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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

every cishet man should be have a bomb implanted in their skull that any woman can detonate for any reason

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Figuring out you’re trans by blowing by blowing someone up on accident

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I am dumping this account its weird carrying the name of a fash man

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[–] moss_icon@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Officially 2 weeks sober today.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Just landed a job after a few months of unemployment stalin-smokin

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (6 children)

society if every trans woman was given a 12 gauge and the explicit legal right to kill whoever they wanted

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[–] scrungus@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

I finally realized I'm non-binary

spoilerRecently everything in my head all kind of clicked and I was finally able to say it out loud to myself. Turns out when you stop ignoring all the things your brain has been screaming at you it becomes clear pretty quick. I told my lovely supportive partner and it went really well (they're also non-binary and it was no surprise to them). There's no one else in my life I'm dying to tell, but I thought I'd say thanks to all the nice queer people in my phone for their inadvertent help and support

heart-sickle

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Every trans girl either be fretting over the formation of her armies so much they miss the opportune time to strike, or setting out on campaign without enough food stores before the last frost even hits

-GaySunTzu

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

I'm not going to spoiler tag this because everyone needs to read it

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (7 children)

i love tea. well except rooibos, but otherwise i love em. currently i have some vanilla black tea and cinnamon black tea, i had a bag of berry black tea but i drank it all. I also have some hibiscus, but i need to restock soon.

the store that i order from is doing a summer vacation negative i really like them though, they always send a nice postcard with the tea and it makes me feel nice crush

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (6 children)

hexbear is an online marxist transgender cult

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (7 children)

I can't stop thinking about girlmoding the other day. I looked so much better then I thought I would.

Thinking I might send the pics to more of my cis friends then I planned on originally.

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[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

cw death of a friend

when I was 15 I met this kid and we became instant best friends. I asked him if I could be his best man at his wedding and wear a suit. 10-15 years ago we had a falling out. There's a good reason why I hadnt tried to reconcile yet. This was also before I came out as trans. He never got to know my real name, or what happened to me while we werent talking. I never got to tell him off / or be relieved that we fixed things. I'm so pissed off that he's gone. 😒

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Someone at work asked if I liked tea. I said "yeah obviously, I'm a big t-girl!"

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Someone also said "I'm a dog person" and I said, "oh cool my girlfriend is a cat-person" soviet-playful

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

2 and a half years feels like fucking ages from cracking to girlmoding for the first time. I don't know if it actually is, but fuck.

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

it’s not, i promise. i had about the same, longer if you count changing hexbear pronouns as cracking

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I'm too much of a scrub. I love bubble tea. Specifically matcha and taro flavours.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

being transfem is kind of like one of those Vampire universes where everyone has the same baseline powers, but occasionally people have unique gifts (Anne Rice, Twilight, V:TM etc) CW SexLike this transfem can have multiple orgasms in a row without ejaculating. This one can come from just breast stimulation. This one is somehow still able to get hard and top without viagra.

It's wild and fascinating.

My vampire transfem sex ability is I have a long and drawn out orgasms while only slightly erect and there's often a significant gushing ejaculate, often more than the other girls all combined. But I also can only have like a couple in an evening.

[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I became a tea girl around the same time I started blocking my T. Coincidence? πŸ€”

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Theres a union social thing in a few weeks.... You'll never guess whose terrified of going. I hate being this way, and am so fucking terrified of doing something wrong making a mistake or being weird or something. Shootme

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Holy shit, it's a T4Tea mega

[–] scrungus@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Idk if anyone else would find it mildly amusing, but I've been laughing at myself for how many times I've gotten close to realizing I'm nonbinary before it finally clicked. I am wonder-who-thats-for incarnate apparently. I've been married to a nonbinary person for almost seven years! Two years ago I had an almost identical type of realization that I was bi, but instead of continuing to question other things about myself I just continued to ignore all my thoughts! I have been on this websites since it's creation and seen so many people come out! Etc, etc. Makes me wonder what the hell else is even left for me to discover about myself, how many more long delayed major revelations do I have in me?

[–] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (10 children)

transphobiaan auditor trying to get a rise out of me today kept asking if i'm a man or a woman then pointed his camera at my throat and said "if there's an apple then there's a banana" and tbh i just burst out laughing. i wish there were a non-transphobic way to reuse that line bc it's kind of funny in a "imagine being such a gender cop" way.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

in recent years a lot of museums in the uk have adopted a system where you buy a ticket once and it's valid for the next 365 days. i really like it

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

depressing thoughtsFeeling very depressed and alone lately but trying to deal with it as well as I can. I sort of naively hoped I’d be out of the hole I’ve spent so many years in but climbing out is a lot more difficult than I thought it would be.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (4 children)

CW transphobia. Australia.An elected Australian politician called someone the t-slur and while it's been reported there's been basically radio silence from any major politician condemning it. Which uh doesn't feel great.

Also they've been describing it in the news as an "anti-trans slur" instead of "transphobic slur" which is odd...

You know like almost it's more about him being gauche, and transphobia is maybe a legit position.

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