dharmacurious

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[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, as a (maga despising) American who's just beginning to get into soccer, this one... This one stings.

But fucking Cabo Verde! Damn that was something

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 hours ago

Franklin strikes me as a ThisVid type of guy. There's fucking weird stuff on there, and he'd be so fucking into it

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 hours ago

It's a really clever comic! You're one of my absolute favorites, and a huge inspiration for some of the comics (yet to be posted anywhere!) that I've been making with some friends recently.

But I can't help but wonder... Can I trade that trophy in for a man with 8 nautical inches? ;)

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 7 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

The other guy has that worried look because a nautical mile is 15% larger than a standard mile, so a nautical inch would be 15% bigger.

Meaning if he claimed 8 (which every fucking body on Grindr does) he's 9.2 standard inches, and that man is about to discover what it's like to get a colonoscopy

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 10 points 2 days ago (7 children)

"Y'all" spelled "ya'll" bugs the shit out of me. It's my "I'm a descriptivist until..." Moment.

But "we ... For y'all people" absolutely is how they'd say it where I'm from. The quotes around the word read to me like they're shaming them (which, honestly, in the South, I'm sure I'm sure they are), but the sentence structure itself is perfectly in line with how it's normally spoken in my experience.

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 days ago

Man, don't get my hopes up like that!

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 0 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Grew up in Virginia, from and currently live in South Carolina.

Nova and Hampton roads go to 1. The rest of the state goes to 2, but it is definitely not SC. SC actually has black and Latino populations, and a pretty solid chunk of blue voters. Rural Virginia has neither, and is basically east-east Tennessee.

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 3 points 5 days ago

That was the intent.

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 23 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (9 children)

So, in my experience, it's less unhygienic, and more a problem with not covering up their natural smells. Sounds similar, different things. I'll explain me experience with TTRPGers.

All the ones I know who fall into the funk trap are autistic folk, and the issue isn't that they don't bathe, it's that they can't stand those strong chemical smells they associate with body washes and deodorant*. So they bathe, but they use mild soaps, soaps designed for children, or unscented soaps, and they don't wear deodorant.

Which creates a situation where the hygiene is okay, but the funk is still there, once they're all in a group together. One on one, you really don't notice, but get 10 folks in a room for game night, or a couple thousand together for an event or convention, and the funk becomes overpowering.

That said, I do know two that have just a general aversion to bathing, and consistently reek

*Edit to add

Also an issue with texture on the skin. One of my best friends is autistic, and he cannot handle the feeling of deodorant on his armpits. It tacks the hair down, it's apparently sticky feeling, and he just goes into total meltdown until he can get it off. He can't focus on anything else.

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 16 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Nah, nah, nah. Doggystyle, so we can both watch X-Files

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 8 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I can brook the argument that capitalism is the only system that works, or that it's the best system yet devised so long as we regulate it. I don't believe them. But I can understand the argument.

But that it can serve everyone's benefit? No. No it cannot. The system is, by its nature, contradictory. It will always leave one side with less than the other. Profit is created by paying a worker less than the value of what that worker has produced. If my boss pays me to make clocks, and I make 100 dollars worth of clocks in 1 hour, my boss cannot pay me 100 dollars per hour. There would be no money left for the boss to collect (ignoring all the other costs). In order for the boss to make any money for themselves, they must pay me less than the value of what I have created, after accounting for all the utilities and such that I am also paying for. I'll get 20 bucks if I'm lucky, the boss will get 50, and 29.50 will go to utilities, and half a buck will go to a pizza party that will hopefully convince me that unions are evil.

Again, you can say this is fair, or the best yet devised system. But it does not benefit everyone. It benefits the owner of capital, and leaves me with less than I put in.

A worker owned factory could take that 50 that the boss gets paid and give it back to the worker who actually produced it. Or give an additional 20 to the worker, and put 30 in a relief fund for when workers encounter tragedy or unexpected expenses. Or do whatever the fuck they want with it.

The choice isn't capitalism vs the Soviet model. The choice is capitalism vs literally everything we could possibly imagine. The possibilities are endless. Especially with wide scale computer access like we have now. I cannot imagine the absolutely incredible things Tito or Allende could have done with real access to computer modeling and the Internet like we have today. Or the horrible atrocities that would have come out of the USSR having that much information on each citizen. Major double edged sword there.

