Women are difficult to be around
Hmmm I wonder why he has such trouble 🤔
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Turns out people don't typically enjoy being treated as objects
Speak for yourself daddy
he dint have trouble getting "up" when men were around. on a side note hes not the only "straight" influencer out there, crowder is another one, although he is likely BI.
If all women are hard to be around then you are the one who's hard to be around.
Yeah when I was a kid my dad used to say, "If everywhere you go, you're surrounded by asshole, you need to take your head out of your ass."
I never heard that one! I only ever encountered "If everywhere you walk smells like shit, you better check your own shoes."
I don't know which one I like most. Both gets the point across well!
There's a joke in french where a guy visits the doctor, and goes "when I touch here it's painful... and also here.... here as well...." and the doctor goes "show me your finger, it's broken"
Lmao that's a good one!
My dad said the same thing, except he was always the biggest asshole in the room.
Narcissism is the strongest drug I know of. But everyone was a narcissist except him, according to him.
I'm glad he's dead now.
interesting, i knew it in a longer form: If you meet one asshole in a day, then you met an asshole. If all day all you meet is assholes, you’re the asshole.
This man is gayer than Liberace
Perennial
What growing up on CoD lobbies does to a motherfucker
As someone who is aromantic and thoroughly insular on a social level. This is a pretty piss poor excuse, I may be a virgin but that's because I don't like dealing with folks in general, Fuentes is just a gay Nazi who is so fucken far into the closet he is in Narnia.
Reminder he was caught jacking it to femboy porn.
Femboy porn is definitely a Schrodinger's type porn preference depending on how regressive the maker and consumer is.
Like there's certainly an argument to be made that jacking it to a femboy who calls themselves a man is gay but the point is presenting as a woman and fucking with binary set. You also have to accept that TERFs and transphobes in general absolutely love fetishizing it and would deny their identity regardless.
Tl;Dr you need more context to decide if it's gay or not, but it's certainly not straight
That's just confirmed. There's also rumors he was fucking around with one of his Groypers, which given their heavy male tilt is definitely likely to have been at least a little gay.
And they specifically have their "betas" transition as Trans-inclusive radical misogynists lol. Which certainly seems like an explanation for why we're not hearing much of the Kirk shooter's trans girlfriend.
Wasn't aware of that snippet, here I thought trans-inclusive radical misogyny was just a Jello-apocalypse bit. Then again knowing how these people are having been around a couple IRL I wouldn't be surprised in the least if there's some weird psychological bullshit mixed in.
that shit isn't happening, it's terf shit.
The dude wants fascist feudalism where all the men are fucking each other (but not like in gay way) and women are treated as subhumans.
Basically Swastika Night but unironically
"Sex after marriage" was fine until it turned out that no girl wants to marry this spoiled brat.
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I dont think men want to fuck him either
Fuentes looks like an actual rat person.
Like someone genetically blended a rat and a loser.
This is why grindr usage spikes when him and his white supremacists boyfriends all meet for a convention
I find it's difficult to be around people I treat like shit, too.
So, incel?
I'm guessing very closeted gay.
Not mutually exclusive haha 🤣
i should,... try bein easier to be around,..
Do you want to be in a room with this Nazi?
hm? oh - nonononono, i jus realized that bout myself, thar i wana be nicer tp be around.,.. any that thats prolli the reason there r few peeps around me,,
Well it took you one sentence to achieve more more self-awareness than this Fuentes guy has in all his 27 years, congrats
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But 'nice' is not a binary. Smells that might attract adorable puppies might not be so flattering in the eyes of a potential lover.
hmmmmm yea ur right.,,. but currently. --at least irl - im uncomfy to he around i feel., so,,. thats a thing i wana improve-
You have more self awareness than most people today. If you feel like you need to be nicer to the people around you then I say go for it. We need all the positive energy we can get in this world and age and we need to treat each other better if we want a better society.
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Maybe I'm just projecting here (I almost definitely am) but if you grow up pushing your peers away as a defence mechanism, it becomes very easy to keep doing that as an adult, especially if you didn't realize that you were doing it to begin with.
Its a hard path once you've realized this and want to improve it about yourself, but its a very rewarding path to take. I wish you luck on this new journey that you're undertaking!
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Because he is more into monkeys than women. He has a whole rant about it.
Well hey...good news Nick. It turns out that the Venn circles of Maga young men and incels form a perfect circle...so you can just stick your dick right through them!
I think Vaush had the right idea about him. Fuentes is playing a character to whip up his followers, who he hates at the same time he needs to cater to. He's obviously had sex at some point and part of him wants to abandon the hell he's created and go to somewhere with a high cost of living (Aspen, CO in the Vaush quote), keep a low profile and fuck all the women (or more likely femboys) he wants.
What's vaush's argument behind that? I don't care/hate myself enough to watch vaush directly, but that takes seems wildly out there vs Nick just being a little shit Nazi that no one wants to be around.
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And I thought I was a loser, but I managed to lose mine 3 years before him more if it takes him any longer. You have to be really terrible to be an attractive twink and still have no one want you
Pay attention boys: being a right winger will keep you from ever getting laid
I reject your implication that he is attractive or a twink as well as the assumption that only losers can't get laid, there are plenty of losers drowning in ussy.
Occam's Razor suggests he condemns gays and supports pedophiles because he's just a pedophile.
Updootes for Lil Bill. Lil Bill is awesome.
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