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Handheld mega is here! I have a few gaming handheld topics I want to yap about, I'll try to add one a day.

First thing I want to talk about is new to me, and relatively new in general, the DSpico! The DSpico is a new, fully open source flashcart for the Nintendo DS and DSi. The whole stack from the hardware, software, firmware is all freely available for anyone to modify and use. Built with an RP2040 microcontroller, 2 megabytes of flash memory, micro usb port.

So that's cool and all, we love open source projects, but what can it actually do? The basic function, for those who don't know, is to load software off an SD card on old consoles (Homebrew, launchers, and of course games). This lets you keep your entire library on one cartridge, including homebrew games and rom hacks. In addition this is the first flashcart to support DSiWare (downloadable games for the DSi), so you can pop it in a DSi or 3ds and play those games, in addition to the DS library.

Some other cool features. It has one of the lowest power draws of any flashcart, much less then the classic R4 clones. You don't need to charge it, it just takes power from the DS, but it does have noticeably longer playtimes then other flashcarts. It has a custom, and very pretty launcher with boxart and everything. Themes, right now I'm using one modeled after the Wii menu. It also boots and loads games much faster then other flashcarts or even cfw (custom firmware) on a DSi or 3ds. You can put GBArunner or other emulators on it if you wish.

More of a "toy" feature that I don't think most people will care about, but you can also force the DS fat and lite to run DSiWare games which was not originally possible. You do need to use TwilightMenu++ for this instead of the default launcher, but you can either switch to TwilightMenu++ for everything or run both. If I remember correctly about a third of DSiWare can run, so no where near everything, but still neat considering the DSi is more powerful.

Another neat aside, Phenommod is releasing a DSpico that has been modified to have IR support. This could be used in future homebrew, but is also used by the Pokewalker from Pokemon HeartGold and SoulSilver. It will work with original units but they are also releasing their own version, for cheaper and with a backlight screen, if you're into that. It also has a better CPU that lets you run compressed roms, even lower power usage, and a USB C port!

The kind of, "default" build by the team has micro usb which is a pain. Although you don't use this port much in normal use so I don't actually see it as a major flaw, even in current year. You can do some cool homebrew stuff with it though. One interesting example I saw was using a DSi as a webcam. But all you need it for is flashing firmware, you can take the SD card out for managing roms/art/themes/settings/etc.

But yea, finally a fully hackable DS flashcart! None of the BS of other carts.


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[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 28 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Please come give feedback on proposed wording for a new comm rule: https://hexbear.net/comment/7459377

  1. Please keep the tone light-hearted. Serious or negative news about trans matters should go to a different community. Exceptions will be made for urgent and actionable news and developments.
[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

The rule has been adopted and added to the sidebar, thank you to all those who participated from providing feedback to suggesting wording!

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

sodium_nitride* (9/21-9/27)
SockOlm* (9/28 - 10/04)
SwitchyandWitchy* (10/05 - 10/11)
Eco* (10/12 - 10/18)
LoveSupreme* (10/19 - 10/25)
Shaleesh* (10/26 - 11/1)
BountifulEggnog* (11/2 - 11/8)
Disaster_of_Passion* (11/9 - 11/15)

Shaleesh* (12/21 - 12/27)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 27 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Gerard Donelan, early queer humor artist. 1989-1991

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[–] RondoRevolution@hexbear.net 23 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (9 children)

Silly me forgor that the trans mega resets every monday bleh

So I'm copying my previous comment about coming out to my mom if anyone is interested in reading it.

spoilerRemember me saying I wanted to tell my mom today but wasn't sure? So I kind of just did tell her after watching I Saw The TV Glow together, she didn't understand it like I thought could happen, so I had to explain.

I cried like 4 or 5 times during the movie, then cried during the credits and ugly cried when she hugged me asking what was wrong. doggirl-cry

I haven't ugly cried in multiple years, it was liberating.

Honestly I still can't believe I did it, but I did!!

She doesn't fully get what comes now, but she said she loved me. I did ask her to stop using my deadname, but when asked what she should call me I couldn't bring myself to tell her the name I liked the most so far, I don't know why, I guess I thought it was silly or cringe. Luckily I showed her the messages I sent to my friend and the name was there and she liked it.

We also talked about a lot of different stuff ranging from prejudice to child birth lol.

