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[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Defederation means nothing new is sent or received between the defederated servers. Anything old remains.

I do intend to send them a DM soon, but defederation happened first so we don't have to deal with the harassment accounts and so users don't have to be exposed to all the abuse.

 

We’ve been seeing frequent spam waves of targeted harassment from accounts made on programming.dev over the course of several weeks, which has among other unacceptable things contained transphobia, obscene pictures of animals, calling for the victim to commit suicide, and other hateful rhetoric.

For these reasons we are defederating from programming.dev. We may refederate in the future if we have reason to believe there will be no further problems like these from their instance.

Edit: I've spoken with the admins there and I may refederate once I have more details on their application system. To be clear they don't support anything posted by these accounts and are deleting them as they are detected.

Edit: We've refedereted.

Judging by your posts you are in a very bad place right now and you're struggling with a lot of issues related to your self image and your body. I'm not so sure that HRT will do what you want it to do. If your hormone levels are fine then your fat distribution isn't likely to become any more feminine. If there is something wrong with your levels, it will be because of some underlying issue, in which case HRT could even make things worse.

As a cis woman in the UK, you have access to HRT via a GP, which would enable you to get proper specialist support that isn't readily available to us, and everything (other than your prescription) would be completely free. Superdrug & Boots also provide affordable private assessment & support for hormone issues that are exclusive to cisgender women. Handling this via a GP is something I really recommend. If you are unable to get an appointment in the morning, try calling anyway as they occasionally have cancellations available later on. If all else fails, 111 can make an Out of Hours appointment, either with your GP or with a OOH doctor, or they can refer you to mental health services for immediate support.

Places like GenderGP are aimed at trans people who are currently unable to use regularly accessible services, and are significantly more expensive & less reputable as a result. They are also overburdened, with waiting times that significantly exceed a GP.

If you do wish to take hormones DIY, I urge you to take things a bit slower and read up on how to do this safely. Research what HRT actually does and why, and be aware that we take regular blood tests to make sure our levels are okay. If possible, try to find resources specific to cisgender women, as they would be able to provide more guidance in ways that we're unable to.

I wish you the very best, and I hope you're able to get the support you need.

I can't stand the consistency of chia in milk or yoghurt or anything... They get so slimy!

[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I think maybe all the anti-trans propaganda spread by lobby organizations and many political parties around the world had something to do with it too :P

[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

The token doesn't work right now but we regularly check piefed for new accounts and manually approve them. What was the account you created called?

Edit: No accounts are waiting to be approved so we either approved it already (likely) or it was denied (unlikely)

[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

autogynephilia is literally old debunked pseudoscience. some cis women get aroused from feeling sexy yet no one is questioning their gender based on that.

[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

People keep telling me this but where are the citations backing this up?

Thanks for linking the source <3

[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They truly are desperate to replace us

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I can rule her (files.catbox.moe)
 
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Together we RULE (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

Drawing of many rats lovingly embracing one another. Each rat has the colorization a different pride flag. In the center there's a pride flag heart.

Above the drawing you see the heavily stylized text "Together we MEOW, together we MRRP".

Poste restante works. With that we can order to certain post offices and go pick it up ourselves.

[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Dang. I love VC, but unfortunately they don't ship to my country anymore. I would buy some vials otherwise

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