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[-] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 146 points 1 month ago

Banning sex work is about as successful as banning drugs. All it usually does is lead to more misery for the sex workers. Which is entirely the intention, of course.

[-] Speculater@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

Let's not forget the other side of the equation, a lot more people would try drugs if they weren't illegal. Which is a good thing, because learning about them helps all of society.

[-] Entropywins@lemmy.world 33 points 1 month ago

My experience as an addict tells me more people trying drugs isn't necessarily the best thing they can do for their lives IMHO.

[-] YarHarSuperstar@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago

I don't know if it's true that making drugs legal means more people try them. It might make sense in a certain sort of way but I'd like to see data before accepting it as truth.

[-] skulblaka@startrek.website 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

As it seems to me, who hung around with a lot of drug users back in the day, as well as regular folks: most people who are interested in trying them can and will get their hands on it regardless of legality, sometimes easily. It's about as low risk of a crime as there is. Those who aren't interested, won't, again regardless of legality. There will be edge cases where somebody will go "Ah what the hell, it's legal now, why not" and toddle on over to their local dispensary for the first time but largely speaking anybody that wants to smoke weed or snort coke is probably already doing it.

Now what probably would change is the number of people on record using drugs, per capita, over the next few generations if it becomes normalized like alcohol has been. Which makes sense. But, counterpoint to that, in countries where they have legalized many drugs they still often have lower rates of severe addiction because they've generally also set up safety nets for those folks. Accessible medical care and available addiction treatment options will keep many drug users from hitting rock bottom, but we don't really have that in the US so many users will often go unassisted in any way for ages and lose jobs and homes because of it, only getting "help" when it becomes forced upon them by the state (which is frequently not in any way helpful).

Anyway, I'm rambling, but tl;dr it's definitely a multifaceted situation and blanket legalization probably isn't a great move without accompanying medical and social support, which needs to happen anyway regardless of any moves for drug legalization. Gotta walk before we can run, unfortunately.

[-] rambling_lunatic@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago

I think they're talking about the less addictive and nonaddictive drugs, like ganja and LSD respectively.

[-] JayDee@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 month ago

So long as that drug use is paired by actually good rehabilitation infrastructure (like Portugal's drug abuse treatment before its unraveling)

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[-] cobysev@lemmy.world 123 points 1 month ago

Way back in my senior year of high school (around 2002), we had a debate project where everyone partnered up, picked a controversial topic, picked a side of the topic, and then researched and advocated for their side to the rest of the class, including a Q&A at the end, where the class could challenge their position.

To our surprise, the two hottest girls in our class picked prostitution as their topic, and advocated for it to be legalized. The teacher was also surprised, and curious enough to let them present their topic to the class.

We all thought they were joking with their topic, to get a rise out of all the horny boys. After all, as 17/18 year olds, our experience with prostitution came from movies or TV documentaries, where it was generally shown as a disgusting and degrading act; the last resort for a woman down on her luck.

But the girls' presentation was incredibly well researched, with figures regarding the number of deaths, violent crime, drugs, and human trafficking involved in illegal prostitution, compared to Nevada's legalized prostitution since the 1970s, which had practically no numbers to report.

They even did a deep dive into a brothel in Nevada, where the women were paid very well and treated kindly and fair and not like they're just a piece of meat. Plus, they had regular checkups and practically free health care because of their profession. They even walked through the various services they provided, since some people (they serviced anyone, not just men) wanted other forms of intimacy instead of just sex. It was a safe and judgment-free environment, on both sides of the table, and the women employed there actually wanted to do the job, with the option to quit anytime. Unlike illegal prostitution, which removed the woman's autonomy over her own body and placed her in dangerous situations, exposed to violence and drugs to barely make a living.

In the end, the girls did a fantastic job on their presentation and convinced a whole class of seniors that prostitution could be an honest and respectable position, and should be legalized. I've never looked at it the same way since.

We need to seize the means of reproduction

[-] 7U5K3N@lemmy.dbzer0.com 37 points 1 month ago

That would be a great sign for an abortion rally.

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[-] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 60 points 1 month ago

Sex work needs legislation and unions, and work as defined by capitalism is degrading

[-] Floshie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 60 points 1 month ago

I think they should do the fuck they want

[-] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 1 month ago

this comment is very funny

[-] RoyaltyInTraining@lemmy.world 48 points 1 month ago

Capitalism makes work degrading

[-] Lets_Eat_Grandma@lemm.ee 9 points 1 month ago

Being a worker is degrading.

Being an owner is empowering.

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 month ago

Being a worker is empowering if you abolish Owners.

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[-] retrieval4558@mander.xyz 39 points 1 month ago

I'm pro sex work, however:

I have mixed feelings about the current ubiquity of online sex work like onlyfans. In theory I've definitely got nothing against it but I'm worried that a lot of young women are faced with shitty economic prospects vs potentially lots of money on onlyfans. The alternatives are so poor sometimes that it feels like coercion.

I just wish young people had better options all together.

[-] Meron35@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago

I have good news for you! The income distribution of OnlyFans creators like many other platforms follows a power law, where the top 1% earn 33% of all revenue, and the average creator only earns $150-180 each month. Don't think young women doing it tough are likely to be coerced by that.

Most of the high earners are those who already have an established audience, e.g. ex porn stars.

