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Green Lake and its sister Round Lake, are a pair of unique bodies of water located in the aboriginal territory of the Onandoga nation. This writeup will concern itself with Green Lake, but much of this information carries over to its sister.

The final remnants of a plunge pool formed during the last ice age by a glacial waterfall at least twice the size of Niagara Falls; Green Lake is situated in a gorge and fed entirely by rain and groundwater. As a result, it is one of the few meromictic lakes on earth.

So, okay, in general terms, lakes do this:

a graphic depicting the seasonal stages of water currents in lakes, it is explained in in the main text of the post

For the warmer months water organizes into distinct layers, each circulating in their own way. The warmest water, being the least dense, sits at the top. This is where the phytoplankton hang out, producing oxygen and consuming nutrients. The coldest water, being the most dense, sits at the bottom. This is where nutrients tend to accumulate and oxygen gets depleted by animal life. As summer turns to winter the top layers get colder and the water mixes as stratification breaks down, the same happens as winter turns back to summer. This process helps more evenly distribute oxygen and nutrients.

Ok so Green Lake doesn't do this.

The bottom of the lake is totally devoid of oxygen, so no decomposition; whatever falls down there, stays down there. The water is also very high in mineral content, which leaves layers of calcite deposits on anything that isn't moving. Moreover there is a layer of bacterially active water around 18-20 meters down that makes the water purple at that specific depth. Thanks to photosynthetic bacteria that deposit some of the minerals in the water, Green Lake is home to one of the few existing freshwater reefs.

A picture taken from deadman's point in Green Lake

I just think its neat.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I can't get over that stat that there's probably 400,000 trans internally displaced refugees in the USA. As in people who've fled one state to another. That's like a factor of 10 more I would have guessed. If a civil war had displaced half a million people that would be news worthy

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

a civil war kinda does it more all at once. Queer people leaving rural areas for socially liberal cities is a steady trickle that's been happening for as long as we've had language to describe ourselves.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The trans population is something like 0.5%. Somewhere between 0.3% to 1%.

If its 400K, then 400K/1650K are displaced. Or between one out of four to one out of five transgender people have been internally displaced in the US by that estimate.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I havent gushed about my bottom surgery lately but I am very happy about having a vagina and the results of the surgery!! This shit kicks ass

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

The world is getting so much scarier for trans people and I feel like I just have to come out. I've been a closter enby agender for years and only ever come out to one person, but I think if I don't come out soon, I never will.

But fuck I hate having that conversation. Like "hey, I'm not who you thought I was and I don't like who I was. Please love me regardless." And my friends and family are all good people who will accept me and do their best and really try to respect me, but it's still so scary.

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[–] catter@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Things are starting to look pretty bleak in my relationship. They are an anxious personality type and are needing constant assurance that nothing is changing. Things are not changing in who I am as a person, but damn, we don't want anything to change? My lifelong depression should just stay this way?

This is probably just from me not feeling sure about who I am. If I could come out as trans without friction, I'd probably do it just to try. I'm waiting for the waveform collapse. I have to do something even though I don't know what that is, I can't stay in the closet like this much longer. Please send your best vibes.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

You've talked avout your relationship for like a long time now and I gotta be honest, I haven't heard you say a lot that makes it seems like its worth all your heartache and self denial time. You've held yourself in this tension to save a relationship that you dont seem to enjoy very much

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

They should invent HRT that fully gets rid of body hair.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That gives you a girl voice

[–] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

No matter how terrible life gets, my mood always improves when I realise that I'm destined for some real nice tits (Β΄ο½₯Ο‰ο½₯`)

(Not going to post actual size cause that feels wierd. Is it wierd?)

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[–] rafflesia@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

asked my doc to up my dose and she agreed yay! doggirl-happy

[–] Veggie_Deluxe@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

started HRT today, nervous as all hell, but I've been making more music and i really have y'all to thank for regaining the confidence to get back at it. lots goin on over here lmao

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

transitioning is a type of looksmaxxing theory-gary

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[–] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 2 months ago (14 children)

Would love to take a break from being g trans but then I see women and I lose my mind cause I wanna be her. When I see men I lose my mind cause I want to be held like a girl.

[–] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 2 months ago

I must make a correction

When I see girls I also want to be held like a girl

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Azarova@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (5 children)

transfem dorothy saying "we're not in kansas anymore" but it's actually a good thing and she's never going back again

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

There's a version of the trans flag in my mind which is a war or evil version.

Where the light blue is navy, the pink darker and the white grey (white is surrender, grey for the morally grey things I must do to survive).

Sometimes I wear those colours to work, navy skirt, dark pink blazer, grey top.

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

Dressed up today and I almost feel girly. I just need to get rid of this beard shadow. And do something with my hair.

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

i like the person i am dating πŸ™‚ they are cool and smart and make me feel special pretty much every day i talk to them

thank you for your attention to this matter trump-anguish that is all theory-gary

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

idk why but I was really hesitant with my injection last night, usually its not an issue for me but I was feeling really weird about stabbing myself. Hope this doesn't become a trend.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Regular at work telling me he thinks I should join the navy i-cant

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[–] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You know...

Even after everything

If I had the option to restart my life

To choose my birth gender

I would still just choose to be myself

[–] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 2 months ago

cw:trauma

Thing about being fucking traumatised is that you don't know what tf to do afterwards and then just have to go about your life as if nothing happened.

Kinda like being shot in the arm, not being given any medical treatment, then having to go next day to your job lifting boxes.

And yes, that analogy works very well cause my brain is injured, and my work/schooling involves me using my brain.

I was already spending a good chunk of my classes and shit being distracted by bad thoughts. Now that's gonna get worse. I already feel a much greater sense of dread and fear of other people.

