far into the closet he is in Narnia.

Reminder he was caught jacking it to femboy porn.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Femboy porn is definitely a Schrodinger's type porn preference depending on how regressive the maker and consumer is.

Like there's certainly an argument to be made that jacking it to a femboy who calls themselves a man is gay but the point is presenting as a woman and fucking with binary set. You also have to accept that TERFs and transphobes in general absolutely love fetishizing it and would deny their identity regardless.

Tl;Dr you need more context to decide if it's gay or not, but it's certainly not straight

[–] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

That's just confirmed. There's also rumors he was fucking around with one of his Groypers, which given their heavy male tilt is definitely likely to have been at least a little gay.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

And they specifically have their "betas" transition as Trans-inclusive radical misogynists lol. Which certainly seems like an explanation for why we're not hearing much of the Kirk shooter's trans girlfriend.

[–] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Wasn't aware of that snippet, here I thought trans-inclusive radical misogyny was just a Jello-apocalypse bit. Then again knowing how these people are having been around a couple IRL I wouldn't be surprised in the least if there's some weird psychological bullshit mixed in.

[–] possumparty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 hours ago

that shit isn't happening, it's terf shit.

[–] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

And I thought I was a loser, but I managed to lose mine 3 years before him more if it takes him any longer. You have to be really terrible to be an attractive twink and still have no one want you

Pay attention boys: being a right winger will keep you from ever getting laid

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 6 points 16 hours ago

I reject your implication that he is attractive or a twink as well as the assumption that only losers can't get laid, there are plenty of losers drowning in ussy.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago

Well hey...good news Nick. It turns out that the Venn circles of Maga young men and incels form a perfect circle...so you can just stick your dick right through them!

[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

This is why grindr usage spikes when him and his white supremacists boyfriends all meet for a convention

[–] DupaCycki@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"Sex after marriage" was fine until it turned out that no girl wants to marry this spoiled brat.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

His daddy might need to mail order a bride from abroad

[–] froufox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 23 hours ago

you mean "illegal alien"???

I find it's difficult to be around people I treat like shit, too.

[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 58 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If all women are hard to be around then you are the one who's hard to be around.

[–] Afaithfulnihilist@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Yeah when I was a kid my dad used to say, "If everywhere you go, you're surrounded by asshole, you need to take your head out of your ass."

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

My dad said the same thing, except he was always the biggest asshole in the room.

Narcissism is the strongest drug I know of. But everyone was a narcissist except him, according to him.

I'm glad he's dead now.

[–] DaTingGoBrrr@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I never heard that one! I only ever encountered "If everywhere you walk smells like shit, you better check your own shoes."

I don't know which one I like most. Both gets the point across well!

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's a joke in french where a guy visits the doctor, and goes "when I touch here it's painful... and also here.... here as well...." and the doctor goes "show me your finger, it's broken"

[–] DaTingGoBrrr@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

Lmao that's a good one!

[–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago

interesting, i knew it in a longer form: If you meet one asshole in a day, then you met an asshole. If all day all you meet is assholes, you’re the asshole.

[–] Jimbo@pawb.social 121 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Women are difficult to be around

Hmmm I wonder why he has such trouble 🤔

[–] Opisek@piefed.blahaj.zone 40 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Turns out people don't typically enjoy being treated as objects

[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago

Speak for yourself daddy

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[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm guessing very closeted gay.

Not mutually exclusive haha 🤣

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago

Occam's Razor suggests he condemns gays and supports pedophiles because he's just a pedophile.

[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 53 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This man is gayer than Liberace

[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago
[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i should,... try bein easier to be around,..

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you want to be in a room with this Nazi?

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago (4 children)

hm? oh - nonononono, i jus realized that bout myself, thar i wana be nicer tp be around.,.. any that thats prolli the reason there r few peeps around me,,

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 1 points 16 hours ago

Maybe I'm just projecting here (I almost definitely am) but if you grow up pushing your peers away as a defence mechanism, it becomes very easy to keep doing that as an adult, especially if you didn't realize that you were doing it to begin with.

Its a hard path once you've realized this and want to improve it about yourself, but its a very rewarding path to take. I wish you luck on this new journey that you're undertaking!

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Well it took you one sentence to achieve more more self-awareness than this Fuentes guy has in all his 27 years, congrats

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 1 points 16 hours ago

Wait this cunt is only 27? And people listen to him??

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

But 'nice' is not a binary. Smells that might attract adorable puppies might not be so flattering in the eyes of a potential lover.

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[–] Maxxie@piefed.blahaj.zone 30 points 1 day ago

The dude wants fascist feudalism where all the men are fucking each other (but not like in gay way) and women are treated as subhumans.

Basically Swastika Night but unironically

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 41 points 1 day ago

What growing up on CoD lobbies does to a motherfucker

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think Vaush had the right idea about him. Fuentes is playing a character to whip up his followers, who he hates at the same time he needs to cater to. He's obviously had sex at some point and part of him wants to abandon the hell he's created and go to somewhere with a high cost of living (Aspen, CO in the Vaush quote), keep a low profile and fuck all the women (or more likely femboys) he wants.

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What's vaush's argument behind that? I don't care/hate myself enough to watch vaush directly, but that takes seems wildly out there vs Nick just being a little shit Nazi that no one wants to be around.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I don't know Vaush's take but prostitutes exist and there's plenty of conservative ussy with no self respect. He's simply not principled enough to actually be a virgin when he has options and spare cash.

An actual zealot type, maybe. Someone who doesn't care about virginity as a denominator of self worth, sure. This loser? No, the circumstances all point to another conclusion.

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 33 points 1 day ago
[–] PumpkinSkink@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Updootes for Lil Bill. Lil Bill is awesome.

[–] mumblerfish@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago

Because he is more into monkeys than women. He has a whole rant about it.

[–] grissino@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago
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