 

I was just curious if anyone here was a former member of Richard's Animorphs Forum back in the day?

I was quite active there for many years, and I've been rereading the books (I never actually finished them), and got to wondering if any Lemmings here were former RAFians.

 

I have an idea:

OnlyDesks. It's an onlyfans account for FOSS devs. Not a different site, just a straight up only fans account. You sub to it, and you get to watch a FOSS dev sit at their desk and do their stuff. You cannot interact with them, you can just check in on the webcam, like those sites where you can see the cats in a rescue. The feed is randomized, so whenever they're live (does OF do live?), it is completely random which dev you'll get, but you can go back through the past videos to see your favorite moments (opening yet another can of monster energy yet) again and again.

If all the Linux users sign up for the 9.99 a month tier, we'll have the year of the Linux desktop in no time!

 
 
 

Hey, folks,

My laptop broke the other day, and I need a replacement asap. But here's the rub: I despise windows. I've been a full time fedora user on my main device for a decade now, and I run Ubuntu on my desktop that I rarely touch because it's ooooold. I am not a techy person. At all. I'm an idiot, actually. I use Linux because it's cheaper, it keeps my aging hardware alive longer, and because politically I align pretty well with the idea of FOSS. And because I absolutely hate windows. I don't even like KDE, because it reminds me of windows. Cinnamon? Too much like windows! Lol. I love my workflow in gnome, I love that it's shiny and pretty and looks nice. And for the most part, I'm a browser based user. I rarely have cause to do much outside of the browser, except for sail the seas for some audiobooks. Even my papers for school are written in Google docs.

But also, on my desktop or a secondary device, I don't mind having to fiddle with things and get them working, I enjoy it. It makes me feel like I have actual tech skills when I absolutely do not. But on the device I use for school I just want something that works and I never have to think about. I feel like a traitor to the cause even considering it, but I think I want to get a used m1 air. I've never used a Mac before, though. I used an iPhone once, for about 10-15 minutes, and I hated it. But, like, of course I did. It was completely different, and incapable of doing the thing I wanted it to do.

How painful is the Linux to Mac transition? If I'm using an android phone, an Ubuntu desktop, and a MacBook, how awful is everything going to be to switch between devices? Am I going to regret this purchase, or, worse yet, become an apple fan boy and abandon my glorious FOSS devices forever?

Please assist

 

Hey, folks,

My laptop broke the other day, and I need a replacement asap. But here's the rub: I despise windows. I've been a full time fedora user on my main device for a decade now, and I run Ubuntu on my desktop that I rarely touch because it's ooooold. I am not a techy person. At all. I'm an idiot, actually. I use Linux because it's cheaper, it keeps my aging hardware alive longer, and because politically I align pretty well with the idea of FOSS. And because I absolutely hate windows. I don't even like KDE, because it reminds me of windows. Cinnamon? Too much like windows! Lol. I love my workflow in gnome, I love that it's shiny and pretty and looks nice. And for the most part, I'm a browser based user. I rarely have cause to do much outside of the browser, except for sail the seas for some audiobooks. Even my papers for school are written in Google docs.

But also, on my desktop or a secondary device, I don't mind having to fiddle with things and get them working, I enjoy it. It makes me feel like I have actual tech skills when I absolutely do not. But on the device I use for school I just want something that works and I never have to think about. I feel like a traitor to the cause even considering it, but I think I want to get a used m1 air. I've never used a Mac before, though. I used an iPhone once, for about 10-15 minutes, and I hated it. But, like, of course I did. It was completely different, and incapable of doing the thing I wanted it to do.

How painful is the Linux to Mac transition? If I'm using an android phone, an Ubuntu desktop, and a MacBook, how awful is everything going to be to switch between devices? Am I going to regret this purchase, or, worse yet, become an apple fan boy and abandon my glorious FOSS devices forever?

Please assist

 

Hey, folks,

My laptop broke the other day, and I need a replacement asap. But here's the rub: I despise windows. I've been a full time fedora user on my main device for a decade now, and I run Ubuntu on my desktop that I rarely touch because it's ooooold. I am not a techy person. At all. I'm an idiot, actually. I use Linux because it's cheaper, it keeps my aging hardware alive longer, and because politically I align pretty well with the idea of FOSS. And because I absolutely hate windows. I don't even like KDE, because it reminds me of windows. Cinnamon? Too much like windows! Lol. I love my workflow in gnome, I love that it's shiny and pretty and looks nice. And for the most part, I'm a browser based user. I rarely have cause to do much outside of the browser, except for sail the seas for some audiobooks. Even my papers for school are written in Google docs.

