Ask Lemmy

It varies between people, but for me it alternates!

You. And also the pet name that my late husband used for me, if I'm feeling especially pitiful or otherwise in need of encouragement.

I, you, we and thou.

As in:

"What am I doing?!"

"You're getting older, not younger."

"Let's not do this again."

"Thou have lost the little bit of reasoning you had left."

And it scares people.

Mostly you

We. You are a combination of all the entities living on or in you. We are Us.

“We”. Not sure why. I guess it’s me and the person I’m talking to (who is also me)

Both. "I am an idiot." "You should know better."

"We"

"Do we think that leftover scree was important? Do we remember where it came from?"

"We need to get some more sleep."

Sometimes it's "You" when referring to the lazy, scared, or angry one.

"You're overreacting. You'll be fine. You're upset over nothing."

Never I.

"we" and other first-person-plurals

Interesting that several people are reporting using "you" for negative sentiments, because I use "I" for those as well. E.G. "Well, I'm a fucking idiot."

3rd person.

There are multiple voices, one says "I" while the others respond with "you" if they are disagreeing, or "we" if they agree.

• I should shave
• Yes we should
• No, you shouldn't. You look stupid.
• I think that's right, I'm not shaving.

I tend to just leave them out all together. Don’t know why though, maybe it’s faster?
It feels a bit like when you read a book fast and skip over entire words.

“Need to do some cleaning.”
“How could this be done faster?”
Or a common one:
“Hungry” :)

Typically “you” if it’s in my head, but if said out loud it’s “I”

Yes. I says to you.

Depends on if I'm mad at myself...

"I should go get some food."

"You fucking idiot."

Depends which side of myself is currently speaking.

Always I. Didn't know other people didn't always use I apparently.

Both. And often also by name for some sarcasms.

The passive voice is often used.

We and us-- "let's go do blah, we ought to blah"

Depends which part of myself I'm talking to. If it's just a general conversation, it's "we." If it's more of a direct conversation to a part of my mind, it's "you." If I'm talking about myself to a third-party, such as this response, it's "I."

It took me a moment to realise this was about inner monologues.

Both, but it also depends on if I’m winning the argument or they are.

I call myself by name, like a parent scolding their child.

I use I unless I'm insulting or denigrating myself, then it's usually you

'One'

If it's my internal monologue it's usually "I"

If I'm writing about myself (like a journal) then also "I"

If it's a note to remind myself of something then "you"

I have written letters to myself in the future and those are always "you"

I am an "I".

In my languages we don't usually use pronouns because verbs conjugations make them redundant, but I use both first and second person.

I think I mix them interchangeably. Much to the chagrin of my English teachers.

Yes, and sometimes other things.

Both, with a slight preference for "I".

I, we, you, they, kinda all of them. I kinda make up characters in my head and assign them positions and personalities based on the need of the moment, and address them as appropriate. I don't give them names or anything, it's more like 'that dick who keeps telling me to get off my ass and be productive can piss off', etc.

"I" or "we" in English, German is mostly reserved for deep thoughts where I rarely need to address myself but if I do I think I use "ich" ("I") as well. "You" wouldn't feel right for me personally.