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Was in a comment section about designing games to respect the player's time and mentioned I never finished Hollow Knight because it makes you fight the final boss again each time you want to give the secret boss another shot.

Someone jumped in literally telling me "GET GOOD" and when I told them there were other things I'd rather be doing, they followed up with "so don't get hard games just to complain about." They never responded when I asked them how I was supposed to know exactly how hard everything in the game would be before I ever played it.

Every fucking time. I swear I can set my watch by it. The Dark Souls series has earned my undying enmity for what it has done to gaming discourse.

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[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 51 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I repeat that it's not the fault of Dark Souls itself that this shit happened. Miyazaki for instance deliberately adds various ways in all of his DS titles to "cheese" encounters and otherwise make them much easier for yourself. In interviews for Elden Ring he talks about how he always uses summons and makes Sorcery broken vs bosses on purpose for that reason.

That doesn't mean the design is unimpeachable or anything, but the repeatedly stated attitude of the director that is obviously present in the design of the games is counter to the "get good" culture.

[–] KobaCumTribute@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

And most of the characteristic features of the general archetype are there to make it easier or are these sorts of iterative experiments towards fixing long running mechanical problems in games. Like how the "limited, but endlessly refreshing heals" part was a very successful experiment on how to stop the "I'm saving these limited healing items for when I really need them" problem that RPGs have, giving both a constant pressure of resource scarcity but also the complete freedom to use those resources when you like since you literally can neither hoard them nor really run out. Also lots of checkpoints, making sure boss attacks have clear telegraphs and consistent timings (matched to the rhythm of their encounter music, too), trying to make hitboxes actually match the visuals instead of just being "there's a big damage box around the entire space the boss moves in" like a lot of games do, giving the players lots of iframes to just not get hit at will, giving the option to just have a 100 damage reduction block if they want that instead, etc.

Like the things that most define it as a genre are all these nice little ways the game accommodates and empowers the player, so that then the level and enemy designers can dial up the difficulty in ways that aren't just the traditional "so everything's a sponge that one shots you" way that most games create "difficulty". Most of the complaints people have with them are mostly just cases of the devs either doing a poor job of it or chasing a very specific niche of escalating things to build off an earlier work as just "thing, but more!", the equivalent of like those nightmarish Kaizo ROMhacks for old SNES games like Mario and Metroid.

[–] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 38 points 1 week ago (9 children)

I think anyone who doesn't want accessibility options in games is exhausting. Celeste did it right.

"Oh but it's not the developer's vision"

Ok. But uhhh that's as fucking annoying as getting mad at someone for wanting a salt reduced version of a meal, or adding chilli sauce or whatever. Just let people experience things at a level appropriate for them.

If someone stunts their development as a person by avoiding new experiences or not building skills or whatever you think they'll get from "the vision" then that's on them I suppose.

[–] RandallThymes@hexbear.net 29 points 1 week ago

Annoying soulslike fans also don’t respect the developers vision, or they wouldn’t get annoyed at people using summons / pyro / spells / shields / whatever tools the developers deliberately put in the game.

[–] BeanisBrain@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

"Oh but it's not the developer's vision"

The funny thing is that a very similar issue arose with Pathologic 2. The developers initially didn't include difficulty settings because the intended experience was a difficult one where the player would struggle. When they received feedback that the game was too difficult for many players to even finish, though, they added easier difficulty modes on the grounds that they would rather players be able to complete the game on an easier difficulty than not at all. The game defaults to the hardest difficulty and describes it as the intended experience but it also says "But go ahead and play on a lower difficulty if that's what it takes you to finish the game."

[–] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

I really think that most people should first /try/ things as intended, but people know themselves and even if someone doesn't want to engage with a game at all like... who cares? I might find activating god mode makes games about as engaging as writing "I win" on a post-it note and mashing my fist on it but that's me, if someone wants to play that way then good for them. I play games like aurora 4x sometimes where I literally write software to help me calculate missile engine requirements, many people would probably prefer the post-it note to that haha.

[–] QuietCupcake@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The game defaults to the hardest difficulty and describes it as the intended experience but it also says "But go ahead and play on a lower difficulty if that's what it takes you to finish the game."

