Read novels about cool talking spiders and shit until you rebuild your focus, then switch to the dry shit.
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Hell yeah Children of Time is great. Currently reading Shards of Earth by the same author. Dude is so good at alien perspectives
I’ll have to check that out. I like the Children series but each book has had diminishing returns for me. The octopuses were great though.
Over the last year or so I have read The Dispossessed and The Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula Le Guin. The Dispossessed in particular describes a communist society - like, an actual stateless, classless, moneyless society - and is really very moving and insightful imo. Le Guin's background was in anthropology iirc so she had some really fascinating things to say about people and culture, even if I don't agree with all of her politics (she was an anarcho-syndicalist).
I mention it because I had been struggling to get back into reading but both of those books absolutely captivated me, again especially The Dispossessed. She really looked unflinchingly at what she saw as the challenges and potential shortcomings of her theoretical communist society which is really compelling and made it feel very real.
I also read "Coming of Age in Karhide", which is a short story in the same setting as tLHoD that examines gender through the eyes of a human society that was genetically modified in the distant past to eliminate all sexual dimorphism, to the point that they are serially dioecious (all individuals can produce both sets of gametes and carry young, just not at the same time) and that was interesting, to say the least, although potential trigger warning as it's extremely about Gender and I don't think I'm well positioned to notice stuff that other people might find disturbing in that context.
I think trying to love it is not going to work. I love reading but find it difficult to stick to.
Instead, it's more important to make it a routine - like 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week, before bed. It's when I stick to a routine that I read more. Loving it comes later - once you have a routine you can try different books out and see what makes that routine easier.
I'll also say that I would go in being perfectly okay to just stop reading any book at any point if it's not keeping you happy. You keep the routine but just substitute other books in. Forcing yourself to read something uninteresting will make it even harder. Try not to judge yourself- it's okay to not like something others love or to change your mind after reading something again.
I read between 15 and 30 minutes a day, but pretty consistently. The key is to be consistent, and eventually time takes over! If you feel you get distracted, try focusing on your environment, maybe light a candle, make some coffee or tea, snuggle under a blanket with some pillows, anything!
As for what to read, I say focus on fiction! Whatever interests you. I recommend trying something modern, one of my favorite modern titles is Piranesi, and it brought me back to my childhood with how immersed I got. Once you develop a habit and a love of reading, gradually expand to non-fiction, theory, etc. I also recommend reading 2 books at a time, one fiction and one non-fiction, at set times in the day.
That's what works for me personally!
For me it feels like reading at home under a blanket is the worst way to do it because it makes me too comfortable and sometimes sleepy. Doing it somewhere in public, like a cafe or library makes me focus much better, while at home I get distracted by everything.
Then see if you can make that a habit! Or change up your home to be less distracting, if you can!
My partner is a professor and has always preached 2 things about academic reading:
- Skimming (you get assigned so much reading that it would take up most of your waking hours to thoroughly read and consider every single word
- Annotating (this gives your reading purpose and also helps you retain information)
It’s not your job to be someone who enjoys learning so much that you attend lectures in your free time and will engage with the material as if it were a hobby. Some people are obsessed with their topic area and they tend to become subject matter experts whether they do that through academia or not. Most people aren’t like that and it’s not your job to pretend that that’s you if it’s not. Just get good at what you do and get through your schoolwork.
I need to learn the art of skimming. Having to complete multiple 500 page dry ass historical texts every month on top of writing is murder.
I don't have a lot to add to this discussion, but I had undiagnosed ADHD for decades that made focusing on reading (even stuff for fun) very difficult. I struggled a lot in college and did a lot of weird shit that didn't make a lot of sense (frequently skipped class on a mandatory attendance economics class, getting a C despite turning in A work; missing a final exam for another class for no reason except forgetting about it; skipping the lecture portion of a chemistry class and only learning the material in the labs; etc). I didn't even do anything fun when I skipped class, just kinda rotted around doing next to nothing.
