Okay but like I like blowjobs and it makes me not want to go down on a girl if she won't reciprocate. I deal with it because I like eating pussy but it's definitely on my mind when it's my turn and she doesn't want to reciprocate.
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Yeah I like going down but I would never stay with someone that canβt reciprocate
I am ~~Spartacus~~ that man.
I'm very fortunate that my partner loved giving blow jobs, she'll even just randomly start sucking my dick unprompted because she's filthy and enjoys it so much.
That said when I met her, she wasn't as keen on receiving but luckily enough I have been able to warm her up to it more, because I love eating her delicious cunt.
Can you ask her to write a tutorial on how to enjoy getting ate out pls, cuz I can suck dick all day long, but the second there's a face anywhere near my twat, I'm instantly closed for business. And I know my husband wants to too, I just... Β―_(γ)_/Β―
Romance isn't dead
I see you are a recent refugee of lemmynsfw
No, just filthy.
You're fantastic. I've always wanted to slap others when they use the word 'suck' as a bad thing. It's like, dude, you don't like it when I attempt to inhale your dick?!?
Yeah I never quite understood why when something "sucks" it's a bad thing, but when something "blows" it's also bad? Yet a good blow job or suck job is the best!
I love giving but my gf hates receiving. How I wish it wasn't so
My wife hates giving blowjobs, to the point where she doesn't even want me to go down on her since she feels bad for not wanting to reciprocate. It's like, I don't do it because I want to get something in return, I just want to make you feel good, haha!
I feel ya. Got a similar situation. She often does not want me to go down on her or similar bevause she does not have the energy to reciprocate. But she still says she wants it. The she keeps saying 'oh you don't have to do all this'.
It's odd but sometimes we do stuff because it feels good to make our loved ones feel good.
Ma'am, I'm trying to pleasure a Lady down here, that's hard work. Please stop worrying and enjoy the trip.
Besides that, I found blowjobs to be boring every time. It just doesn't do that much for me.
Bro, talk to her about getting a Fleshlight. That way you both win. She won't feel guilty and both of you pleasure each other.
I genuinely wonder what that's about. Why is it so much of a sacrifice, why is it any different from giving a back rub (assuming you have good hygiene). I certainly am not bothered by going down on her - on the contrary.
From what I understand, her previous relationships had all been transactional, where the guy made her feel like she owed him for every nice thing he did. She's still working on allowing herself to receive without feeling a sense of debt.
I've dated quite a few women and had a couple of long-term relationships. They all seem reluctant to give a blowjob - it happens but rarely. I've never pushed it, only shown in every way I can how much I enjoy it when it does happen. My current domestic partner does it, but I probably go down on her 10-20x more often than she does me.
But it's also kind of a general pattern that they expect me to take the initiative in sex, and they are relatively passive. One hypothesis I have is that taking too much initiative makes them feel "slutty" or that their own desirability is not confirmed enough. Maybe this is just a part of that general pattern. But what do I know.
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it sounds like she wants to reciprocate giving pleasure in some way, just not that one. give her an idea.
the sexiest organ you can use during sex is your brain, then your voice. communication goes a long, long way.
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Ah.
I think if you find someone like that you'd literally have no time to leave the house.
I get major Tumblr girl vibes from OP
Funny that international women's day is only 23 hours long this year
Is this the first meeting of Muff Divers Anonymous on the fediverse?
aaand weβre talking about men
It's called "bait" and it's what 90% of the internet is now.
im a master baiter, myself.
We had a junior high school office called Officer Bates. That dude hated us intensely lol.
Givers unite.
Giver's delight,
Givers inside of each other tonight.
sorry, most importantly committed and enby. but i think what you're looking for is silty loam, not a man.
69 - the most equal position.
If you fit. My gf is so much smaller than me (more accurately I am much taller/bigger, she is about average size) that it quite literally dors not work. I can barely kiss her normaly without breaking both our necks during sex.
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Is this meme targeted towards me?
Lesbian cheatcode
I don't really like blowjobs, my wife loves giving them. I love going down though, so I just let her enjoy before it's my turn.
This is me, Iβve got a severe oral fixation and eating pussy and ass are among my favorite things in life but itβs not easy for me to enjoy it myself. Although I will concede to enjoying pretty much anything oral as long as the other party LOVES doing it. Iβd rather just have sex than get a half assed blowjob but if someone loves having a dick in their mouth it makes a huge difference
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Love it when they eat you out and are immediately ready to stick it inside
I'm sorry, It turns out I'm not a man u.u
But that does explain why I was so turned off at the prospect of getting sucked (yuck) Because this junk on me is the wrong parts!
The most fun relationships I've had, my own body was hardly even acknowledged and I made it all about what I can do for my partner ^^
Besides, receiving sexual gratification of any kind is aggressively mid to me anyway, because I'm pretty sure I'm on the asexual spectrum.
I want to please my partners solely because I'm panromantic and when anyone i love has a good time i get the warm fuzzy giddy mushy sappy tingles~ :3
Ok, but you still want to suck him right? We talking like a 70/30 split?
Anywhoots yea I know the feeling. Horndogs unite! (And also perform large amounts of cunnilingus/felatio)
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