She also wanted to tell my dad, but I told her multiple times I don't want him to know, and she accepted it, said she won't say anything to him.

I'm feeling a lot of emotions right now, relief and weight off my shoulders, but at the same time embarassement, and feeling like I'm still just pretending, and that I'm an intruder. I guess the fear of change does that to you, but I'm sick of my current self, I don't want to keep being a man.

spoiler spoiler for the movie I don't want to share Owen's fate, I want to have Maddy's courage. :::

I also wanted to say there's a lot of emotions I'm feeling now that I've wake up today. I feel embarrassed, I feel fear, I feel like I'm pretending and that I'm making a mistake. I still can't believe I told my mom yesterday.

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago

I love wearing thigh high socks and short shorts that show my whole ass and walking around with my partner. I make sure I always walk in front of her when we're going up stairs because I get so much joy from how my ass drives her crazy. catgirl-smug

[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I love going to the store and just being treated like a woman. Fortunately it was almost all women and many were visibly queer so this isn't an ewphoria story.

[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

The only cis people I trust on trans rights are the ones who will bleed with me on the frontline. Anyone else can fuck off with their performative bullshit.

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[–] AntifaCatgirlSuperSoldier@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

[Most transphobic take imagineable]

Cis allies: well, I see the point

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Put on black metal corpse face paint for a concert today

Lit time. I wish I could post my face without doxxing fear

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[–] yune@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

my 2 month anniversary of starting HRT is coming up in 4 days. I'm upset that I waited so long (early 30s). Anyways, I've been buying cool handheld stuff the past few months. The AYN Thor is super cool and so is the analogue pocket.

[–] AernaLingus@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Tweet from jenny tightpants πŸͺ‘ (@halomancer1) on March 3, 2022 at 3:56 PM, which reads "im going to become roko's basilisk but for trans rights." The profile picture is an edited screencap from episode 10 of Little Witch Academia which depicts Diana Cavendish in a blue evening gown and opera gloves half-slumped over a table; the edit adds bags under her eyes and five empty shot glasses.

(seen on Bluesky via Subium here, after which I reconstructed the tweet screencap because compression artifacts make me cry)

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (3 children)

now for something a bit different

by vullen

where's my hrt that makes me grow cat-ears?? catgirl-hiss

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[–] xenon@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

there are a lot of people who (rightfully say) their parents brains are getting destroyed by fox news

but somehow they think that theyre not getting their brains destroyed on twitter

pls get off the nazi child predator hellsite doggirl-grin

[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (5 children)

It's kind of amazing what HRT and good skincare can do even after so long of the wrong hormones and practically no skincare to speak of. Hell I had given up for so long that I wasn't even taking care of my body which caused damage I thought would be permanent. But no. I keep feeling better and my body keeps getting healthier.

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] kisstrel@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I cracked on 9/12 but I'm gonna tell everyone it was 9/11

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago

I told a story about how in my first year I got so black out drunk I lost my pants and didnt know where they were. Now, Ive told this story before and its funny - but now I pass and it was with company that didnt know I used to be a man... so it sounds way less funny 😬

[–] ConfusedPuppy@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Puppy who's clicker sounds like a mouse button click so whenever her girlfriend uses the PC she gets overstimulated

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

is this you? catgirl-smug

or do you want it to be you? headpat

[–] ConfusedPuppy@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 1 month ago

do you want it to be you

...no....

spoilerYES

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

"We're here live at the 2026 Terfie awards to give out the award for Most Transphobic Woman Alive for 2026. We got J. K. Rowling walking up to the stage to coll- IS THAT? BY GOD, IN COMES BRIANNA WU WITH A STEEL CHAIR!!!"

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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Handheld gaming is peak. I think the PS Vita will always be my favourite, but the 3DS is a close runner up. I only bought the Vita for P4G, but it ended up being great for niche rpgs. It was mostly a Persona machine for me, though.

Other gaming stuff - I got a Switch 2 right before the price hike. I'm so excited to play Fortune's Weave comfy Until then, I've been spreading out my time between Fuga on my Switch and Monark on PC.

I also got to play the P4R demo at Pax, which was super fun. The demo was limited to 15 minutes, but things are feeling good and all the additional content that's been revealed (with the exception of no Yosuke romance ;_;) is looking promising too.

