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[CW: bigotry] Had an encounter with overt transphobia today... Edit: or, how some teens wrecked my shit. (hexbear.net)
submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net
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Went to get some last minute groceries, wasn't particularly concerned about passing, but wore a mask because I wanted to give my face a break for the weekend. I get out of my car and some corn fed yokel 14 year olds run past me while loudly have a conversation about 'what is it?!'. They go back and forth on if I'm a girl or boy, I can't remember the exact details of the conversation because the girl in the group answered the two boys with something that shut my brain down. She said "that's a Democrat"...

what-the-hell

I'm still having trouble processing the whole thing.

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[–] context@hexbear.net 74 points 3 months ago (3 children)

She said "that's a Democrat"...

meow-knife-trans thems fightin words

[–] Des@hexbear.net 53 points 3 months ago (1 children)

yeah going to start referring to that as the d slur

[–] TomBombadil@hexbear.net 35 points 3 months ago

Kamala Harris, of the [removed] party...

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 42 points 3 months ago

I know right? You can call me anything but for some reason being called a liberal or a democrat is the worst.

Like don't associate me with those Hamilton loving freaks! meow-cactus

[–] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 25 points 3 months ago

kitsupogi I do not tempt such fates.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 69 points 3 months ago (2 children)

i think id prefer being called slurs over being called a democrat tbh trans-sad

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 48 points 3 months ago

being called slurs

being called a democrat

same-picture

[–] WhatDoYouMeanPodcast@hexbear.net 42 points 3 months ago

teenagers being overtly transphobic

niko-yawn

being called a democrat

omori-furious

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 62 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

You can tell they're just parroting things their shitty parents/shitty Youtubers the algorithm pushes have said.

It's a sad state of affairs the way our children are brainwashed.

[–] FLAMING_AUBURN_LOCKS@hexbear.net 53 points 3 months ago

I'm sorry you got called a Democrat OP

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 52 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I was waiting in line at the grocery store today, this dude in front while trying to be polite was like "oh you can help them first". Then like seconds later switches to using him for good measure.

I was just sort of bemused because I could see the guys thought process being like "oh no I used neutral pronouns they're going to think I'm gay", quick start misgendering!

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 29 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I was just sort of bemused because I could see the guys thought process being like β€œoh no I used neutral pronouns they’re going to think I’m gay”, quick start misgendering!

Definitely something I've noticed. A lot of homophobia being used by highschoolers, followed by "just messing around, I don't really have a problem with people being gay", followed by either insisting they aren't gay or jokes by others about them being gay. Was a bit surprised transphobia seemed less common than homophobia in those groups. Like, I don't remember hearing any overt homophobia when I was in grade-school (just "no homo" type comments). But maybe people just kept quiet with those jokes around me?

[–] blight@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I don’t know when you went to grade school, but trans (and hence transphobia) wasn’t invented until 2022 by Kamal sHarrias (PBUH)

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

Comrade grocery store line guy, welcome to the Home of Sexuals. We have blanket forts and (optional, consentual) snuggles. It fuckin rules.

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 51 points 3 months ago

I would take "Democrat" to be more offensive than some of the worst spiels that the most heated gamer can deliver to me.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 47 points 3 months ago

"that's a D#mocrat"...

That's fucked up. I'm sorry it happened to you. meow-hug

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 25 points 3 months ago

Just remember that in their minds democrats are cool baby-eating communists that run the world and have crazy sex parties with lots of drugs you haven't even heard of

[–] M68040@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (3 children)

This is why we need slurs for cis people that hit like the slurs they cook up

[–] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 14 points 3 months ago

How about chicken fucker?

[–] rando895@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 3 months ago

Doesn't calling them cis usually work? The less clever the better imo

[–] Eldritch@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

In authoritarian communist china and ussr, the youth were brainwashed with hateful stereotypes

[–] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

misgendered AND called a lib. I'd be devastated