But also, on my desktop or a secondary device, I don't mind having to fiddle with things and get them working, I enjoy it. It makes me feel like I have actual tech skills when I absolutely do not. But on the device I use for school I just want something that works and I never have to think about. I feel like a traitor to the cause even considering it, but I think I want to get a used m1 air. I've never used a Mac before, though. I used an iPhone once, for about 10-15 minutes, and I hated it. But, like, of course I did. It was completely different, and incapable of doing the thing I wanted it to do.

How painful is the Linux to Mac transition? If I'm using an android phone, an Ubuntu desktop, and a MacBook, how awful is everything going to be to switch between devices? Am I going to regret this purchase, or, worse yet, become an apple fan boy and abandon my glorious FOSS devices forever?

Please assist

 

Hey, folks,

My laptop broke the other day, and I need a replacement asap. But here's the rub: I despise windows. I've been a full time fedora user on my main device for a decade now, and I run Ubuntu on my desktop that I rarely touch because it's ooooold. I am not a techy person. At all. I'm an idiot, actually. I use Linux because it's cheaper, it keeps my aging hardware alive longer, and because politically I align pretty well with the idea of FOSS. And because I absolutely hate windows. I don't even like KDE, because it reminds me of windows. Cinnamon? Too much like windows! Lol. I love my workflow in gnome, I love that it's shiny and pretty and looks nice. And for the most part, I'm a browser based user. I rarely have cause to do much outside of the browser, except for sail the seas for some audiobooks. Even my papers for school are written in Google docs.

But also, on my desktop or a secondary device, I don't mind having to fiddle with things and get them working, I enjoy it. It makes me feel like I have actual tech skills when I absolutely do not. But on the device I use for school I just want something that works and I never have to think about. I feel like a traitor to the cause even considering it, but I think I want to get a used m1 air. I've never used a Mac before, though. I used an iPhone once, for about 10-15 minutes, and I hated it. But, like, of course I did. It was completely different, and incapable of doing the thing I wanted it to do.

How painful is the Linux to Mac transition? If I'm using an android phone, an Ubuntu desktop, and a MacBook, how awful is everything going to be to switch between devices? Am I going to regret this purchase, or, worse yet, become an apple fan boy and abandon my glorious FOSS devices forever?

Please assist

 

I forgot to post on the day of, but the 8th of this month was my bestest buddy's 15th birthday! He went to the store and picked two toys himself (literally the cheapest toy they had and the most expensive. He knows what he's about), and he got duck flavored biscuits, and went for a ride, and got w brand new bed.

Happy birthday, Monty!

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by dharmacurious@slrpnk.net to c/aww@lemmy.world
 

His quinceañero is May 8th!

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Flannel shirt is fine, but flannel pants are pajamas are only for wearing inside. A T-shirt made of jersey material is fine to be worn out, but thin jersey pants are pajamas and should only be worn at home, so says conventional wisdom.

But, if shirt is made of pant, then it's nice/slightly fancy. Denim shirt? Nice, durable, suitable for a restaurant.

I don't know if this applies to women's fashion, as it seems to have very different rules to men's wear

 

Hey, folks,

I'm potentially moving to SA early next year or sooner. I'm looking for a little advice on a few things, but mainly safety and atmosphere. I'm an out gay man. I know SA itself is fairly blue/accepting, but it still scares me to move to Texas during these particular political times. Can anyone give me an idea of what it's actually like there for queer people? Bonus if you can suggest any non-club ways to make queer friends, especially outside of hookups/grindr and that sort of thing.

I'm generally pretty politically active, left wing. Anywhere decent to get involved outside of just donating to the local Democratic party or something?

My situation is a little different, housing wise, as well. I'll be staying in an RV in Hidden Valley RV Park just south of the city (or similar, but that's the best one I've found so far), working as a CNA until I've made enough to afford an apartment on my own. I don't want roommates, and this is the only way for me to do that realistically. Done the RV thing before, but being outside of the city itself, I'm not sure about safety. So if anyone knows the place, advice there is welcome, too.

Thanks in advance, folks!

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