If trying the tips that other people suggest don't work and you're still confused, there might be some stuff going on with your brain!
This advice applies to non-fictional non-philosophical works only:
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Read the Wikipedia article on the text (if it exists)
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Read the Wikipedia article on the authors of the text (if it exists)
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Read the intro chapter and concluding chapter
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Read the first few paragraphs and the last few paragraphs of every other chapter
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Skim over the rest
You'll be able to decently answer "what is the text about" and "why is this text important enough for the professor to assign." And if you actually need to read the text for real, your reading speed will be a lot faster since you already know what the text is about and are somewhat acclimated to the writing style of the author.
Don't fall into the trap of needing your eyes to absorb every single word or punctuation or else it doesn't count as reading. Save that for the philosophical text and text that you actually enjoy reading. Skimming or even skipping unimportant chapters is fine. Just don't skip too much lol
You also don't have to read every chapter in sequential order. After reading the intro/concluding chapters and the few opening/closing paragraphs of every other chapter, you can always jump around if a chapter drags out for too long. If a chapter proves to be too difficult or boring, it's better to skip to the following chapter (or putting the text down and starting another book) rather than mustering the willpower only failing to do so since if you had the willpower, you wouldn't be stuck in the first place. Just say "It's not me. It's you." and move on to the next chapter.
While this is fantastic advice, homie having not read a bunch before means they likely can't effectively skim text
It didn't occur to me that you can actually just skim academic books. This is good advice, thanks
While you are getting the hang of it, go put your phone away. Make sure you are reading in a place that is quiet and free of distractions.
And the fact I'm noticeably behind my peers in amount of books read makes me feel like I don't belong.
First off, this is probably not true. Reading is down to its lowest rate since 1992. And this is the results from the national report card website:

How to learn to love readings books
Start reading fantasy, science fiction, romance, drama, and comedy interspersed with your actual reading assignments for class. To love reading, you have to enjoy the subject.
get immersed or enter flow state or whatever, and also retain information? Is it some kind of talent or superpower?
Use SQ4R, it is a form of active reading and study strategy designed to improve comprehension and retention of text-based information. The acronym stands for Survey, Question, Read, Recite, Relate (or Record), and Review. Whether you are reading in physical or digital format read actively and be sure to use a highlighter or pencil to take notes. When you are reading for literature, philosophy and drama be sure to annotate and tag things that stick out to you. Pay attention in class, because often the instructor will tell you what to look for. Read about the author, their life, their beliefs, and the time they lived in to help you have a clearer picture about why they wrote what they wrote. You can also read with an eye towards marxist ideas. Marxist analysis can be used to make sense of literature. It might not work as well with say, Shakespeare; but there were artists and writers that were marxists or had specific themes of class rule and worker struggles. You can also analyze things from a feminist lens, or other ideologies.
If you read digital copies or PDFs, download and install hypothes.is. It is an annotation tool that lives in your browser and lets you annotate everything. I used it all of grad school and it saved my life. You can highlight, annotate (what you should be doing the most) and take page notes (connected to the document or webpage, but not a specific sentence); you can also tag comments to help you organize your comments into parts for your essay and homework assignments.
I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
Just start. For some people, it's an acquired taste. For others, it never is. But you gotta do it for school.
Just keep practicing, it gets easier. Try to read a little more each day.
Something that might help is to adopt a "one for them, one for me" mentality. If every time you try to read you're just reading dry academic textbooks, you will come to associate reading with dry academic text. For every work or school book you want to commit to, also pick out something that is strictly for entertainment or on a topic that doesn't really effect you but that you find interesting. I got myself from like a decade of not reading anything to reading at least 30 mins a night doing it this way, switching between fiction and marxist theory/history.
For academic materials (especially textbooks!), if you aren't skimming first, you are doing it wrong. Somebody else described skimming in depth in the comments.
