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Sometimes I'll notice that a building that I used to drive by all the time is gone (leveled to the ground). I know it's gone, but I can't remember what it looked like or what was in it. I just know it's gone.

Is there a name for this?

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[-] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 40 points 11 months ago

I know I used to know a word for this, but I'm not sure what it was.

[-] morphballganon@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago
[-] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 22 points 11 months ago
[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago
[-] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 4 points 11 months ago

I am now genuinely curious if this is a nonsense word or not.

[-] Koordinator_O@lemmy.world 38 points 11 months ago

Interestingly I can't find a german word for this and usually we germans have an unspeakable long word for everything. weird.

[-] TheGiantKorean@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

I figured out of anyone y'all would have a good word for this experience.

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago
[-] TheDoctorDonna@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

I don't know what it actually means, but it sounds like "missing stuff".

[-] qwertyqwertyqwerty@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago

Are you looking for the word, "forgotten"?

[-] ivanafterall@kbin.social 9 points 11 months ago

Gone, but also forgotten.

[-] TrenchcoatFullofBats@belfry.rip 16 points 11 months ago

I get this. I call it "deja durrr".

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

I call them potholes

[-] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago

Getting old

[-] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Alzheimer's

[-] zemja@programming.dev 9 points 11 months ago
[-] blackbrook@mander.xyz 1 points 11 months ago

Out of the blue and into the black...

[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 9 points 11 months ago

There's probably some really specific word in German for this, but I can't think of a single word in English that would fully describe what you're talking about.

[-] yA3xAKQMbq@lemm.ee 10 points 11 months ago

Oh course there is, it's:

Existenzerinnerungsverlust

[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

German is crazy like that.

[-] yA3xAKQMbq@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

It was a joke ;)

There is no word for that.

(But to be fair, if there was, this one would kind of work)

[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 months ago

Well, shit: That sounded really plausible.

[-] HenriVolney@sh.itjust.works 8 points 11 months ago

Love the concept, don't know the name. Is "evanescent" approaching (I know it's an adjective but maybe it helps)?

[-] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago
[-] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago
[-] transientpunk@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Dementia

Edit: I figured for sure that giving the wrong answer would lead to the right answer immediately showing up in the replies... Sadly, I was wrong

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

Virtually everyone over 40 visiting their former home town has dementia in that case.

[-] Tatters@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

When you go into a room for something and then can’t remember what it was. There is something about crossing a threshold that makes memories go poof.

[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 5 points 11 months ago

That's called context dependent memory.

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

I have that HARD. As I'm heading out the door, I have a mental list (grab keys and that paper for work, stop for gas, message person about thing) and if my wife asks an unrelated question on my way, I essentially rip up the list, answer her question, go out the door, head to the car, come back in for my keys, get to work, notice the empty gas tank, and remember that paper I left at home.

[-] TheGiantKorean@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

I have this bad as well. I have to go back to where I started if I want to remember. That seems to help "reset" stuff.

[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 months ago

This is why I usually keep a list on my phone.

[-] ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Context dependent memory is different. It’s when you can recall something because you’re in a similar environment where the memory was formed.

[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Yep, then you walk into another room (new context) and poof, it's gone, but sometimes you can go back into the other room and you start to remember. I'm no expert but I believe that's all related to context dependent memory.

Another trick can be to chew a certain flavor of gum when studying for a test, then chew that same flavor of gum while taking the text: It will help you remember your studies.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

That totally happened to me the other day when I was visiting the town I grew up in. It's only a little over an hour away by car, but I hadn't walked around the downtown in years, and it's so different that I couldn't even remember what buildings used to be when they were replaced sometimes.

[-] ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 7 points 11 months ago

Presque Vu maybe?

[-] CodexArcanum@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

In New Orleans you'll often hear "Ain't there no more."

As in, "hey wasn't there a great little cafe here before the storm?" "Yeah, but aint dere no mo"

[-] XYZinferno@lemmy.basedcount.com 5 points 11 months ago

Reminds me a bit of Jamais Vu

It's not a perfect match to what you describe but it's defined as "the phenomenon of experiencing a situation that one recognizes in some fashion, but that nonetheless seems novel and unfamiliar."

In your case, you recognize there was a building, and recognize it should be familiar, but it still feels unfamiliar to you nevertheless.

Hopefully this is in the right direction lmao

[-] match@pawb.social 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

saudade

edit: also, differently, mono no aware

[-] AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space 5 points 11 months ago

Both of these are a lot less specific, and refer to types of melancholy.

[-] match@pawb.social 4 points 11 months ago

oh true. anemoia?

[-] morphballganon@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

"Passed out of memory"

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Life after the monitor

[-] FrankLaskey@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 months ago
[-] willya@lemmyf.uk 2 points 11 months ago

Alzheimer’s

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