And that's literally the simple answer to all this supposed controversy. Doing it this way makes it a no-lose scenario. People who want the developers intended vision can have it. People who need or would like it more accessible still get to play it. The developer gets to be confident that people who can play it as intended will probably do so while more people who never would have been able to play otherwise, still get to experience it too, if a little bit lighter of a version than the "intended" one.

But the "git gud" crowd still bleats and moans and acts as if mere knowledge that an easier mode exists would somehow negatively effect their experience. Which reveals that for most of them it's actually a lot more about them wanting to be gatekeepers than it is about some supposed artistic purity. They should be happy with difficulty settings because if anything it's an additional feather in a person's cap to be able to say "yeah, I beat such and such game on hard mode.!" Like, I get to feel pride to be able to say I 100%'ed Aeterna Noctis, contender for the hardest metroidvania, on its hard mode setting. (For the record, I'm not very good at games in general but I loved that one and so I enjoyed practicing it. I was also privileged enough to have the time to do so). It has an easier mode, and I'm glad it does, for altruistic reasons: I'm happy that more people get to enjoy it, and for selfish reasons - I can puff out my chest and boast about how I beat it on the hard mode.

There is no good argument that any difficult game can't do as Pathologic 2 and Aeterna Noctis ended up doing. Make it clear that the game is "meant" to be played on the hard mode, but give people the option to play it on easier, more accessible modes.

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[–] WokePalpatine@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The director's vision argument is only ever used one way. They always say it if a game is too hard for someone, but if it's deemed too easy by them they have no issue saying the game should be changed to accommodate their taste.

but if it’s deemed too easy by them they have no issue saying the game should be changed to accommodate their taste.

That's literally why i left paradox forums for good, entire forums were choke full of this, no normal discussion was possible anymore.

[–] ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 week ago

this I will always agree with 100%. I’m fine with a game that is hard but not everyone is like me and was lucky enough to be gifted with the hand eye coordination and motor skills that I take for granted. I’m reminded of that every fucking time I play a fromsoft game and end up having to install a mod for large type in the menus, because GOD FORBID someone want to play the game who has poor vision.

And then you get banned from online leaderboards because you had the gall to install a mod that made it so you could actually read context menus and shit. Fuck your vision. Your vision sucks if I can’t actually see it. And frankly I think the vast majority of devs don’t give a shit about adding such features; they’re not prioritized because of the cost:benefit analysis being lackluster. “spending $x dollars on dev time for $y dollars in additional sales, if the projection shows adding accessibility will generally lead to X>Y, why bother?” Kind of thing. But then the worst people ever, culture warrior /v/ trash, latch on to make excuses for the bean counters.

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[–] makotech222@hexbear.net 34 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I just play on pc and use cheats. I don't have much time to waste on repeat attempts and runbacks

[–] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Noooooo, you can't use cheat codes. That ruins the game dev's vision of the game."

Uh aktually, Freedom 0 states that a program installed on a user's PC ought to be run by the user as they wish for any purpose. Therefore, if the user wants to use cheat codes on their game, they should be allowed to do so.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 34 points 1 week ago (1 children)

im old enough to not care about any kind of "street cred" beating a hard single-player game would give me. it's why i cheat in all games where that's an option emilie-shrug

[–] VoidStar_@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 1 week ago

Based and sigma pilled. Being in medschool truly made me appreciate any free time I have

[–] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 27 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Whenever I hear "git gud," I point to the "every game becomes hard when you speedrun it, so the fact that you don't have an any% run, let alone a competitive any% run of a popular game where people actually try speedrunning it, means you don't actually want a hard game experience" sign.

[–] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean doing it fast is one kind of difficulty, I actually think some of the more frustrating ideas about what makes a game a satisfying experience is that difficulty is a monolith.

There's speed of execution, perfection of execution, study, memorisation, self exploration, exploitation of systems, persistence, reaction speeds, planning, strategy, tactics, coordination, parsing a game, pattern recognition, and of course many more and any permutation of any of these.

Chess is "difficult" but chess is (until an elite level) also just very easy and boring. Depends on who you ask and how they're approaching it? Do they seek to master the game without studying anyone else's play? Extremely difficult in some ways but no reaction speed required. Do they want to spend hours of their life drilling and studying? In some respects that easier but it demands extraordinary persistence and tolerance for tedium.