I really benefit from using the pomodoro technique. The default split is 25 minutes work to 5 minutes break, but you can adjust the work bit to be shorter if 25 minutes is too much.
With reading for pleasure, you can do audio books if it helps. It is morally and intellectually equivalent to paper books, although don't try to multitask audiobooks with anything more complex than cooking a recipe you already know, cleaning, or driving.
Another thing to try is setting a page or time limit. You don't necessarily have to sit down and read an entire chapter. Just set your bookmark 5 pages in and read until there. If you get to the five page mark and you want to continue, keep going! If not, take a break.
It is important to find a genre or author you actually enjoy if you want to build a habit of reading. Like others have mentioned, don't torture yourself with a book you aren't enjoying. I am a big fan of Haruki Murakami. My favorites of his are Kafka on the Shore and The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle. The genre is magical realism, in which the fiction is grounded in reality until something intriguing and possibly supernatural happens.
For entry-level bite-sized reading, I really liked Before the Coffee Gets Cold by Toshikazu Kawaguchi and its sequel. Very intriguing premise; you can go back in time, but only at a specific seat in a specific cafe, and if you don't get back before the coffee gets cold, bad stuff happens.
Go read some books by Daniel Pinkwater. The Education of Robert Nifkin or the Snarkout Boys books or Borgle. They’re hilarious.
And look, one of the things about being a freshman at a good college is you get all nervous and compare yourself to the other dipshits that are there. I was a big reader as a kid, and came to absolutely hate the fancy college I went to because either I felt like I’d never catch up with all the books that I should’ve read or I was pissed off at my classmates because they didn’t freaking read anything.
Just be you and you’ll be fine. You’ve got a whole lifetime to read. But yeah work on it now.
Edit: also, academic writing almost universally sucks ass and is horrible to read. It’s part of the hazing that The Academy puts you through. If you don’t like reading that shit and are aware of it, you’re honestly ahead of many of your peers who spend their time convincing themselves that it’s good. (If you want some good academic writing check out linguist Ray Jackendoff [I know I know])
read fiction that you enjoy, warhammer, game of thrones, or romance.
gateway sorta deal
you can get a ereader like a kindle and jailbreak it
you can use the 8bitdo micro controller as a page turner. (you can also use it to help you study with the flashcard app anki)
literary liberation has a bunch of fiction books and are marxists, hungryrye only really talks about books
How to also retain info while reading: don't read at your max speed, slow down a little, reread difficult passages. Stop occasionally to think about what you're reading (what exactly that is gonna entail well depend on what you're reading). Think about what you've read while not reading (like while waking around, doing dishes, stuff like that. Write about what you're reading. Talk to other people about what you're reading.
I have mixed feelings on your first thing about max speed. Slowing down a little can help, but speaking the words internally as you read can paradoxically slow you down and reduce retention. People should experiment with reading so fast you can't even audiate the words.
So...I dont have the same background regsrding reading as you, kinda the opposite in fact so my advice may only go so far, but as a Book Enjoyer, I read a lot more when I dont hace internet access at home. Just don't pay your internet bill and make it so you need to go somewhere to be online. When you hsve less options it's easier. Aside from taking away distractions I would suggest taking notes as you go. I get different colored sticky pads and write notes next to relevant paragraphs. For non fiction it's usually one color for Look Deeper Into This and another for Sit and Think About This. I'm going back and forth between reading and writing but my brain is on the same text between the two activities and it keeps me more engaged.
If you has the free time I would also recommend reading a nice breezy fiction novel just to get back into the rhythm.
I have noticed that when my internet is out for whatever reason I get bored really quickly and start actually doing stuff. The brain rot and screen addiction are real, but I don't think I'm ready for something as drastic as intentionally not paying for my ISP bill lol
Have you ever gone camping/off-grid for an extended time, with nothing to do but read or play cards? It’s not hard to read in those environments because your brain has recalibrated its dopamine expectation.
