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It's going. I'm alive. (lemmy.world)

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[-] Aceticon@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

In the opposite direction, when I moved to England it took me a while to get used to compliment "inflation" over there.

For example when somebody's opinion on something is:

"interesting", it means it's shit
"ok", means it's bad or mediocre
"good" and "great", means it's average
"wonderful" and "amazing", means it's good

I once asked one of the natives how did they transmit the message that they trully believes something was a 10/10 and was explained that's done by going into details on how something is so great.

[-] Zwiebel@feddit.org 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Meanwhile Germany:

"interesting" means it's shit
"it goes" means it's bad or mediocre
"ok" means it's average
"can't complain" means it's fairly good
"very good" means it's great
"really not bad" means surprisingly great

[-] Knossos@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

in Ordnung

[-] Thrashy@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago

My high-school friend group adopted "it goes" from our French class ("Comment ça va?" "Ça va!", roughly meaning "How goes it?" "It goes!" being the common neutral greeting taught in French classes) and I slightly resent it being described negatively here.

[-] Funkytom467@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Even better is, we casually drop the "Comment" and add the accent of a question instead, so it can go like : "Ça va?" "Ça va."

Note that in French we can make the meaning of it vary from roughly 'not great' to 'good' just by how enthusiastic we are. It's really only when we want to express radical emotions that we might stop using it.

(Although someone depressed might not want to express their distress and use it like the expressions in this meme..)

[-] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 6 days ago

I often respond with: “Well, I’m still kicking and screaming.” I don’t know why. I think it got used a lot when I was growing up - someone getting dragged kicking and screaming.
Folks get tripped up by that.

For me, it means that despite the fight being hopeless, I’m still trying.

[-] megabat@lemm.ee 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Fuckin a, man.

So far, so good.

Is another of my favorite responses to "how's it going"

[-] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 5 points 6 days ago

One time I was in a really run-down thrift store looking for anything neat that stood out. A random guy asked how I was doing and y'know, I tried to be genuine enough, but in return he gave what is now one of my favorite replies:

"Too blessed t'be stressed!"

The delivery of it was like he actually meant it. Like he was just enjoying his day lookin' at stuff and nothing could bother him.

It's a good outlook, y'know... especially because at the time I was in a miserable job and often used the "Been better" and "I'm here." Responses because I just didn't have much else in me.

[-] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 2 points 6 days ago

I love stories like this because it makes me reflect on random people I've seen who have stuck in my memory for years who probably never noticed me. Makes me wonder if anyone remembers me for something random like this

[-] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 4 points 6 days ago

swandiving into a woodchipper. Love it

[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

You want to make them stop and process, answer it with "I can still walk, how about you?"

[-] AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

I don't lie, so I'll say, "well, you know..." and if they are friends, they know, if they aren't, that's a clue that they don't want to.

[-] Snailpope@lemmy.world 98 points 1 week ago

My foreman would always say "Love my job" in a happy tone after anything bad happened on a job site. The happier the tone, the worse it was

[-] Num10ck@lemmy.world 33 points 1 week ago

then comes the singing.

[-] Jerkface@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago

"Dear God, he's doing H.M.S. Pintafore. We have to leave. Now!"

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[-] Vinny_93@lemmy.world 55 points 1 week ago

I feel like the one going on about defcon does not know defcon 5 is actually pretty chill

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[-] Hikermick@lemmy.world 42 points 1 week ago

Fun fact: in America asking "how's it going?" is just a greeting, nobody really cares

[-] Knossos@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Germans: na?

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 15 points 6 days ago

Brits ofen say "You alright?" As a substitute for "Hi."

Pretty jarring when you're not used to it. Id think "God, I must look like shit if they're genuinely checking on my welfare!"

[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 days ago

Yeah Tom Scott did one of his linguistics videos about that, he had a word for it but some questions aren't really questions they're basically just rituals, though rephrased a different way makes them genuine questions, and when you have major dialects of the "same" language like British and American English, we use different ones. "Are you alright?" is basically a noise of greeting in Britain and an expression of genuine concern in America, while "How are you?" is the reverse.

[-] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Chinese version 你吃了吗 or variations on that, although it's not used so much anymore. Literally means "have you eaten", except it doesn't really require an answer. I imagine it came up in that video, but it's a good one.

[-] batmaniam@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

Literally means “have you eaten”, except it doesn’t really require an answer.

Grandmothers in every culture

[-] Aceticon@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

When I moved to London, I remember the old lady at the laundromat addressing me as "love"

I was like: "Damn, over here my charm even works with old ladies"

As it turns out, calling somebody "love" it's just a way of addressing people in some English regions.

[-] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 6 days ago

I always respond thoughtfully to people I don’t like. Then I ask how they are and watch them squirm.

[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

be advised: this will not work with the majority of neurodivergent people

[-] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 6 days ago

It me!

Which is also probably why I give this answer. Because it irks me to some degree that we just throwaway important questions like another human’s well-being.
If someone responds without being tripped up, I sorta know they’re my kind of person.

[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

oh same haha, if someone asks me a question they're getting the answer, i don't care that they expected a "i'm fine"

[-] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 6 days ago

I just realized that I contradicted myself. I said that I use this with folks I don’t like, and then that when I use it, if someone responds well, that I know they’re my kinda people.

I don’t exclusively use it with folks I don’t like! I also throw it out playfully. It’s validating when folks respond in-kind.

[-] Aceticon@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

It's really like that everywhere, in my experience.

It's at most small talk, not a license to dive into one's life story.

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[-] Ejh3k@lemmy.world 40 points 1 week ago

My favorite to use: "not gonna lie to you."

[-] Neato@ttrpg.network 23 points 1 week ago

My coworker once when I asked him a hard question: "Don't make me lie to you."

I still think of that a lot and try to work it in when someone asks me an impossible question.

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[-] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 39 points 1 week ago

"I'm doin." -I am not doing well and I don't want to talk about it. But I'm also too exhausted and shattered to keep lying about my mental state for the sake of social niceties, so I'm hoping my vague, neutral statement will either convey what I'm feeling, or you'll fill in the blank with whatever you want to hear. Just as long as you stop asking how I'm doing.