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[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 17 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I've seen him perform! Stage name is Miranda Warning. Oh that's right, never mind, still not a drag queen.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 hours ago

For me personally, I'm not sure I'd bother unless it was a medical necessity. And I definitely don't want to be one of those much older guys who has the musculature of a 26-year old bodybuilder. I find it unattractive and off-putting, so if it is under my control, I wouldn't want to look like that or have to live the type of lifestyle required to arrive there and maintain it. On the other hand, I don't want to be the type of guy who would benefit from it but not get treatment because of shame, lots of that going on, too.

Biggest thing for me, having known a number of cis men getting treatment, is that it really needs to be medically supervised. I know it's anecdotal, but it seems like side effects are very common, and there are a lot of very serious potential health problems that can occur.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 hours ago

On average, I find the less precise my predictions, the more accurate they become and the more precise my predictions, the less accurate they become.

So rather than predict that I'm 54.3% accurate, I'll just say it's probably roughly half the time at a minimum.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 14 points 3 hours ago

I've kind of been on both sides of this.

For me, returning to and then leaving my home town triggers feelings of melancholy but also relief. I didn't grow up in a stable, solidly middle-class (or higher) lifestyle, so I'm sure that's a factor.

While I had a good childhood and loving parents, things got complicated the older I became. And even when I happen upon a reminder of the good times or a fond memory, way too often it's tainted by how fucked up things were at the time.

On the other hand, "the kids" ... it's wonderful when they're home for summer. When they're at my house, at least I know they are safe, happy, and that all their needs are being met, in as much as possible. It's sad to see them go, when I know it's going to be months before they're back.

But also, it's a sigh of relief when my life can go back to being on my terms sans drama and chaos. It's almost total bliss when I can go out to the kitchen in my undies for a cup of coffee fully confident that the milk jug won't be sitting in the fridge completely empty (or with a minuscule amount of milk remaining so as to be practically useless but also technically not empty).

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 hours ago

What’s the average price for an insurance for a middle class person living in a big city?

In the USA, shit's so convoluted that it's highly debatable whether average price is relevant. But, also, good luck finding someone willing to track that info down, assuming it even exists.

The costs depend on what state you live in, whether you're getting insurance through your employer or the open market, whether you're getting family or individual coverage, and a myriad other factors.

For insurance through your employer -- The employer usually gets a group discount on a set of plans that range from shitty coverage to slightly less shitty, a range of costs based on how much the employer is willing to pay for each plan as a "benefit" to employees, and whatever other add-ons the employee selects (ex: dental, vision).

I don't have average data, but I've paid as little as $50 a month for employer sponsored insurance, but it was the shittiest shit tier of insurance that was basically worthless (and that was over a decade ago). For my last few employers, the employee paid part of the plans seemed to be in the $200 to $400 range, again depending on the plan and the options selected.

For open market -- This is even more complicated and complex. But basically everybody can get it through some version of what's known as Obamacare or ACA. Costs and plans available vary from state to state. Technically, individuals are on the hook for the entire cost of the plans. In my area, when I last checked, there were a few options as low as $350 USD (but they were utterly terrible) to $2,500+ USD for ultra-premium plans. The caveat here is that the cost of these plans is partly based on income. So, in my state, basically everybody making below $60,000 USD (or so) gets a discounted rate (or rebate on taxes at the end of the year), such that people in the lowest income bracket can get health insurance for free or close to it.

Does families get an all-in-one or it’s different for any single person?

Cost-wise, there's a different price for individual insurance versus family coverage. Usually the family coverage is priced so that it's a bit cheaper per person than getting separate individual plans, but even then there are exceptions. Family plans tend to have a shared max out of pocket and deductible (which are basically the annual limits on what you pay) that's higher than the individual plan.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 7 points 19 hours ago

Creating enemies of neighbors goes a lot of different ways, obviously, but the one I'm personally experiencing lately is that people of that political persuasion are super judgey and non-supportive of people who have lost their jobs recently. Doubly so for those who have lost their jobs because of Trump and republican policies.

Literally the last 3 known conservatives that I've mentioned my unemployment to have said all manner of things like ...

"USAID was rotten to the core, it needed to be killed" even though that was entirely irrelevant to my job.

"My taxes were paying your paycheck and I can't afford it anymore" from somebody whose income is close enough to poverty level that I can guarantee you they pay next to nothing in federal income taxes.

"Schools are putting litter boxes in the bathrooms for kids to use, the stuff they're teaching kids these days is not acceptable" from someone whose kids graduated from public school 3 decades ago and has no clue what my job duties actually entailed (hint: It wasn't related to litter boxes).

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 4 points 19 hours ago

A candle wick.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 33 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (6 children)

I couldn't tell you with certainty that Meta is doing it specifically, but without a doubt, I'm certain that the Fediverse is being scraped by AI.

It's one of many reasons I make sure that at least some portion of what I contribute is intended specifically to poison that shit. Boomer-style anecdotes. Unpopular opinions. Completely and ridiculously incorrect information. Nonsensical but superficially coherent sentences and stories. They're all kinda my jam.

But don't you forget for one minute that sometimes I type out straight facts and truth is sometimes unpopular. Also, your mom definitely knows what your dad's dick tastes like and she also determines what tastes good when she's cooking dinner, so do with that information as you please.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 13 points 19 hours ago (5 children)

Which sounds like great, practical advice in a theoretical perfect world!

But, the reality of the situation is that professionals are usually balancing a myriad of concerns and considerations using objective and subjective evaluations of what's required of us and quite often inefficiency, whether in the form of programmatic complexity or in the form of disk storage or otherwise, has a relatively low precedent compared to everything else we need to achieve if we want happy clients and a pay check.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 4 points 20 hours ago

I'm not a vegan or vegetarian, so that's my disclaimer.

I've tried numerous "milk alternatives" over the years, and many different brands of each. That's particularly true for soy milk since there are so many brands in the USA and it's been commonly, and easily available in my region for 3+ decades.

Based on that, I have to say that soy milk is, for me, consistently my least favorite option in terms of taste.

Of the easily available stuff, almond milk is my favorite, but I see so much hate for it online in terms of environmental harm that I finally just said fuck it, I'm going back to real milk, at least it's cheaper.

My favorite that I've tried so far was hemp milk. I don't recall the brand but years ago I found a brand that did chocolate hemp seed milk that was so good I swear they must've put a dab of fentanyl or nicotine in it to keep people coming back.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 17 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Honestly, to an English speaking North American with typical deficient exposure to the complexities of a lot of other cultures and languages, a lot of the English-language translations for shows and movies from other parts of the world end up coming across that way. Mostly, I just assume it's something lost in translation and totally not a big deal, of course.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 4 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

I would correct their grammar if they were a native English speaker because having "a dream of me in it" sounds super weird.

But otherwise, people don't control their dreams and some people are super sharers so really all just depends on a myriad of context details. Mostly it wouldn't be anything I'd think about too much, one way or the other. Like if they told me they had tacos for dinner or that they were wearing wool socks because it was cold this morning. No real difference.

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