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[–] lib1@hexbear.net 59 points 5 months ago (1 children)

My favorite part is where it implies testosterone makes women better at hustle-grinding:

right after they prepare a high-protein dinner for their family and before they put the finishing touches on their spreadsheets, close their laptops and light a few mood candles for the sex that they know will be great

Cis people can’t help but do bioessentialism I guess

[–] vovchik_ilich@hexbear.net 35 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I didn't get the "high protein dinner" comment, why high protein? Also, why the "better sex than yesterday even if they're a day older"? Old women bad sex, is what the author is implying??

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 39 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Women actually get worse at sex every time they have it, that's why men want virgins

[–] vovchik_ilich@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Is it a linear progression? Can you cross into negative values? Does it grow back over time if you don't have sex? I have so many questions!!

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 27 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Can you cross into negative values

yes this is me

[–] WhatDoYouMeanPodcast@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (2 children)

If you do too much anti-sex and regress someone past their virginity, what happens?

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 14 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

i can't say from my perspective, but from various reports sex with me creates a hole in spacetime making previous partners retroactively better

cringe reddit comment

a hole in space time

sigh unzips

I should really log off.

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

no-oil Sex me once, shame on you. sex me tw- n-never having sex again. ^(^^nailed^ ^it^^)^

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 2 points 5 months ago
[–] vovchik_ilich@hexbear.net 16 points 5 months ago

Well at least you're gettin' sum action

[–] Binette@lemmy.ml 51 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Mild to hot take: I think making a child going through puberty when they don't understand what it entails or don't want the effects of it is a normalised form of abuse

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 31 points 5 months ago

Can't even describe how bad it is.

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 28 points 5 months ago

frothingfash "making kids go through the wrong puberty is bad"

knight-nod

frothingfash "wait not like that"

[–] CrookedSerpent@hexbear.net 41 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Where are the cis guys taking estrogen recreationally to make them better at league of Legends or something idk

opposite, cis guys not eating food because they think it's estrogen

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 26 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

there was a link to a reddit post a while back about some dude trying HRT simply because he wanted to try every drug

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago (1 children)

aren't several of the hair loss thing microdosing hrt?

[–] CrookedSerpent@hexbear.net 30 points 5 months ago

They use finasteride, which blocks the conversion of serum testosterone into DHT, which is responsible for hair loss. It's sometimes prescribed alongside estrogen and another anti-androgenic (if necessary) for the same purpose (hair loss prevention) so I wouldn't call finasteride feminizing HRT, just adjacent to it. πŸ€“

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 15 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Pretty sure some wealthy hogs used estrogen therapy in some anti-COVID cocktail.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 14 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Doesn't -oid have ableist roots?


β“˜ π˜›π˜©π˜ͺ𝘴 𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘳 π˜ͺ𝘴 𝘴𝘢𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘀𝘡𝘦π˜₯ 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘦π˜ͺ𝘯𝘨 𝘒 𝘀𝘒𝘡. π˜—π˜­π˜¦π˜’π˜΄π˜¦ 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘡 𝘒𝘯𝘺 𝘴𝘢𝘴𝘱π˜ͺ𝘀π˜ͺ𝘰𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘒𝘷π˜ͺ𝘰𝘳.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

It's from 4chan/r9k/incels afaik. Or at least they're the ones who popularized it recently. It's kind of mainstream now I guess? But that's the roots from what I remember.

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago

Yuck. My bad.

Like "removed" and its variants, sliding back into mainstream vernacular via the shittiest parts of the net. I'll do better.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

It's from 4chan/r9k/incels afaik

Yeah, even without the roots it has a bad vibe to me.


β“˜ π˜›π˜©π˜ͺ𝘴 𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘳 π˜ͺ𝘴 𝘴𝘢𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘀𝘡𝘦π˜₯ 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘦π˜ͺ𝘯𝘨 𝘒 𝘀𝘒𝘡. π˜—π˜­π˜¦π˜’π˜΄π˜¦ 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘡 𝘒𝘯𝘺 𝘴𝘢𝘴𝘱π˜ͺ𝘀π˜ͺ𝘰𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘒𝘷π˜ͺ𝘰𝘳.

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

You're probably right. Or maybe racist. Neither is acceptable and I'm not sure why I typed that particular portmanteau when there are so many other ways to disparage the landlord class. Sorry about that.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 37 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Some of these cis women don't know what they're messing with, I've seen several say testosterone doesn't effect women the way it does men and they won't masculinize even from ridiculous dosages (basically cis man levels). Lmao, good luck with your voice dropping and facial hair I guess. Won't listen.

[–] himeneko@hexbear.net 32 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

honestly i support womens wrongs (taking T and getting nasty with it). i just hope they can change their body the way they want the same that i should be able to.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yea that's great, no problem with that and obviously support them. But there's at least some of them who refuse to believe testosterone could actually effect a person's body and take way too much.

[–] himeneko@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago

yeah thats not great then :βˆ†

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

timmy-pray

maybe cis people will develop empathy when they experience a little cross-sex gender dysphoria for themselves.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, some might find they like they changes or are neutral about them and somehow assume that just means transfems are wrong rather than maybe reflected that they never really identified with their AGAB to begin with...

[–] BodyBySisyphus@hexbear.net 26 points 5 months ago

"It's okay when it benefits me" as a journalistic ethos.

[–] SmithrunHills@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago (1 children)

"But at what cost?" but for trans people

[–] vovchik_ilich@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Western media talking about Chinese trans people must implode

[–] LadyCajAsca@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago

"BUT AT WHAT COST?!!!!????!!!????????!!!??"

[–] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Okay hear me out. Okay I’m going to start with the time allotment because it’s a tough sell. For one hour only we give Andrea Dworkin a gundam and just let her go full begone on the Western Man

There will be friendly fire. I’m definitely toast. So long it’s been nice knowing y’all please have fun and stuff without me.

[–] Veggie_Deluxe@hexbear.net 19 points 5 months ago

The um, sexually liberated maha-venus di milo looks like a celebrity death match character