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OK the title is a joke but the question is serious. A bit of backstory:

My parents failed to make me love books, because they also introduced me to a PlayStation 2, and I decided that I like playing vidya games a lot more than reading stuff. School didn't make me love books either because the literature they force you to read in my curriculum, is, in my opinion, better suited for adult reading.

Fast forward to now, I am a freshman in a prestigious university, but it turns out that it requires me to read a lot of stuff, but I don't really have enough willpower to sit through academic literature for more than an hour a day. And the fact I'm noticeably behind my peers in amount of books read makes me feel like I don't belong.

So my question is how to learn to love reading books, get immersed or enter flow state or whatever, and also retain information? Is it some kind of talent or superpower? I know a few of my peers who don't stop reading books and seem to not distract themselves with tiktoks and video games, and attend optional lectures in their free time which is kind of insane to me, but I respect it a lot and want to become like them.

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[โ€“] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

How to also retain info while reading: don't read at your max speed, slow down a little, reread difficult passages. Stop occasionally to think about what you're reading (what exactly that is gonna entail well depend on what you're reading). Think about what you've read while not reading (like while waking around, doing dishes, stuff like that. Write about what you're reading. Talk to other people about what you're reading.

I have mixed feelings on your first thing about max speed. Slowing down a little can help, but speaking the words internally as you read can paradoxically slow you down and reduce retention. People should experiment with reading so fast you can't even audiate the words.