traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.
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Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.
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Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).
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Bring a trans friend!
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Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.
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Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.
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When made outside of NSFW tagged posts, comments about dysphoria/traumatic/transphobic material should be spoiler tagged.
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Arguing in favor of transmedicalism is unacceptable. This is an inclusive and intersectional community.
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While this is mostly a meme community, we allow most trans related posts as we grow the trans community on the fediverse.
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Boomer alert -
The kids nowadays are young enough to have not grown up with optical media, so you hear a lot about "movie CDs are rotting!!!!" in sloptube comments or whatever. I pretty much took this as a falsehood; burned CD-R/RW discs and DVD + and - R/RW discs do often quit, 'cause of the way the laser has to burn the pits and lands into the dye of the disc or whatever. But pressed discs? Maybe Laserdiscs, but I have CDs from like 1986 that are still in perfect playing shape. A copy of "Decade" with literal holes in the plastic player that still plays and rips perfectly.
Recently though I actually found a disc that might be "rotting", which is a 1997 (or whatever) DVD copy of Interview With The Vampire. The problematic vampire yaoi made me fight to watch it, because the disc doesn't really have any scratches, but the data layer at the outer edge of the disc (where the layer change happens) has little nicks and chunks missing, even though the plastic surrounding it is fine. So my Sony 4K player freaks out when it hits the halfway mark, and skips like five minutes because the data is actually missing. PC drives don't do much better, so like... wow, I wonder if this is a manufacturing defect or genuine rot? Wild though, first pressed disc I've ever bought that had non-scratch issues...
Dysphoria, transphobia/exploitation
Tried looking up "transfemme fashion" on pinterest to get some outfit ideas, and while there were some things that were nice/fine, there was a ton of tr**/d***girl/femboy shit in that fucking feed from out of nowhere.
I don't like Pinterest that much, but I do find it useful for aggregation and was hoping to use it to collect some ideas. Now I know that actually trying to see what outfits work for other trans women on that platform is going to be minefield at best.
Social media is icky. Just scrolling makes me jealous, wishing I were being tagged in stuff, "on the inside" of whatever is happening.
I bought some thrift store capris that feel very comfy and am excited to wear them
general advice for coming out as trans at work? I'm going to ask my therapist for some advice later this week but I'd like to do it by the end of the year but god damn is it going to be a rough time trying to do that
I found this really Interesting FE romhack. Seems really unique and intuitive, I'll report back when I've played more of the game.
Also it's totally pronoun emblem :waow-based:
The Irish knocked it out of the park with mushrooms as a breakfast food. I love mushrooms in the morning yummy
my mediocre amount of meetings that were supposed to happen today have all been delayed until tomorrow, turning tomorrow into an actual wall of endless video calls with no breaks
just did me a huge solid and permanently banned my account with no warning. I cannot even recover the account. Thanks for the push I needed to never go back to that shithole.
Libs are really mad at me because I called Natopedia "Natopedia" That's alright, I'll continue pissing on their garbage takes
OMG. I'm awake at american times, I can talk with people from half across the world. (I couldn't sleep yesterday)
pro tips: develop a crush on a cute trans girl less than a week before learning she has a gf. this is a great feeling to have
the difference in upvotes between the two megathreads is proof hexbear needs another purge
I really want to move to a bigger city and start everything from scratch. Leave all the people and places associated with my my old life behind. But I'm probably just gonna be stuck here forever instead
they should invent a shower where the second you step out you're warm and dry
no new mega? oh well. posting here
wow! having a purse/bag to hold all your stuff in is really nice! not only is it super affirming but it's also really convenient! look at all my stuff in here! i can carry so much on me now! wow!
My gender is βopening my backpack to find 4 different microcontrollers and a bloodwork requisition formβ
Been doing voice training. Reply here, and I will use your comments to voice train.
You can be assured whatever you write, I will say out loud at least once in my cartoon fem voice.
Be nice~
Edit: HELP I'm being feminized by BMF (Binding Male Feminization) posts
Again, just got up.
I'm gonna fucking shoot god for giving me such hairy legs. I'm gonna buy IPL holy shit.
started eating instant noodles that had a rip in the paper top (but the plastic wrap was intact)
thought about botulism and now i'm not hungry anymore
Very normal things are happening
I remember hearing from uh, @bubbalu@hexbear.net that this was in the works but waow.
WOKE BEACH BOYS: well she got her daddy's car and she cruised through the vegan hamburger stand now
sad
My breasts are very small and it bums me out sometimes (like right now)... Its been two years, steady levels (that were pretty high, just got my labs back and e was at 410, when goal is 100-300 (pg/ml)), and still little to no growth. Theyre an AA cup, maybe an A, with no volume. Like, they go out a ways, but have no volume to fill out a bra or look even somewhat normal on my (fairly broad for a woman) chest. I really want to love them but a lot of the time i just look at them and feel sad that theyre so tiny and oddly shaped. Like, my family tends to have C cups or larger on both sides, why did i get the tiny titty gene? idk i dont want a BA for a few reasons, but might get one just to feel better about my chest. Is that stupid and a poor motivation? I feel like it is... Idk... Idek anymore, i just would like a bit more breast tissue please and thankyou
You're telling me this character is a BOY and I've been using this emoji this whole time and NOBODY told me!?
Reading a genderbent isekai and going "god I wish that happened to me"
Hey... Wait a minute
I've actually really improved on the violin, like a lot. I'm still kind of hard to hear practice, but it's not yeowly screeches anymore and looking at fingerings notations every other note. Now I can sight read AND mostly get the note lol. I think I can even graduate to big girl mode and take off the other 2 fret line thingies. My teacher got me to do third position. Now she just has to give me the secret of vibrato!! How the fuck do they do that, they just shake their hands? It doesn't sound even a little nice when I've tried
i am literally just a girl
The idea of coming out is terrifying. My stomach is in knots every time I think about telling anyone outside of hexbear. I told one friend I was questioning a while back and it went well, so I'm not sure what my issue is. I'll try to break down my reasons.
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I worry they'll have bad ideas about trans people. There are lots of bad ideas out there, and it seems like a lot of people don't really care about having good opinions on things. So what might they think about trans people, and what will they think of me?
I worry they won't see me as who I am/want to be seen as. They (family and friends) have only known me as a guy. Will they even believe me? And if I'm just going to be seen as [dead name] pretending to be a girl or whatever... that's way worse.
Some of this might be autism, but I worry I don't know how to act right. I don't know how to be a woman, I don't know how to be trans, I don't understandddddd
Status quo changes in general are really hard for me. Slightly off topic, but the church has traumatized me massively. I was taught horrible things and I have struggled ever since. Its still, years after leaving, hard for me to not want to continue traditions from the church. I hate it so much, but its still hard to let go of. And I guess its kinda the same thing here. I know it is bad for me, I know its wrong, I can look around and see the problems. The rot. spoiler dysphoria Every time I hear myself talk, who do I hear? [deadname]. Every time I look at myself, who do I see? [deadname]. How can I expect better from anyone else? :::
my primary desire for everyone to be paid the same is so the shithead doctors who only entered the profession for money no longer have a reason to practice medicine (most of them)
I'm hiking, which is nice, but my asthma is kindly reminding me of what happened yesterday. The Earth, kindly enough, is answering my prayers for air and sending giant gusts of wind in my direction. I've rolled my ankle multiple times, but it's really nice out so it's still a good time π