And I'm assuming that people here will understand that being given the right kinda words from another person doesn't really fix the issue. Whether it be a psychologist or counselor or maybe even therapist. Well, the later could help, assuming I get the right therapist, get through the waitlist and have enough money/insurance for it.

Kinda like how getting a kiss and being told that the boo-boos will go away won't actually make your gunshot wound go away.

[–] Ceres@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

misgenderingNew housemate was initially perfectly consistent on gendering me right, then eventually I brought up my transness and had fun talking about it a bit to them, but, since then ive consistently been misgendered, which has me less bothered and more just highly suspicious now (like maybe thought I was cis before?), hope its just a coincidence of mistakes and I won't have to deal with more annoying stuff. There was one especially silly house meeting where I was misgendered 3 times in a short span with my other housemates chiming "she" in correction each time (<3 to them), almost like a sitcom bit lol.

[–] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (10 children)

My prog order got sized by customs. Fuckers still took taxes from me anyway and likely won’t refund. Dogshit legal ans medical system.

Idk what the fuck to do. Where in europe could I get prog OTC?

more negative whining

Everyone who is supposed to help me is against me and making things worse. The amount of gatekeeping, bigotry and hatred are getting to me.

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[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

us healthcarewhenever somebody tries to defend the insurance industry by saying it has so many jobs it's always kinda like bizarre to me, like they're literally saying "we have to keep Killing You at the Killing You Factory because think of how many jobs are at the Killing You Factory we simply cannot stop Killing You." preaching to the choir here obv but capitalism is just an actual death cult like for real

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Fuck LLMs, you should never listen to what they say, but I still get the people who say they trust them more than doctors or psychologists

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

An LLM cant get u committed, and doctors are somehow still better at gaslighting

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I had my first personal trainer session on monday (ya gurl is getting over her fear of the gym!) and holy fuck. Lemme tell you, skipping my running routine for three months did NOT do me favors for leg day. Im still stiff and sore down there two days later. I'm trying to get some stretches in here and there but good lord are my dogs BARKING.

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[–] Busgirl@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

Kansas legislature go here barbara-pit

[–] BimboChristmas@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yo so I guess I've been doing my hair wrong my entire life? Treating my wavy hair like it was straight, getting big frizz every morning after I brush my hair dry.

I am way too old to be figuring this out, but the past couple days I've been detangling in the shower and letting it do its own thing and by golly it looks much better already.

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Whatever happened to that DIY electrolysis thing that was getting posted about on here a while ago?

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Trans Megathread

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

a screenshot discussing the social gendering of sex with regards to the non binary identity, and my own follow up comment.

bloomfilters says: basically if we really want true nonbinary legitimacy and the explosion of nonbinary existence into the daily lives of the world the category of 'sex' must be transsexualized and taken head-on to reveal itself for the ideology it is, as the gendering of the body

otherwise we will always just be 'boy nonbinary vs girl nonbinary'.

The social gendering of sex is how I see my own body as androgynous / masc. I have never really vibed with "female sex" and I have always felt that it was a social determination for me. I don't like the label "afab" either.

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Thank you for the lake talk!

Over six months off booze and a couple on estrogen and I feel revitalized. I’m not even β€œback to my old self” so much as I feel I’m becoming a new more comfortable and confident person. So early in this process, haven’t started shots yet, and already I feel like I’m going in the right direction

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[–] meler@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

My transition has been great and all but have you heard the transitions in Alive 2007?

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

mundane transfem woes (CW dyphoria)So I ordered some women's boyshort style underwear because I needed more and I wasn't going to buy men's underwear

I wore them for a couple of hours and felt great, so into the bin went all my old underwear and I ordered some more. However at the end of the day, I've had way too much chafing around my scrotum. And I'm like crap I can't wear these right now. And like I decided I do want bottom surgery so cool I can put these in a cupboard somewhere for then.

But okay I need underwear for now. So okay I sheepishly fished a couple of my most recent boxers out of the bin (they were clean in a paper bag).

Then I went online and Kelvin Klein has some pride colored underwear packs so fuck it at least they're not straight underwear I guess.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (3 children)

1 year on HRT today. Which is wild. Now that I've hit it doesn't feel that important. Like I knew I wasnt cis ages before, but I didn't know I was a woman until a couple of months in and I only came out a month after that. Also my dose was too small at the start etc.

But still really cool.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Gotta say all the recent news doesn't make me feel peppy.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

doomjak its real bad

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

self-image and hair loss stuff, but slightly positiveI have been completely unable to look in the mirror properly for around 4 years, this is mostly about hair loss. Today after my injection, I wanted to take some pictures, and I felt pretty hot and feminine and then I caught a glance of my hairline in the mirror, that gave me the confidence to properly look at myself and wow. It felt good. Like, it's not completely perfect, but I thought I had the world's worst receding hairline, but it looked fine. And now I really want to get a haircut, because that can make it look pretty nice.

I feel great about being able to look at myself. But wtf, I had some REALLY BAD body dysmorphia about this, like I thought it was bad enough that the only way would be shaving it all. I completely avoided mirrors for YEARS, and this probably blew everything out of proportion. And while writing this I realized I had a very severe case of body dysmorphic disorder plus dysphoria. I am so happy.

Anyway, does anyone have any cool hairstyle suggestions for curly (3A, to be specific) hair?

[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

I have been drawing for the first time since around when I started puberty (wow, I wonder what happened to me that killed my "soul" (I don't belive in souls, but you know what i mean) and my ability/desire to create)!!

And it's feeling so good, like it's fixing me

dysphoria (maybe?)sometimes my boobs look like boobs and sometimes my boobs don't look like boobs and I dunno what to make of that, especially since yknow they're the same boobs

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