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OK the title is a joke but the question is serious. A bit of backstory:

My parents failed to make me love books, because they also introduced me to a PlayStation 2, and I decided that I like playing vidya games a lot more than reading stuff. School didn't make me love books either because the literature they force you to read in my curriculum, is, in my opinion, better suited for adult reading.

Fast forward to now, I am a freshman in a prestigious university, but it turns out that it requires me to read a lot of stuff, but I don't really have enough willpower to sit through academic literature for more than an hour a day. And the fact I'm noticeably behind my peers in amount of books read makes me feel like I don't belong.

So my question is how to learn to love reading books, get immersed or enter flow state or whatever, and also retain information? Is it some kind of talent or superpower? I know a few of my peers who don't stop reading books and seem to not distract themselves with tiktoks and video games, and attend optional lectures in their free time which is kind of insane to me, but I respect it a lot and want to become like them.

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[–] Taster_Of_Treats@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

For academic materials (especially textbooks!), if you aren't skimming first, you are doing it wrong. Somebody else described skimming in depth in the comments.

I really benefit from using the pomodoro technique. The default split is 25 minutes work to 5 minutes break, but you can adjust the work bit to be shorter if 25 minutes is too much.

With reading for pleasure, you can do audio books if it helps. It is morally and intellectually equivalent to paper books, although don't try to multitask audiobooks with anything more complex than cooking a recipe you already know, cleaning, or driving.

Another thing to try is setting a page or time limit. You don't necessarily have to sit down and read an entire chapter. Just set your bookmark 5 pages in and read until there. If you get to the five page mark and you want to continue, keep going! If not, take a break.

It is important to find a genre or author you actually enjoy if you want to build a habit of reading. Like others have mentioned, don't torture yourself with a book you aren't enjoying. I am a big fan of Haruki Murakami. My favorites of his are Kafka on the Shore and The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle. The genre is magical realism, in which the fiction is grounded in reality until something intriguing and possibly supernatural happens.

For entry-level bite-sized reading, I really liked Before the Coffee Gets Cold by Toshikazu Kawaguchi and its sequel. Very intriguing premise; you can go back in time, but only at a specific seat in a specific cafe, and if you don't get back before the coffee gets cold, bad stuff happens.