Is COD less difficult than chess? Depends on if you have arthritis I suspect.


At least personally I am never looking for a game that requires fast reactions or play but I adore games that require remaining calm in the face of challenge and not making any input mistakes at their highest levels. I also love games where you have to fill notebooks to solve them. Do I not like difficult games because I will never speed run?

Difficulty is so fuzzy that when it comes some way of ranking "real gamers" or whatever the conversation just devolves into calling each other names and erecting random goalposts.

[–] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The non-shitposting version of my post is that every game becomes hard when you have a challenge run of that game. Some easy platformer becomes super hard if you are trying a no damage run. It doesn't matter if the base game is easy or not. Every RPG becomes hard when you're trying a pacifist run or a naked run and so on. Besides speedrunning, there's also stuff like 1cc runs for arcade games, which is beating the game without dying, pacifist runs, no damage runs, and so on. Each type of challenge run tests for something different, and speedrunning for that matter differs depending on genre. Speedrunning platformers focuses on frame perfect execution and twitch reaction while speedrunning RPGs with RNG focuses on memorization and being able to adapt to both good and bad RNG. They're completely different.

My point is that git gudders almost never speedrun or do any other challenge runs, which is what you would expect from people who actually want a hard game experience. They mostly just play the base game, which isn't even that hard especially when compared to a challenge run of an easy game, before shitting on people like the OP for not wanting to put up with various design choices the game has.

I am of the camp that game devs should give players the tools to make the game as easy or hard as they want it to be, whether it's through cheat codes or making the game easy to mod. Challenge runs should be build within the game as options.

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[–] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

Ironically, Hollow Knight was the first soulslike game I played and it made me realize I enjoyed a very difficult challenge from time to time, so immediately after playing it I started doing some Path of Exile 2 speedruns (never got good at it because the tech got changed in the last patch). Maybe your argument is correct but it doesn't necessarily work on everyone!

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I like Souls-likes, but I do think there should be some quality of life stuff that respects your time. They can call it "I have a job" mode because that will make gamers angry and I find that very funny.

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 26 points 1 week ago

Soulslike fans really are the dark souls of gamers

[–] PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmygrad.ml 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I seriously wish this soulslike fad would finally pass. Unfortunately worst craps tend to have long life, like usian politicians or zombie apocalypse theme.

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Honestly if these comps didn't make damn near every hack n slash like em I wouldn't have a prob. Instead you play a demi god who moves like he was born with rickets and has a bear trap on him and has to do these weird checkpoints i-cant And need stamina bars for basic movements i-cant Fair enough on its own but not every 2 games. How is this fun? i-cant

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

we need to trick them into becoming fighting game players. human opponents are infinitely more rewarding to learn and overcome

[–] puppygirlpets@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago

ngl, idgaf about the "director's vision" of software

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Seen mfs harass and threaten streamers for not playing the game the way they want them to thats-why-im-confused This behavior wouldn't be acceptable even in an activity where they're making money but they do this goofy shit for free. thats-why-im-confused

[–] CliffordBigRedDog@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sekiro fans giving out advice like "to beat this boss you have to parry them"

[–] Snort_Owl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The most useful piece of advice i got for this game was here on sexbear someone told me to stop looking at the bosses healthbar and never take my eyes off the boss. After 3 failed attempts at playing that game i then breezed through to the end and didn’t even die against the final boss lol. In this instance its the only game i ever bothered to “gut gud” at but only because someone actually told me how to.

[–] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's how to beat untimed bosses in general regardless of the genre. And I think this principle is pretty old too since I got it from a shmup guide on Gamefaqs way back in the day. You conceptualize the boss fight as a contest to see how long you can survive the boss with dps being secondary. If you can get to the point where you can dodge every single one of the boss's attacks, then you pretty much win the boss fight as long as you occasionally remember to attack the boss. Even if you only do 1 dps, if the boss can't land their attacks on you, then you win because 1 dps > 0 dps.

[–] Snort_Owl@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Well kind of i didnt explain properly because sekiro isnt really about just blocking or just dodging thats actually a very hard way to play infact its not even about doing damage its primarily a mimic shonen sword fighting anime game. So the way to play is partially learning the sequence of attacks but also in between parry and dodging is wildly swinging your sword. It doesnt matter if it doesnt do damage because damage isnt really important the stagger bar is the real health bar the health bar is a distraction.

