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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").  Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[-] Luna@hexbear.net 15 points 14 hours ago

venting anxieties about sibiling's potential dysphoriaTo set some background, my sibiling came out as non-binary a couple of years ago. They were 8 at the time. To this day, that is still how they feel. However, things have been changing for them recently, and while I've had thougts before, I've become increasingly concerned since I started my own transition. I think that they're feeling dysphoria, and I'm going to try having a serious conversation with them about how they feel towards growing up on T. They've already told me they're afraid of, and don't like looking in mirrors, and they still mostly look like a kid. They have started growing more body hair, and a small amount of facial hair, and I think that may be getting to them. They've told me they don't want that. I'm sorry I'm rambling, but I'm worried they're going to go through a puberty they don't want to go through, and they're not going to realize they can so something about it until they're older (like me).

I've brought up puberty blockers with my parents, but despite how good they are with most things, they seem to be against doing that. I intend to bring up HRT with my sibiling, but considering they might not know what they want for themselves, I don't want to seem pushy, nor do I want to get them on something they won't like.

Sorry, but I really had to vent. I don't even know how this relates to any of you, or myself, at all, but I needed to voice my concerns to somebody without getting into an argument about someone else's body.

[-] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 9 points 13 hours ago

Oh great, abusive parents. Yeah do whatever you can to prevent your sibling from being traumatized.

[-] naom3@hexbear.net 7 points 12 hours ago

I wish I had a sister like you growing up meow-hug having someone to tell me what options there were and to help me get on puberty blockers or hormones would have been life-changing. It’s not pushy to let your sibling know about puberty blockers or help them make figure out what they want and you should definitely have a talk with them

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[-] Luna@hexbear.net 13 points 14 hours ago

My sister stole my eyeliner and I have no idea where she put it badeline-disgust

She was like "Oh, I borrowed your eyeliner today, look at how good it is!" and I was like "that's good" while thinking to myself that she took it from me and used it before I got the chance to. At least I know it's good eyeliner badeline-bruh

[-] Thallo@hexbear.net 3 points 12 hours ago

You have any eyeliner tips? I always have trouble. It, like, doesn't want to apply to my skin for some reason

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[-] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 14 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Wore a skirt in front of my mother in law for the first time today and I could see her see it and then pointedly not acknowledge it. Why is this the most common reaction that I get? It’s maddening

[-] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 12 hours ago

What reaction do you want?

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[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I have no fuckin idea what the problem is, but I am getting more annoying about it. I wore a skirt out a few weeks ago and it's literally the first time I've worn anything other than jeans in front of my dad, in my entire decade of gendering... nothing. I am doing makeup next time.

[-] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 9 points 14 hours ago

Are there people who are genuine fans of KSI’s music or is it mostly just a meme?

[-] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 7 points 13 hours ago

it's every day bro

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 8 points 14 hours ago

Killswitch Ingage?

Wait no that's "engage" isn't it

[-] Luna@hexbear.net 8 points 14 hours ago

All I know is that he peaked with LamborghiniIt's definetly a meme, at least that one song is for me.

[-] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 7 points 13 hours ago

Feeling really burnt out today for the first time in a while. Hope I get thru this rough spot soon. omori-miserable

[-] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 16 points 16 hours ago

thirtymilliondeadfish has had there social position, personal integrity, leftist credentials, and gender credentials savaged.

screm-pretty

[-] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 14 hours ago

hey can i post some weird rant about potentially dating a poly person later?

i don't know why i make it sound like i'm asking. i'm going to do it anyway and i'm just posting this to remind myself for later

[-] naom3@hexbear.net 5 points 12 hours ago

Stay tuned!

[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 16 hours ago

I feel so wide all the time, but I think everyone might just be wider than I think and I have BDD doggirl-gloom

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 6 points 11 hours ago
[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 6 points 11 hours ago

Idk about that

[-] naom3@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago
[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I don't know why this is the case, but I hate how hard calling myself a woman is. Maybe with time/transition progress it will be more natural feeling? I definitely want to be, so I guess I am, idk it still feels wrong.

[-] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 16 hours ago

What happened? I remember a few months ago you really liked the term and didn't consider transfem or other queer stuff useful to you. It was all woman all the way!

