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What made you choose your Fediverse Instance?

Why did you choose your Fediverse Instance, does it have a bigger meaning than it was a bigger instance or was it for a certain reason? Did you have to be on your instance you chose?

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[–] pomegranatefern@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago

I was looking over instances sorted by uptime, saw one that had high uptime, a lot of users, and a literal promise that shit will just work in its name. I did a bit of scoping to see that it was easy to view communities across all instances from SJW and figured, fuck it, seems like as good a choice as any.

[–] rockandsock@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I just picked the biggest one this time. I've had 3 others shut down on me since I've been using Lemmy.

[–] Atomic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 hours ago

I picked one at random. Then I quickly realised .ml is nuts so I picked a different random one. How do I feel about about my instance? No strong feelings one way or the other. It's ok I guess

[–] ragingHungryPanda@piefed.keyboardvagabond.com 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I wanted a place for the digital nomad and travel niche, so I made it. I'm hoping to have resources like maps, tips, and other things like blogs

check out the communities https://piefed.keyboardvagabond.com/communities?home_select=local

there's also [pixelfed](https://pixel/ fed.keyboardvagabobd.com) and mastodon, though it's been a bit harder to get them as full with content

[–] 100_kg_90_de_belin@feddit.it 3 points 10 hours ago

It's located in my country.

[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

It worked, and was better than my previous instance.

I have problems with control and lack of choice, when my first instance started de-federating willy nilly I started growing distaste on it. To me it wasn't about what /was/ being censored, to me it was the fact that they were doing so in the first place, while doing so with very little public input. It gave really large Karen/power trip vibes and made me feel like at the end of the day, they didn't really care about the userbase.

[–] GalacticSushi@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 13 hours ago

Gender dysphoria

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 12 hours ago

The other furry instance shut down. 😞

[–] Lor@mander.xyz 2 points 10 hours ago

i chose mander.xyz because they do not de-federate or block any instances (other than threads) - I would like the opportunity to do my own censoring. That said, it is a great instance with good up time and hosted communities. Science FTW. A++

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 22 points 18 hours ago

It would be weird to host an instance without using it...

[–] AstroLightz@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Dring the Reddit Migration, this was the first one I heard about, so I picked it. Haven't been bothered to change it since.

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[–] smh@slrpnk.net 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

Slrpnk was down for a few days and the admin was super transparent about what was going on (iirc, they were on a business trip and something happened to their home server that needed a physical button press). I was happy with that level of communication, and occasional down time is good for getting out and touching grass.

edit: I was on sdf before, but they're a lot less transparent about maintenance issues.

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[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 24 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 7 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I migrated during Reddit's API debacle. I picked sh.itjust.works for several reasons:

  • No email required to sign up (at the time)
  • Hosted the only NonCredibleDefense community on Lemmy (at the time)
  • Had almost no defederated instances (at the time)
  • Consistent uptime (was 99% at the time and still not far off)
  • Hosted in Canada but accepting of US citizens
  • Powered by 98% renewable energy
  • TheDude abides

While some things have changed like defederating from more servers, it's left up to a vote by users of the server and the vote doesn't get proposed unless there's a good reason (such as a server being Nazi-friendly or constantly harassing/trolling users)

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[–] Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 13 hours ago
[–] kn0wmad1c@programming.dev 7 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Tja@programming.dev 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Same. Well, was. Still at heart.

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world 14 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (3 children)

I didn't give a shit

My account on the old nsfw stopped working because apparently someone shit the bed or stopped doing something or whatever

It's not something that I care about, so I just did whatever

I have no idea what instance I'm on

I don't ever know what instances are, or what difference it makes

[–] bonenode@piefed.social 6 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

You know, I actually love reading this. People complain a lot about how complicated the fediverse/lemmy/whatever is and they cannot even sign up, yada yada. And yet here you are, not giving a damn about it all and still you manages to make an account and you are here. Kudos to you!

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[–] sveltecider@lemmy.ca 5 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Supporting Canadian because I am Canadian.

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Same except I prefer piefed to lemmy so I’m on piefed.ca

[–] sveltecider@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

what even is the difference idek at this point

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

For me the biggest difference is that it organizes different crossposts into a single unit. So if the same link is posted in several different communities you can see the comments for each post in the same comment section. Whereas on lemmy you might see duplicate posts with the same link and the comments would be scattered between them.

Piefed also has emoji reactions (kind of like Discord) whereas lemmy just has upvotes/downvotes

[–] sveltecider@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Well time to wait however long to get approved.

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Welcome to the dark side

Note that these features aren't always supported on every mobile app. For cross posts I recommend trying out the Mlem app. Interstellar works too for that but it's not as nice of a user experience in my opinion. Emojis aren't supported in any of the major apps yet (at least not that I know of) but if you're a big emojis fan and want to see them then you can use the mobile website and it should work.

Have fun!

[–] sveltecider@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I already use mlem for lemmy

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 1 points 3 hours ago
[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 2 points 12 hours ago

Same. But for Mastodon I went with tech.lgbt, which honestly is a way stronger overlap of my identity and interests.

[–] kreskin@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

.world was the biggest one. I have since switched to one that doesnt have abusive zionist mods in news and worldnews (looking at you, jordanlund), but I still come back to .world periodically when I dont see much new content on the instance I like. Mods moderating to support their own biases can ruin a site.

[–] reksas@sopuli.xyz 12 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

maintainer is from my country, rules are good and reasonable, nice local content, no local drama

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[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

It was the first one I saw that didn't have a "silly" name.

[–] LeapSecond@lemmy.zip 9 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Very small blocked list and doesn't block NSFW. Users should make their own choices. Also awesome stats every month.

This is probably the first sharkey post I see on lemmy. It looks really good, nice.

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[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 10 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I'm a trekkie, so startrek.website it was.

[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Welcome! Where no Lemming has gone before! 🖖

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

so I liked kbin a lot and it was cause of ernest and what he was doing. then when it kinda fell apart I joined a small mbin instance based on what they guy who runs it wrote which was mostly just about being very much against censorship. Then piefed came about and what im on now is kinda the main instance and honestly its about the devs again who just were passionate about making something great and really expanding capabilities and such. I use a web portal and mostly im following the features I guess with features being things that put as much control in the hands of the user as possible.

[–] fedicate@break3.social 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah it was sad seeing Kbin fall apart, tried Mbin and it's great but doesn't have the same feel in some ways sadly, Maybe the project could get a heart and grow in there own direction in the future as there's so many things they could do to become a great all around Instance but heard amazing things about Piefed and it's on the list of Software I hope to visit and try out in the near future.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 11 hours ago

yeah mbin forked because earnest was a bit to controlling but honestly it kinda felt like a good mmo in maintenance mode. Piefed is sorta the best of both as while it certainly has some stand out hard working devs it also has a development community talking and trying to make it and taking feedback. Seriously I have not paid attention at times only to find out there were a bunch more options in the configs and im like woa.

[–] exaybachae@startrek.website 2 points 13 hours ago

I got into a fight in a bar, and some guy showed up, intervened, then hung out and kinda insisted I follow in my father's footsteps. I was like, meh, but I had nothing better to do, so I signed up.

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 8 points 18 hours ago

I heard people I respect talk about it in ways I enjoyed :)

The public feed, rules, etc. also looked like a good match for me. And I'm absolutely grateful to be able to post from here!

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