The problem is almost entirely situational. You don’t need to love books more, you need better “attention hygiene.” What do you do when you aren’t reading, what effect does that have on your attention? In what physical space are you trying to read - is a computer or TV nearby? Go to the quiet area in the library with your phone shut off in your bag, and start reading.
I no longer own a TV or any gaming console, and the effect on my mental health has been great. My thinking has slowed down.
I recommend buying auxiliary devices like e-readers and e-ink writing/note-taking devices. They don’t have all the dopamine-triggering animations of a smartphone. The pace is slower, that is healthy for your brain. Any time you want to read a PDF, transfer it to your e-reader, even if you technically could read it from your phone.
When I’m in a rut and my attention span has been fried by daily online smut, I try to start off reading something light/purely entertaining. You end up finishing something you find fun, and you gain momentum and interest in other books.
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Instead of directly answering the question I'm gonna suggest some books/series that helped form my own love of reading. These should not be taken as a list of unproblematic books whose messages I wholly endorse, but simply as a list of books that kept teenage me up all night completely immersed in reading.
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The Warrior's Apprentice (and the rest of its series, The Vorkosigan Saga) by Lois McMaster Bujold
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Redwall (and its series) by Brian Jacques
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Animorphs series (starting with The Invasion) by K. A. Applegate
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Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (and the rest of its five book trilogy) by Douglas Adams
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Discworld series by Terry Pratchett
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The Moon is a Harsh Mistress by Robert Heinlein
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On Basilisk Station (and its series, Honor Harrington) by David Weber
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Ender's Game (and its sequels) by Orson Scott Card
But don't bother with anything else by Orson Scott Card. His writing fell off the rails after the Ender series. His fantasy is especially terrible. Plus he's a racist rightoid and apparently stopped listening to editors after a while.
Ender's Game and Ender's Shadow I can personally vouch for though.
Edit: okay to be more specific, the Pathfinder series is the one that made me upset with how bad it was, especially in the third book. The guy has written a lot of books and I can't necessarily assume they're all bad because one series got up its own ass. Although his politics became so bad that he probably lost the ability to write well at some point.
Yeah, Card is a Mormon, one of the worst types of KKKri$$tian, and a virulent bigot. But the Ender sequels especially are beautiful books about learning to understand and even love people who are completely alien to you.
How he managed to write Speaker for the Dead is a great mystery.
EDIT: David Weber's politics are also extremely bad but Honor Harrington is still fun. The biggest suspension of disbelief is a functional monarchy.
I should read speaker for the dead, I think I bounced off of it at one point but it has been long enough that I'll try again.
It's the high point of the entire Ender series/setting, imo
is that the one that's basically a detective story about the strange tree people?
Yes, but instead of the typical detective story whodunit, the questions are why did they do it and what is it that they actually did
that's the one
Find yourself something fun. Just get sloppy with it till you get better at it. It's a learned skill that you'll level up over time. If you gotta start with a bunch of YA stuff that's fine, fucking Goosebumps or Fear Street series if that works for ya. I've been rather fond of Dungeon Crawler Carl lately. Bout a guy and his talking cat that get caught up in an alien invasion reality tv game and he becomes a bomb making anarchist. Fun shit! Other stuff worth checking out: Discworld, Murderbot Diaries, stuff by Becky Chambers, SMUT!
It's a skill you have to practice. Read a little bit each day for a week, ramp up the amount you read little by little. Try to put yourself in situations where you can't get distracted by your computer or wherever you game. For me, I made a lot of progress reading in between classes in college, or when attending family events when all the old people were talking to each other and I had nothing to do but look at my phone; if you put screentime blocks on your phone to limit how much time you spend scrolling, you'll be forced to read more.