What I learned about the game is to not focus on doing damage because if you’re waiting to do damage you’re waiting forever and the damage you deal is way too low what you want to be doing is keeping up the pressure so the bosses stagger builds up, landing a hit is just a bonus but not the objective. Once i learned that the game became smooth sailing because the only way to end a fight quickly is to keep the pressure up.

I was by no means saying anything akin to oh just dont get hit nerd that’s basically just git gud mentality and equally as annoying. What I meant to say is the health bar in sekiro is a red herring and can be completely ignored because its not relevant to winning a fight. If you do infact just only not get hit and wait for the perfect opportunity to land a hit the fight will go on forever and also suck, sekiro is actually very anti that strategy it disincentivises that kind of play.

[–] KobaCumTribute@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Silly as it sounds that's surprisingly good advice for Sekiro, working on the assumption someone's experienced with Dark Souls and the like. In the other games parrying is overpowered but incredibly janky and slow, so everyone learns to either block or iframe everything and only a few learn to parry the handful of things you can parry in those games. Sekiro on the hand relies on staring enemies down and blocking at the last possible instant instead, in a way that's very unintuitive if you're used to prioritizing iframing and positioning to just not get hit.

You can get through the early fights with just dodging and positioning, but that does hit a wall eventually where you do literally have to just start learning the game's core gimmick until you've internalized it the way you have to internalize iframe timing in the other games.

The biggest irony is that imo the best boss fight in the game is a more traditional soulslike fight with minimal parrying and lots of dodging and careful positioning. The parrying is a cool gimmick but I didn't really like the fights that were actually designed around it. Maybe the what was it called? Long-necked centipede or something? That was exactly the right length and amount of parrying for a fight, just a fast frantic burst of parrying everything like mad and then it was done.

[–] Goblinmancer@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

I like soulslike but a lot of bosses boil down to "dodge 10 attacks then hit once otherwise you get hit for 1/3 of your hp" or in glorified Guitar Hero parry simulator.

[–] comrade_pibb@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

gamers delenda est

[–] homhom9000@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I like playing games but it's not my only hobby so I go weeks in between playing sometimes (unless it's baulders gate 3) meaning I frequently forget the game mechanics. I save hard mode till after I beat the game else I'll never be motivated to replay if I know what's going to happen.

The git gud crowd believes paying hard is to hone a skill but I have a very hard time believing playing video games is gaining a skill. The only skill I get is being better at games. It's cope, everyone should play disrespectfully. I've offended all kinds of gamers with how I play my games

[–] Goblinmancer@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Umm sorry my 5000 hours in paradox gaming obviously makes me qualified to join the war room

[–] Johnny_Arson@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

Well the latest counter-terrorism director is a 22 year old whose resume includes grocery clerk and landscaping so I think you're more than qualified lol.

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Mandem bragging about sinking thousands of hours into this shit, tens of hours on forums annoying people to impress other sweaty hogs "see I can be an annoying prick too". By the way they speak with such pomp they make it sound like they perform complex life saving surgery on the regular i-cant Or that one day the military will come to their doorstep to aid them in saving the world using gaming skills like that adam Sandler

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The git gud crowd believes paying hard is to hone a skill but I have a very hard time believing playing video games is gaining a skill.

I think competitive games can teach you skills applicable real life but those skills are largely trained when competing in anything. when it comes to single player games you're largely correct in my view

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[–] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

unsolicited advice

If you ever go back to it, using the unbreakable strength charm (get the money for this from doing the second trial in the arena a couple of times) with quickslash makes the THK fight considerably quicker, and it helps with Radiance too. Regardless of your skill level, by the time you have a chance to beat Radiance you'll breeze through THK so fast it won't be a considerable amount of time. Radiance herself is a fight that I found to be much easier when I approached it very slowly and methodically, first learning how to survive in each phase without dealing damage before I started trying to work in more places to DPS.

[–] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

And you can always go for Nightmare King Grimm too, that fight is pure gasoline and it's super challenging and worthwhile right from the start.

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[–] Snort_Owl@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

We have those kinds of people here.