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I have no idea what is happening to me anymore. I remember really liking woman/girl. I don't like feeling disconnected from that. I can't think of a (good) reason. I don't feel it. I don't look at myself and think woman. I don't know. I'm having a hard time feeling like a woman lately. I don't know if its in like a not enough gender affirmation way, but also someone calling me a woman would feel off...

I know this is disjointed, I'm having a hard time explaining or even really understanding.

[-] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

No, I understand completely. I was having the same issue lately. Not feeling it. Earlier, I made a post that mentioned that I want to want to transition, but sometimes I just can't bring myself to see it, and I confuse this with disinterest.

For what it's worth, actually taking steps to transition has alleviated this. Coming out to people, wearing fem stuff more often, doing voice training, hair removal, hearing my new name, etc.

I figure all of this trans stuff is sitting in your head but without any actual changes, it feels stagnant. It can be depressing

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[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 9 points 15 hours ago
[-] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 19 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

One of my friends was like, yo, even if you're just enby, you're not cis and don't wanna be cis, you should post on the trans mega!

So, uh, hey all, how we doing? Gonna make a dal with canned pumpkin in it this weekend

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 11 hours ago

"Just enbies" are not cis, henlo comrade kel-bliss

They sell pumpkin in a can? Fucked up...

[-] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 14 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Yay we need more enbys on the trans mega! Welcome, comrade. comrade-raccoon

[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 17 hours ago

Yeah of course enbys can post here!!!

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 17 hours ago

Day one of Gabapentin Is For Losers, Cold Turkey Gang, I Ain't No Fuckin Loser:

I stop taking the anxiety med, dead-dove-1 I have more anxiety when I'm going outside dead-dove-3

No bad withdrawal stuff though, baby tier. I'm goin' back to anxietytown.

[-] naom3@hexbear.net 5 points 12 hours ago

I stop taking the anxiety med, dead-dove-1 I have more anxiety when I'm going outside dead-dove-3

This is so real. Every now and then I try and go off cipralex so I can feel full emotions again and I quickly get reminded of why I’m on it in the first place

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 5 points 11 hours ago

yea I'm just deciding to go back to the grind of suffering, gabapentin wasn't helping. Was a rude awakening going off sertraline the first time tho...

[-] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 8 points 16 hours ago
[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 11 hours ago

I think so, I'm finding myself emotionally distant and caustic a lot on gabapentin, which I do not like.

[-] ComradeMonotreme@hexbear.net 12 points 18 hours ago

Yesterday I was photographing a self bondage set in a small grove between some trees, a sort of lost in the woods thing wearing the green dress from Howl's moving castle and a pair of blue wrens landed on the branch next to my head and hung out there for a few moments, I didn't manage to get the picture with them because I was too surprised but I'm a motherfucking Disney princess.

[-] Luna@hexbear.net 10 points 18 hours ago

I was looking at my shadow today, and it looked like I was wearing an awesome coat with a long back piece flapping in the wind, along with my jeans. Yeah, in reality it's just a sweatshirt thing that happens to have a small portion that hangs out in the back, and it does it in the front too. Now I really want a coat like that...

[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 19 hours ago

It’s cold, I wanna be a burritodoggirl-tears

[-] Luna@hexbear.net 6 points 16 hours ago

There is so much more to this Fire Emblem rom hack than I thought, and I have to reset my run because I misunderstood how supports work and I've forsaken romance for a lot of the characters i-love-not-thinking

I'll definitely have a mega post for when the time comes, there's a lot to this hack and it might just be peak gaming

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[-] Eco@hexbear.net 23 points 22 hours ago

i call her my wife and she loves it. i call her my waifu one time...

[-] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 17 points 21 hours ago

Mental health, burnout, family shitFeeling real yes-honey-left today

Lend me gay energy to take care of myself instead of just burning myself out dealing with external problems

I feel like I'm trying so hard to improve myself and do so much for other people to just keep my dysfunctional family afloat and it's never enough and I never feel appreciated for it

It's like no matter what I do and how hard I try to get my shit together, I'm always gonna be treated like a dumb gremlin baby by my family even as they increasingly become incompetent geezers that need my help with simple shit that they're too lazy to do for themselves

It feels like I'm carrying them around in the Flintstones car and if I quit lifting it up and kicking my legs to keep it moving, the wheels are gonna fall off and that's gonna be all my fault according to them and I'll never hear the end of it. this-is-fine its-a-living

Anyways here's a cute cat pic

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