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[-] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago

Only fans is an MLM scheme, and watching "content creators" brag about how awesome it is to groom the next generation is... At least ick.

Nothing wrong with sex work, as any work, when done within a healthy ecosystem. But it is still a very murky area due to the very nature of human sexuality. The lines can get blurred very easily. Not as bad as Wall Street though. That's where the real abuse is.

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[-] ninpnin@sopuli.xyz 30 points 1 month ago

From what Ive heard about customer service jobs in the US, sex work sounds way less degrading than that.

On the flipside, you can make most jobs, including most types of sex work, not degrading

[-] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago

Long as it isnt forced on them, let them work

[-] Neato@ttrpg.network 28 points 1 month ago

Not all work. Just work you have to do to not starve. We have enough resources to provide a basic living for everyone. We can then use work as an incentive for more luxuries and encourage people to explore the types of work they want to do. Like creative endeavors. Pay more incentive for the work people dislike doing but is still necessary. We'll figure out what work is actually necessary and what is just spinning wheels.

[-] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 26 points 1 month ago

Old joke, but on topic.

A professor asks a class if anyone there would be a sex worker if they were paid $1 billion for a year. Everyone raises their hand.

He then asks if anyone in the class would do sex work for one night if the pay was $5.00?

Class is all irate. "What kind of people do you think we are?"

"I know what kind of people you are. Now we're discussing the prices."

[-] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 17 points 1 month ago

I don't partake, but it's definitely degrading because you have to sell your body for a living just like construction or factory jobs.

Read this as "sex at work" and the second point was very confusing

Well, technically this is correct

It's no more degrading than other work. I wouldn't tell a cashier they're degrading themself by having to work to live, and I wouldn't say that to a sex worker either.

[-] Juice@midwest.social 10 points 1 month ago

First, the fact that labor is external to the worker, i.e., it does not belong to his intrinsic nature; that in his work, therefore, he does not affirm himself but denies himself, does not feel content but unhappy, does not develop freely his physical and mental energy but mortifies his body and ruins his mind. The worker therefore only feels himself outside his work, and in his work feels outside himself. He feels at home when he is not working, and when he is working he does not feel at home. His labor is therefore not voluntary, but coerced; it is forced labor. It is therefore not the satisfaction of a need; it is merely a means to satisfy needs external to it. Its alien character emerges clearly in the fact that as soon as no physical or other compulsion exists, labor is shunned like the plague. External labor, labor in which man alienates himself, is a labor of self-sacrifice, of mortification. Lastly, the external character of labor for the worker appears in the fact that it is not his own, but someone else’s, that it does not belong to him, that in it he belongs, not to himself, but to another. Just as in religion the spontaneous activity of the human imagination, of the human brain and the human heart, operates on the individual independently of him – that is, operates as an alien, divine or diabolical activity – so is the worker’s activity not his spontaneous activity. It belongs to another; it is the loss of his self.

-- Karl Marx, Economic Manuscripts

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[-] John_McMurray@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Nah. Sitting around waiting for a check in the mail and wacking off all day is degrading.

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[-] blunderworld@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago

I have nothing against sex work or sex workers, but I do think it's inherently more degrading than most other jobs. We're talking about the industry that normalized selling used panties and bath water to lonely strangers online.

[-] Phegan@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago

It's perceived as degrading due to the societal stigma that has been created against it. If it's between consenting adults, there is nothing degrading about it. Don't degrade people for any choice that is not harming another individual. We've created a prudish society where we look at anything sex adjacent as someone we shouldn't talk about in public.

[-] Eatspancakes84@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

Who is this degrading to exactly?

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[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Is it because sex is a sin for women, but something that must be earned for men? Is it because sex outside of the established order is bad? Is it because sex without love is degrading? What motivates you, consciously or not, to make such a value judgment over such an exchange?

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm pro sex work because I am all for the idea that if you do what you love, you won't have to work a day in your life and, boy, do I love having sex. 😎

[-] key@lemmy.keychat.org 9 points 1 month ago

Pee on me and call me a Kohl's cashier, daddy!

Hmm, not sure it passes the kink test.

[-] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago

We should accept that there's both people for whom sex work is just like any other job, and people for whom it implies renouncing to an element of privacy they'd rather to share only with their partner/s. Should it be legalized? By criminalizing it you're screwing over a lot of people who do want to perform that work and don't provoke any issues in the world, but legalizing it might have ramifications that are horrendous.

For instance, say your country has an unemployment system where you'd lose your unemployment benefits if you receive a job offer and reject it, and immediately after getting fired you receive an offer to work at a brothel. That's great if, for you, there's no emotional element attached to sex, but for a lot of people that would be a nightmare, especially if they need either a job or the unemployment benefits.

So, my take: decriminalize sex work but don't regulate it yet. Once we have either socialism or UBI or both, and no one gets under risk of suffering personal misery for not having a job for a while, legalize it like all other jobs.

[-] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 month ago

Wait, if you get offered a job that is dangerous or can scar you mentally, you have to accept it or lose your benefits?

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[-] LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

I am for sex work, I am against sex abuse.

[-] Korne127@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Most works can be made into a way that they're not degrading, and the ones that can't, shouldn't be jobs.

Reminder to keep it chill in the comments. Discussion is fine as long as you aren't personally attacking others or saying misogynistic shit. Double check the rules pinned at the top if you need a refresher

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