I read I think 8 or 10 books last year. When I think of myself as a teen, thats pretty low. Actually even in the 2010s I would read more, even in the shower lol. People used to just read more, on the bus, before bed, just cause and that helped everyone else read cause it was like a passive reminder. Smartphones weren't a thing yet either and didnt demand your attention, although by the 2010s I guess they were. I found out the amount I read is "high." I dont feel like it! Im remembering and comparing to what average people were like 20 years ago.
Here's what I do: I read shorter books like 150 to 250 pages is my sweet spot, some fiction and some non-fiction. I am ruthless about not finishing a book and putting it down if I dont like it. I used to skip passages if theyre boring but obviously Id confuse myself and have to reread later, so maybe dont do that lol.
For you though it sounds like you need to read more for class, and that I think is just gonna be a little boring and compete for your attention and its just gonna be like a muscle you have to learn to work out. Its assigned reading, what can you do. You might benefit from a reading group to be honest, it helps make it an obligation that you read before the group and talking about what you've read with other people will help you engage with it more.
I would say maybe pick up something shorter in a genre or subject matter you find interesting. I liked Chuck Klostermans book of essays (some are very bad but whatever) for breezy reading. I like Philip K Dick as an author. Pick something you find interesting. And then read it when you have time! This will sometimes mean not scrolling or video gaming, and its just about building it as a habit. So sometimes its gonna be hard to sit and read for an hour and sometimes easier, and setbacks or okay so long as the trend is more reading. You will also have to read for school and theres not much you can do about making it exciting or whatever, you do just have to do it - try the pomodoro technique where you read for a minimum of 15 minutes and then continue or switch tasks, and try to build up that 15 minutes to longer and longer. And get a study group or reading group to help you! You take classes and lectures with others, youre all in the same boat, ask around your class or any clubs youre in.
Try different genres. I had to force myself to read my first fiction book. Then a friend gave me freakonomics and I destroyed it in two days. I've also discovered that it was the author of the fiction book (Anthony Pierce, and it was not the xanth book made famous by the stand-up comic) cause I can read the fuck out of dune.
But seriously, don't force yourself. Try and get a couple books that you think u might like from the library. If you don't like it within the first 20 ish pages, don't feel obligated to finish it. Just return it and try another book.
i'm kind of the same as you. i never read anything voluntarily until after i graduated college and started doing reading groups on lemmygrad dot ml. i don't know your major so this might not apply, but for me there were a lot of professors who would assign readings and then the lectures would cover all the important material anyway. there were a lot of textbooks i never even opened. thank god for anna's archive.
obviously you'll have readings you can't skip. besides skimming, which people have already mentioned, i liked to go to a different place to do readings and homework. it helped me focus when i was able to go to a specific place to lock in. i tried to leave my phone in my bag or out of reach, so i wouldn't be able to get it without moving. it sounds stupid but if it takes even a tiny bit of effort to go on my phone i do it a lot less.
as for your peers, i would imagine how many books you've read isn't the most important thing. unless you're joining a classic literature club, there's far more important stuff. obviously i don't know your school or your situation but i would imagine people have other interests besides books. shared interests are far more important for bonding with your peers than the academic stuff. universities tend to be large enough that everyone will fit in somewhere, but no one will fit in everywhere.
Think how much you're paying for your degree. If you get a student loan, run the numbers - until you start paying it back, they're paying you to learn. So make the most of it. You will never have this much free time to educate yourself again in your life.
As for distractions and flow state - it's just about getting on with it. Your brain has spent years being used to having fun doing shit that is designed specifically to be fun. Books arent designed with that in mind.
Unfortunately it is just a motivation thing. You just have to do it. Lest you become a slop-head.
Lots of good advice here already. I'm gonna just give you a book recommendation. The Lies of Locke Lamora by Scott Lynch. Most page turniest book I've even read. It's such a fun read and if you want to try audiobooks the narration is fantastic.
Pity he's a massive POS:( At this point I don't think I could bring myself to buy Thorn of Emberlain even if he ever finishes it.
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