WalrusDragonOnABike

joined 2 years ago

One of the few things I love about being in the US is informed consent being allowed in lots of places (even places like Texas, which otherwise have a pretty bad reputation)

I don’t really know tbh lol. I’m just trying to find a productive way to work through my anxieties.

Makes sense to me. When I came out to my brother, I'm glad he asked pushed me to express myself more. Not sure what you want questions about though.

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For example just saying I want to use she/her pronouns is hard even though its true. I’ve been taking baby-steps towards presenting more femme, pushing myself up to and slightly past my comfort zone but in safe spaces.

I’m a tired millennial and really don’t want to keep waiting until someone finds out or I’m 100% ready. I have too much else to do. I do have an appointment with a therapist, but I don’t want to just wait until then to try and work through my stuff

Its hard changing when you are so used to hiding things, not just from others, but primarily yourself. So many coping mechanism unconsciously formed. I can't provide much help since I've been taking things far slower than I'd recommend to anyone.

What are the things you are feeling most anxious about? Coming out to specific people? General treatment by public? Facing your own thoughts? Figuring out what you want?

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 6 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

percentage points. So additive math, compared to regular percents, which are multiplicative.

+14 pts israel means 57% in favor of israel vs 43% in favor of palestine (assuming you can't give other answers) That's the same thing as 33% more people in favor of israel.

+57 pts palestine means 78.5% in favor of palestine and 21.5% in favor of israel. That's the same thing as 265% more people in favor of palestine.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

titled studies

tit-led studies 👀

Imo, working exercise into your daily life is the easiest way to keep at it. Things like active commuting to work. Sometimes, I find something I enjoy as a hobby and can be physically active regularly for a little bit, but then it falls off. Of course even with commuting, I sometimes fall back into passive commuting habits.

Also, exercise frequently leads to just eating more if you aren't watching food intake as well. Certainly are ways to do that without counting calories and exercising can help accomplish it imo, but its also easy to gain weight by excusing overeating.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 1 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

That it is!

Is it more obscure than I assumed?

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Have you tried playing it with a live rat that you shake and squeeze?

Self-diagnosis (and diagnosis by non-professionals who just ask me if I'm autistic unprompted) seems good enough for me. Given people just assume I'm autistic regardless, I don't see how it makes a different whether I have a professional diagnosis or not.

I was a supportive older siblings for my little sister. Certainly remember playing dolls with her. Her twin brother seemed a lot less supportive in that regard, but he certainly wasn't averse to dress up. When my sister made a scrapbook for a school assignment, she included a picture of me wearing a plastic princess tiara and other plastic jewelry and made a point to show me that she had done that. I was happy with her choice. My egg didn't crack until almost a decade after that.

My parents didn't notice the tits either. I think the only person I know who I'm pretty sure has noticed on their own was my best friend (who isn't really the type to be particularly trans-positive). I'm pretty impressed by people's lack of awareness.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Kinda surprises me. I tried to force my parents to start the conversation by intentionally obviously wearing a sports bra and my mom pretty quickly asked me about it. Was wearing a tshirt with quite a larger neck hole though.

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