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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago

Starting to reach the point of "Just enough mods" with my Cyberpunk 2077 set.

Now to look into this 2500+ clothing mods category to get the good shit. nia-smug

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Do not understand people into selfcest.
How would that even work?…who would make the first move? blocky-wat

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

wall-talk me talking to my wife about plants

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago

tipper gore is a way cooler name than she deserved

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

check if my nails are dry
they aren't (and now one is fucked)

Many such cases, unfortunate.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (6 children)

oblivion is fun despite being the worst game ever made

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Oh yeah, for all concerned parties:

I'm still gay.

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (18 children)

I want to write my thesis (actual masters thesis btw, serious bussiness) about trans people in media (maybe specifically videogames), but i don't have a solid idea yet and i thought i'd ask you all something. What do you think about representation of trans people in media lately? Any good examples that you'd like to share? Any bad ones? What do you think about videogames as a trans person? Have there been any developments that made you feel more included or represented in videogames (or other media)?

You can just say whatever, I just wanna get a feel from asking this, no need to write too much.

edit: Should I make a dedicated post for this? thonk-trans

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Obviously, I think bridget is a very good topic because she's one of the only characters who had to like publicly transition because she was publicly presenting as a boy for years. Same with testament. There's also that character from rocko's modern life who transitioned. I think it's more interesting to see characters who weren't trans when they were introduced because it more accurately mirrors our experiences.

I'd also like to see more representation of trans people who don't "pass". I think most trans characters are just presented as stealth.

In this case, the example from rocko's modern life is really interesting because the characters are all so far off from the human form that androgyny is the norm and only gender expression differentiates most genders (ed bighead and his wife look essentially exactly the same physically, but they have different gender expressions)

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

does anyone have any ideas for stuff i could do in my singleplayer minecraft? i'm trying to take it slow because normally i would play very min-maxy and beeline the end and stuff, but now that i have enchanting setup and plenty of diamonds i need ideas for stuff to work on that isn't just "beat the game". can be anything from a basic build to an automated farm or nonsensical contraption, or a more abstract goal. love all my trans comrades and glad to see the megas starting to pop off again!

also look how cute my UI is, i love vanilla tweaks!

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago

my partner got me a silver Star of Ishtar it is very nice.

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (6 children)

I tried to do my eyeliner today and failed miserably doggirl-cry I just want to be pretty and hot tonight (im going to a show) but instead my eyes are angry at me doggirl-tears

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (3 children)
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[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Can you mail each hexbear user a jellybean to propogate so that next year's harvest will be even more bountiful?

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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Breakfast friday rice

Dinner friday rice

Midnight snack friday rice

jeb All Rice All Friday

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (14 children)

Sonic 2 just don’t hit the same as Sonic 1 niko-yawn

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (10 children)

want to paint my nails

don't know what color to choose

lea-tired

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

cw: dysphoriaSuffering from a case of rapid-onset "mirrors are my bane". I was actually becoming okay with my appearance, wasn't ideal but also wasn't horrible and I was making progress. Now looking in a mirror just reminds me of this body I have to live in doggirl-gloom. Despite being overworked to all hell I've actually been feeling better about many things lately, but this just got way worse. Really strong "this doesn't feel like my body" feelings.

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Anybody else here ever just get a really strong case of the gays?

Who am I kidding, I already know the answer.

Anyway, girls pretty, reading/seeing yuri always sets me off for weeks so y'all are going to have to keep dealing with this. Sorry, but also, not sorry.

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[–] shallot@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (3 children)
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[–] other_platypus@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (8 children)

my gf is bullying me about a lack of proper reddiquette ... i dont even have a reddit account

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I have been sitting on my sofa writing an essay incredibly slowly without moving or having a real night of sleep (I've been napping at least don't worry) for the past 4 days and yet I am feeling nothing but joy about it right now. Why does Hegel do this to my brain. Why am I such a junkie for deliberately seeking out the hardest shit I can find to think about. Why is writing this essay genuinely so much fun.

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 9 points 3 months ago (2 children)

CW: General Queerphobia, Doomposting.Simultaneously I am and am not looking forward to pride month this year.

On one hand I'm me (yay!) and I feel great about myself (woohoo!) and I should have time to actually attend events this year (wheee!).

On the other hand it would be the perfect time for DonnyDon and his crew to bring the hammer down on us during what is supposed to be a time to celebrate queer resilience. I half expect to find out they had been holding on to the spiciest E.O.s for june, just to rub it in a bit more.

Bleh.

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