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Hey! My son is also named Bort!
I get that it's embarrassing, but it shows that you and others care. I had someone almost call an ambulance on me before for similar reasons. Thankfully it did not progress that far and I was embarrassed about it, but I was very thankful that they cared enough to (nearly) do so.
It's part of the job for EMTs to respond to mental health situations, even if they aren't necessarily immediately life threatening. You probably gave them a much nicer call than the ones where they are vomited on by someone who drank too much lol!!
Our brains love to lie to us when we are down and tell us that we are a burden to others. I thought that way the entire time. But we aren't. We are all just confused electrified flesh trying to make our way in the world. We are all valid.
I am hoping the best for you, friend.
Are you absolutely certain the cat isn't your boss tho????
You have a very large cat
Gorgeous! I always loved the pretty colors of fall. Years ago I moved to a place without this, so I don't really get to see it each year anymore. At least the weather is nice by my rn.
Well yeah that's how sprawling suburbs came to be. Most people work in cities but then they are often too expensive to live in.
One year ago if I could have seen where I am now, I don't think I could have ever believed it. One year ago, it felt like my entire world ended. I had never felt anything remotely like that before. It was so powerful and intense and it felt like everything I knew was over.
Slowly and painfully, I managed to heal from it and would consider myself quite happy today one year later. It left some deep fucking scars but also managed some positives out of it. I've tattooed my body since then with various things...some represent my journey and others don't mean as much.
But I'm happy to be here today and I am hoping the best for you all. Time is one of the biggest factors in healing and it's so fucking painfully slow. But your life can grow around your pain.
Buy yourselves a little Halloween candy as a treat this month. :)
I have automatic high beams and they almost never turn on. I don't really think I've had an issue with them not turning off. EXCEPT for one time I was driving around with my normal low beams on as usual and they just decided to pop on briefly to blind the person right in front of me. I felt so bad because wtf???
Weird as fuck how heavily this gets downvoted.
Yes, it does matter in a medical context. Anyone who thinks otherwise is fucking ridiculous and not understanding the nature of reality.
I agree that it doesn't matter in too many other places. But pretending it doesn't matter in a medical context is quite frankly ridiculous.
It's important for people with breast tissue to get screened for breast cancer.
It's important for people with prostates to get screened for prostate cancer.
People who bleed each month often have lower hemoglobin levels that are not as immediately alarming as in people who don't bleed every month.
It's not rocket science. Enjoy not being treated for potentially deadly issues because you think biological sex is irrelevant to medical issues.
Look...express yourself however best suits you. I absolutely advocate people expressing themselves in whatever manner of gender that is truly them. But biology is incredibly important in a medical context.
I love loud colors in vehicles. Shame that most everything on the road is just grayscale nowadays. It sounds like a ton of fun!
My life crisis vehicle ended up being a motorcycle lol!!




I don't think this is a thing that can be solved with breathing exercises. His heart and lungs are struggling to keep up with his excess weight. Weight lifting doesn't really help with cardiac fitness. It's good that he wants to strength train, but it's unlikely to help his breathing.
He needs several things:
I am very glad he is trying to better himself and wish him the best of luck.