The two phase boss fight really sucks if its not done well because it turns the first phase into a boring slog very quickly. The best example of this being done terribly is nameless king the first phase is so boring cos it involves just waiting just to get one hit by the dickheads homing missile lunge in phase 2. I beat him but i didn’t feel good about it.

Radagon and elden beast is the other absolutely miserable fight and hated it. Wasnt good or fun i even nohit radagon just to end up chasing this stupid space slug around. The only good example of a good two phase fight is basically a one phase fight where something changes depending on the HP but its still just one health bar

[–] MrGabr@ttrpg.network 14 points 1 week ago

I haven't played Dark Souls specifically, but in Hollow Knight (+Silksong), Elden Ring, Lies of P, and Sekiro, I usually felt like if I really hit a wall, I could just explore another path for a while until I hit a wall there, then repeat until I ended up coming back to the first path, whereupon my stronger abilities gave me the forgiveness I needed to beat the first boss within a few tries.

Sometimes I did hit a wall of a boss with nowhere else to go, and I did have to git gud, but I've found that those tend to be more interesting and fun to learn than side bosses are. But I usually enjoy that process. If you don't, I do feel there's no reason to not get a "give me a gun" option like in Another Crab's Treasure (or mod one in yourself). I never understood people policing the fun of single player games.

^a notable exception to my enjoyment of learning bosses would be that bitchass wizard frog in Silksong from Bilewater he deserved the cheese I used^

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

stephanie sterling was right, there's no end to this madness. the same shit rehashed and rehashed until the heat death of the fucking sun. someone MUST stop gamers.

[–] trompete@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I mean good on you for quitting, I didn't get to Radiance because I quit even earlier after being unable to beat Lost Kin. I do not regret having quit the game when I did, and I had a good time with it.

I played it again years later, and beat Radiance then. These are my feelings about that experience:

Radiance probably took me at least a dozen times. After a while I became quite consistent at beating the Hollow Knight, with full health and all. When originally he felt quite relentless, he now began to feel slooow. I started to get more hits in, really spammed high damage spells, every phase only taking a couple of seconds. That fucker gave me all kinds of trouble but now I'm whooping his ass! Only takes a minute too. Anyway, that was some satisfying feeling of empowerment or whatever you want to call it, and I reckon that's why the devs made me play that bit over and over again, and I thank them for that.

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[–] Dessa@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

They're the goddamn worst

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

There exist various ways to make the bossfight incredibly easier, through the way of charms BTW.

On another note, is art not made for the sake of itself? It's OK not to like certain things others enjoy and artist don't make their art to be enjoyed by every single breathing human all of the time.

Like /gen I don't get the aggrevation on both sides of this argument. It's OK that there are games out there that don't hold your hand and leave it to you to figure out the game and it's mechanics; where it's up to you to experiment and adjust the difficulty not through a slider, but through playstiles and usage of said mechanics.

It's OK to like those games and it's OK to not like those games. I personally enjoy them a lot and think they should just stay the way they are TBH.

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[–] git@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

when I told them there were other things I'd rather be doing,

So go and do those things.

[–] BeanisBrain@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

Uh, I do? I'm not sure what your point is. I haven't touched the game in months.

[–] LaGG_3@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

The twink Pinocchio game at least lets you change difficulty whenever lol. Looking forward to that developer's next game

[–] RedSturgeon@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Minecraft has a creative mode and a survival mode, every game could have something that. Like a sandbox mode

Yeah I guess it might be a detrimental experience for someone who does need an "adult in the room" to watch over them at all times, to make sure they don't switch off from the survival mode, once it becomes too difficult. I suppose this is the type of people who get really mad at you for wanting an easy access difficulty change. It's why they hate magic in souls games also and think it's "the wrong way to play" even though it's sort of a difficulty slider, but it's implemented in a way to make these people not realize it and so they don't whine as much.

There's actually some interesting ways you could approach this, especially if we returned to games having manuals with help, cheat codes etc. I think we don't because of Capitalism (I know I'm sorry lol) and so the easiest solution is just to give the boss 1hp or you get infinite health. Same applies to when making the games more challenging, funnily enough, the boss just gets more HP, usually. I can't really blame the devs it's already exhausting enough, but I do think gaming would be a lot more interesting, in a different world. Doesn't justify them making the game inaccessible either.

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