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it's hot. also i'm growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i'm excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (12 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3)    
oscardejarjayes* (8/4 - 8/10)
Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)
Shaleesh (8/18 - 8/24)
GayTuckerCarlson* (8/25 - 8/31)
Eco* (9/1 - 9/7)
nemmybun (9/8 - 9/14)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 23 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I went on a date with a reaaaaalllyyyy cute guy last night. We talked for like 3 hours and he kissed me goodbye. So forearms were like double the size of mine I was in a puddle at the end, this is my first time that I’ve had a guy make me feel this way and I’m like what the hell, how have I missed this my whole life 😭

I feel like I’ve always been attracted to men in kinda a different way, like they were my friend and we were the same, while women were like this other species, but i really like it flipped around lol. 😝

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[–] Octagonprime@hexbear.net 23 points 2 months ago (15 children)

Shout-out to the people who encouraged me when I posted in the trans megathread when my egg was cracking like 7-8 months ago. 6 months on hrt now and Im so much happier :D

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[–] axont@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Henlo mega thread. I am nonbinary

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[–] onandrah1@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago

Hey loves πŸ’œ

I wanted to give a little update, we made it through the hospital thanks to you all, but now my sisters and I are really struggling to find a safe place to stay. Right now we’re stuck somewhere temporary that’s not safe at all, and it’s scary not knowing what could happen next.

UNHCR told us to stay in Juba while they keep working on resettlement, but there’s no safe place here, and we can’t go back to Gorom camp because the host community doesn’t want us anymore. We’re trying to raise around $700–850 so we can get a small apartment for the four of us, with money for transport, rent, bedding, food, and the meds my sisters still need.

We’ve only raised $66 so far, so we still have a long way to go. If you can help us by donating, sharing, or even giving advice on safe places, it would mean everything to us right now. My mutual aid link is in my profile. Thank you so much for being here for us. Love you all so much. πŸ’™πŸ™πŸΏ

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

dogs are aware of how cursed the fourth of july is as a holiday

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

can confirm doggirl-growl

[–] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

Current mood

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (5 children)
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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Down with summer! catgirl-hiss

Up with autumn! catgirl-heart

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago
[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Got a few web friends to use my real pronouns and my new name. It just makes me feel euphoric, but somehow still feels wrong. Maybe some internalized transphobia or just the disphoria (probably because I haven't started any part of the transition yet). But I'm happy anyways for getting some validation.

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Gender is fake but also im a woman but also im not a woman i just do woman but also theres no such thing as woman but also but also but also

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

transphobiaImagine deadnaming someone in your birthday message to her

I wish I could thanos snap these people into a pocket dimension so I don't have do deal with them. Fucking hell

Up with trans. Down with cis

In other news I got invited to a thing on Friday that I'm suuuuuper excited about. I'm going to get to flex my gay muscles

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

about to eat some really spicy noodles, if I never post again yall know what happened πŸ˜”

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Coworker gave me a hair tie and another put my hair up for me kitty-cri

Low key have shed a few tears about it... just really nice of them to help me and feels kind of like something women would usually do for other women. Not out to them or anything but still you know.. needed something nice to happen to me today too.

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[–] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I've never seen cacti sprouts before. They're so cute! floppy-parrot

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Coffee coffee

Black coffee, Brown coffee

Make rumbly in my tummy catgirl-cry

Make my head feel funny catgirl-huh

Coffee coffee

A cup of no good coffee cool-bean

Not sweet like toffee

Not creamy Not dreamy

Coffee coffee

taken at 23*

I feel like puking walter-breakdown

*hour of the day, 11 PM

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is it possible to do HRT badly enough that it permanently messes up your transition or is it a kind of thing where it would just mean it takes more time?

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

just takes more time

unless u seriously mess up for like years n get osteoperosis

[–] Mari@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

spoilerIm going to meet with an endocrinologist in a bit less than 2 weeks to take some physical examinations before I can be prescribed hormone replacement. I should be happy and excited about this but I still feel so empty and pessimistic. It feels like I've wasted so much of my life having to justify my identity to cisgenders just so i can have a chance at getting a low quality hormone replacement at an inadequate dosage that will probably be criminalised soon anyway. I tried to get diy hormone replacement a couple of months ago but my mother intercepted the package and threw it away. I borrowed 100$ from someone to pay for it and now i need to pay them back.

Because of my mental health, I've lost all but one of my friends and to them im more of a detriment than anything else. Im scared to go outside and interact with other people because i live in a country of savages who would probably lynch me for being trans.

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Learning all the counties of England doggirl-smart

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[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

TONY STARK was able to build his gender in a cave! With a BOX OF SCRAPS

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Pro tip if your car ever starts smoking do your best to not let it, it's a bad habit to start and even harder to quit.

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Male tomboy with a little bit of E busts it down agender style, are they goated with the sauce?

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

You get a discord notification ping, it's a message from your friend EstraDoll at 2:38 A.M. He types it out frantically in a cold sweat. It's far too coherent for her to be drunk at this hour, plus you know she quit drinking a while back and is unlikely to relapse

"hey i need you to be 100% real and brutally honest with me, does this outfit make me look clocky?"

sent with a spoilered selfie. you brace yourself and hesitate even hitting the "show" button as you're slightly worried that he's sending you nudes at 3 in the fucking morning (again). against your better judgement, you unblur the photo and see him showing off her new """outfit""" standing in her filthy bedroom. clothes litter every corner of the floor as per usual but you notice her eye catching """""outfit""""", which is just a big sandwich board that says "I AM TRANSGENDER" in 500 point font. you reread the attached message. you've known him long enough to know that tone is 100% sincere from her. from this angle, you can't even tell if she's wearing anything underneath

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[–] OthelloII@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

always weird to find protest/event pictures on myself online, especially reddit, still not used to it. not posted by my party i mean, like from random people.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Is Better Call Saul and Breaking Bad trans culture?

[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

CW for Government TransphbiaApparently the state department is intentionally defying the court order to let trans people have correct gender markers. Past few weeks have been pretty tough and I keep catching L's. I can't wait until I get that shit in the mail and have yet another emotional episode about it. Im mostly angry at myself because none of the bad stuff would be happening if I just stopped fucking up all the time.

The new blue sugar free monster tastes fucking amazing and I can't get enough of it.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

wtf... someone keeps peeing in my bed while i'm sleeping. what the fuck

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