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Some things for me: marmite + jam on toast together, and name etymology

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[–] Dookieman12@piefed.social 6 points 1 day ago

In the US, almost anyone can walk to the end of their driveway (or some other, similarly close location) and put an envelope in a box. In a matter of days, that envelope can be in any other box at the end of anyone else's driveway in the US, for less than the cost of a bottle of water.

Most US Americans have no idea how good they have it with the USPS.

Similarly, the investigative arm of the Post Office, the USPIS, is arguably the most powerful agency of the US government, as there are virtually no laws limiting their authority to investigate.

[–] johntwinkletits@fedinsfw.app 1 points 21 hours ago

The transistor

[–] OS2Warp@lemmy.zip 1 points 22 hours ago

Closeness with friends. You don’t appreciate it until suddenly they’re gone unexpectedly (for one reason or another - but just death).

[–] antlion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

Hot water on tap. Refrigeration including air conditioning. Laundry machines. Bread. Beer. Fresh Air. The Sun!

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] NotSafeForWorld@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 23 hours ago

Mine is worthless. Close enough

[–] Norin@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Knowing exactly where and when to cite a source; what makes for a good one; and then doing it well.

[–] OS2Warp@lemmy.zip 2 points 22 hours ago

As I learned in college; cite everything.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Silence.

Sometimes it's nice having nothing to interrupt my thoughts. I've never understood the concept of 'too quiet'.

[–] vleep@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

Not having a car with its insurance, repair, fuel etc…

[–] Weirdfish@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

Spending time being out of reach. The power button is by far my favorite on my phone.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Data privacy.

It is so important to understand the basics at least.

Imagine a not-so-far future where you buy some sweets for your neighbor's children, and after a while, after somebody has found the remains of the packaging of these sweets somewhere in a streets's corner, you get a summons to court because they can prove that you were the buyer of this.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The amount of times I heard 'I have nothing to hide'...

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

The only correct answer to that is 'show us your cock, then'.

I was gonna say data privacy as well.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

How ball point pens work. Like a little roll-on deoderant.

Plus the retractable ones. Such a neat little mechanism :-)

[–] Gentryfried@feddit.uk 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like how ball-jointed water faucets work too, which seems similar to me.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Oh my dog yes, playing with one of those in the store, when you can see the ball rotate ... the tight fit, the smooth motion ...

It's almost sexual.

Brass pipe fittings that fit together really well, too. Gotta make sure they're nice and tight.

[–] theskyisfalling@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Pigeons.

We domesticated them and then just discarded them once they were no longer "useful" to us. Now people see them as "sky rats" and are generally pretty shit towards them.

I think they are one of the best birds!

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Yeah, they're pretty neat, what with the GPS and all :-)

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago
[–] Gentryfried@feddit.uk 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Have you seen that youtuber/tiktoker who has the pet pigeon? flatwavelength

Fun content.

When i hear about how usefuo they were in the past i'm always trying to re-domesticste them.

Fun pigeon fact: they can be trained to distinguish MRI scans of people with cancer from ones that don't have cancer.

I haven't but will check it out, thanks for the recommendation. I also didn't know that about the MRI scans.

I will feed them at any opportunity and always have fresh water in my garden available for them (and the other birds).

[–] StickyDango@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lastase pills. Some people don't know it's a thing. I wouldn't be able to eat so many good food like butter, poutine, cheesecake, yoghurt, nachos.. I know there are alternatives but they are not the same as the real thing.

[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

*Lactase just in case anyone wants to find it.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

my boyfriend. it's insane, how kind, smart, and funny he is. but he is so quiet, with almost everyone except me.

This is very sweet ♥️

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I don't mean to be rude but I tried marmite the other day for the first time on a dare and I almost puked. 😥

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I can almost guarantee you used too much. It's a concentrate.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

It’s fucking disgusting. I honestly do not understand how anyone could learn to like that taste.

[–] Gentryfried@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's fine. I might just be a broken person

It's okay, some people like licorice, we all have our defects. 😅

[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

The movie Ishtar, funnier than most Adam Sandler films.

[–] moondoggie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I appreciate appreciation. Marmite comes from the Middle French and was first used in 1581 when it meant “a usually tall covered cooking pot.” And that’s whats I appreciates about you.

[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I appreciate kindness and positivity. I appreciate you.

[–] EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app 5 points 1 day ago

After going without for a while I learned to really appreciate sleeping in a bed. When the sheets are newly washed too? Omg.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I like how so many things are improving and life is really mind-boggling better and more convenient and nicer than it was 20-30 years ago. Food, healthcare, access to knowledge, etc.

But you can't say this that without massive massive blowback, because everyone is convinced of this doomer narrative that everything is worse and getting worse by the day. Like, ok doomer, please ignore all the massive progress. No, let's act like the world is awful and terrible because Netlifx raised their prices $1 per month. it's absurd.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

God this is so true. I laugh at the idiots who claim washing machines, cars, TVs etc were all better back in the day.

[–] OS2Warp@lemmy.zip 1 points 22 hours ago

They might have physically lasted longer but weren’t nearly as efficient or safe as their modern counterparts.

[–] dingus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I'm on board with you. Yes, some things are a bit worse, but most things are the total opposite. All I see online anymore are doomers and I just don't have that mindset anymore. Makes most of the internet (Lemmy in particular) unrelatable.

[–] Gentryfried@feddit.uk 1 points 1 day ago

Lol I think the downvotes show thst you're definitely the best at appreciating this.

I think you're right. Life is getting better, science and tech wise, npbut it might be getting stupider too (e.g managers jump the gun in firing someone because they assume a public LLM service will do the job just as well)

[–] dsilverz@catodon.rocks 1 points 1 day ago

The Commons aka the Public Domain. For some reason yet to be scientifically studied by extraterrestrials shall they make their way to this funny Pale Blue Dot one day, humans fall for the "if the product is free, you're the product" maxim (which is valid to certain extent, especially involving corporations, but ignores the fact that individuals can do things and hand it freely because they don't mind the costs they had doing something they love doing) and struggle to trust a content given free of costs, but the same humans don't seem to think twice before submitting themselves by the altar of capitalism for the same content. Yeah, this paragraph is also a vent in disguise.

!asklemmy@lemmy.world

[–] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

Fountain pens.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago

lol. came to say this. hot/cold clean running water and sewer. This is so beyond belief better than most all other modern things. I could live without internet. I could live without electricity. I could technically live without indoor plumbing but im absolutely going to hate it.

[–] ash@piefed.ca 1 points 1 day ago

My sanity. Imagine how bad it'd be if I went into the streets one day and started talking nonsense and throwing stones at people.

[–] tigermountain@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] MadBabs@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] tigermountain@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Bear with me. It's the value of how powerful a new perspective can be. There's a Cohen brothers movie I really like called A Serious Man. It's very funny but has a weighty undertone to it. The main character is trying to figure out his life and what things mean. He is Jewish and hopes that his faith can provide some answers. He makes an appointment with a wise and prominent Rabbi but at the last minute the Rabbi is unavailable and he sees a younger, junior Rabbi instead. He's taken into his small office with one window that looks over a parking lot. As he explains his plight to the Rabbi the Rabbi suggests that, rather than faith providing an answer, it's his perspective that needs to change. The Rabbi looks out the window at the very plain, ordinary, and normal parking lot that no one would give a second thought about and asks him to imagine a visitor, someone who isn't familiar with parking lots, that when seeing something nearly all of us wouldn't give a second thought about, sees something new and magical and wonderous simply because he's seeing it for the first time with new eyes and exclaims look at the parking lot! I find it a very powerful scene. It's one of my favorite movies.