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[–] xenon@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (19 children)

girls on here being like "how is everyone getting a wife" "i dont know how to flirt". you are a girl, just say whatever you want a girl to say to you then shove her against a wall and have your way with her.

the number one tip i can give to anybody wanting to get in and maintain a relationship is to be confident (even if you arent actually confident!) know what you want and how you want it, communicate and practice getting better at doing so. relationships are work, they require effort, people cant read your mind

this is also why i say "dating is bad, date your friends". coming into a relationship with a highly specific expectation at square one almost never works, and its much easier to get into a dynamic with someone who you already know!

i am not lucky, i am skilled

this wasnt actually meant to be a serious post (nor is it calling anybody out in specific or related to this mega in general, more just things i hear a lot lol) but i figured it might be worth it to write a little thing, so here it is

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[–] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

thought experiment in which creepy men are boiled alive

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

GOOD thought experiment

[–] RION@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I feel like a cross between a 4 year old and a bunny that someone decided to let loose in a corporate office. How did you let me con you into giving me an office job my brain is the size of a grape and I'm scared of everything

[–] ConfusedPuppy@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Going puppy mode (curls up in blankets and instantly falls asleep)

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (7 children)

If I had an autistic dog woman I feel my life would be pretty much set

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[–] Sierra@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Had first electrolysis appointment. It was way cheaper than I thought it would be, but now I have a third of a moustache left until my next appointment

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[–] scrungus@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I've been trying out a new name that's just a color. Only to realize as I was doing laundry that like fully a third of my clothes are that color picard

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

How could a trans person spend all day on twitter when tumblr exists? I know it's millennial coded but good lord you aren't force fed nazi AI slop on a daily basis

[–] xenon@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

because tumblr is a transmisogynistic nazi hellsite that bans trans women for the crime of existing

obviously its "better" than twitter but that bar is literally in hell

just go use bluesky its biggest problems are being vibe coded and lib (and you can solve the lib problem by just blocking anybody who is one)

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Everywhere but this mega is transmisoginistic let's be fr

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A trans person somewhere in the world may have taken their first HRT dose on 9/11/2001

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

Mega has been up for 10 hours and not one of one caught that I didn't change the dates

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

you sound like a femboy

catgirl-flop I have never been more humiliated in my life.

spoilerthey then clarified that I sound "male" without any hint of masculinity and I actually am feeling better about my voice now

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

Coming out to my parents has helped a bit with my anxiety. Now I'm just feeling normal sad instead of anxious. I was hoping to go out to cheer myself up, but I came down with some sort of cold (or maybe Covid) since I am pretty fatigued.

horny adjacenti show my wife my spicy ffxiv oc screenshots once and suddenlly every time i'm playing ffxiv i must be making porn xxp

[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago
[–] tithonis@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In school again and drowning a little bit. I know how to get to shore and I will be okay but it's been a long time and I'm figuring out what I'm doing from scratch, basically. Send help, please. I'll be caught up in a week or so, it'll just be a little frantic until then. Then I have to stay on top of everything.

Send help. What works for you?

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Gonna head down to my parents place today. I wanna at least see a picture of my Papa. Might go on a run out back. Might take their air fryer back with me since mine is busted. Theyre on a long ass trip so I have time to bring it back before they notice anything is up. I should stop by the library too, that place feels more like home than that house does.

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (14 children)

complaining about datingMaybe realizing that the person you're trying to date is too much trouble is something I should work on. They're cool, I like them in a way but it's so hard to deal with them. I don't mind people having their time, I don't want to talk every day, but I gotta do the whole effort myself and keep them interested? Yeah, no, not worth it, don't think we're compatible at the moment.

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[–] RondoRevolution@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

Went most of today without internet again because of my ISP, but I plan to bring the coolest treats soon (cof cof Petra Posting).

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (9 children)

People are seeing me as the smart organized one and asking me for my notes. Wow, that's so not how I was before. Ty obsidian.

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (9 children)

queers, what do i wear to a semi formal event with family who haven’t seen me since i came out? full dress feels a bit bold plus i have no good shoes, but i don’t want to compromise that much on looking visibly femme… pls help

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[–] xenon@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

somebody casually showing me the 35 thousand dollars theyve spent on gacha games

the bourgeoisie are so terrible with money

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[–] SockOlm@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

I love my hacked 3ds where I pirated all the games I never got to play as a child sicko-fem

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