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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 4 points 16 hours ago

Post-Brexit Britain

[–] GiantChickDicks@lemmy.ml 9 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

The public acceptance of gambling. It's fucking everywhere. Even things that seem relatively innocuous on the surface, like trading cards or blind boxes, are less about the fun of collecting and more about the rush of ripping through multiple packs or boxes to focus on the resell value.

I never imagined a world where we can easily bet on natural disasters and cancer on a whim. Please fire me into the sun.

[–] ThunderComplex@lemmy.today 3 points 19 hours ago

Yeah and also that gambling is normalized on two fronts: For adults we’re normalizing betting on fucking everything like if it’s gonna rain tomorrow,
And for children we’re normalizing gambling in video games. Gambling used to be a niche, almost something you’d be ashamed of. „I lost my money on the ponies“ would be something you’d tell your best friends when talking about your dark past.

[–] Soulinyx@piefed.world 2 points 17 hours ago

There's a great irony that MLB banned Pete Rose for life until his death from baseball or getting into the hall of fame. Only for them to openly embrace gambling.

[–] crystalmerchant@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago

Over under on your body's liquification time on approach to the sun?

[–] AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago

Flagrant acts of racism.

Portland pretends to be better than that, but I keep having casual reminders that we're really white-coded. A black guy walks into the liquor store at 10:00 am and both the women behind the counter have a collective sense of panic when I'm walking up to check out. There was nothing off about him. They just had some immediate sense that he intended harm. The one checking me out said, under her breath, "oh, I thought we were getting robbed".

It was obvious the dude noticed their reaction, and it made me feel fucking horrible.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 6 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Is it too obvious to say a Hitler-like figure running a country I thought such things couldn't happen in?

Okay, less political answer: reality shows that go too far with exploiting people. An early season of Big Brother had long lost siblings find out they were siblings on tv. Such moments shoukd be private. There was a reality show where a guy thought he was called for jury duty but it was all fake. I don't understand how it's even legal to film a reality show without telling the guy he's in a reality show. There was a reality show where a woman has to guess who her biological father is. that's not something we should be making a game of.

[–] monotremata@lemmy.ca 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

The reality show that freaked me out was Solitary. It ran on Fox from 2006-2010. No healthy society would ever allow something like this to exist as a form of entertainment. https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2008/03/voluntary-confinement/

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I didn't know about that one. That's disturbing

[–] monotremata@lemmy.ca 1 points 16 hours ago

It's so disturbing. I actually saw part of an episode of it at the time, and I watched, thinking, "they can't actually mean that, right?" But it seriously is just footage of these people being tortured, with some vaguely sci-fi looking sets. I have no idea how this got approved, and every so often I'm reminded of it, and I think, "god, was that real?" I'm glad that Mother Jones article exists, because otherwise I think people would never believe it.

[–] TheBlindPew@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

On the jury one the guy knew he was being filmed the whole time, they just mislead him to believe that the trial was real and the subject of the reality show and that the rest of the jury weren't actors when in reality he was the only person in the show who was not aware that the whole show was staged to look real

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 1 points 17 hours ago

Thanks for the explanation. I haven't actually watched the show. I have seen a season of the Joe Schmo show, where the guy knows he's on a reality show but doesn't know that the rest of the cast are actors

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 4 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Conspiracy theory nuts start to get big bucket things right. Like a giant cabal of child sex traffickers running global political and financial systems, including Hollywood.

I mean, it's pretty much just that one so far, but damned if that wasn't an evergreen theory over the last few decades.

[–] Cricket@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

This reminds me of a Belgian case that implicated their elites in child sexual abuse in the mid-90s, yet the alleged wider network was never fully investigated. It always surprised me that that case wasn't referred to when the whole Epstein case blew up in the media given the parallels of the elites being involved.

WARNING: VERY DISTURBING STORY (makes Epstein look like a saint) https://torontosun.com/news/world/crime-hunter-how-high-up-did-killer-belgian-pedo-ring-go

[–] anarchy79@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

"People are being fooled by a secret pedophile cabal!", says influencer supporting a secret pedophile cabal.

[–] vane@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Colonel_Panic_@eviltoast.org 1 points 11 hours ago

A harsh reality.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 56 points 1 day ago (12 children)

People being 'anti-science.'

I grew up with Star Trek and old school science fiction stories where the rulers were 'The Council Of Science' or some such. There used to be a Presidential Science Advisor in the White House.

[–] Hideakikarate@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Man, 2020 (Covid) was so depressing with all that. Nurses not wearing masks and denying the effectiveness of vaccines was such a kick in the crotch for my morale.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

AI generated music, images, and videos.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

My dad! Thanks, dad!! /s

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Trump's second term, specifically. The bar is in free fall and apparently rock bottom is not the lowest you can go.

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[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 29 points 1 day ago (15 children)

How selfish and cruel people openly are.

Blows my mind how common it is nowadays.

The shit that comes out of stranger's mouths to me shocks me on a weekly basis now. Years ago it probably shocked me on a once every couple of months basis.

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[–] Abyssian@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

My penis. When I was 600lbs and couldn't see it I longed for the day I could look. I kept working out and kept losing weight and... kept not seeing it. Finally I got down to 120lbs. I can see it now. I wish I hadn't.

I'm thinking about going back to massive overeating to hide my greatest shame back underneath what I used to think was my greatest shame, but after these last several years of making myself vomit to lose the weight my throat's just too sore to eat much.

[–] jaycifer@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Driving straight through a stoplight from the right turn lane. There’s this intersection where I live that looks like this:

Most people going straight through that intersection want to take the exit right after to hop on a freeway. Twice now I’ve dealt with people following the red line from the right turn lane, forcing everyone else to merge around them to take the exit.

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

could be worse, every single part where roads cross here has a light btw

[–] crystalmerchant@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

that's in boston, boston has a bunch of godawful intersections like that

[–] echo@lemmy.today 26 points 1 day ago (17 children)

Trump as president? and again?

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[–] Drusas@fedia.io 4 points 1 day ago

Reports on the high rates of illiteracy and semiliteracy among American adults.

News reports on measles outbreaks.

[–] anothermember@feddit.uk 16 points 1 day ago (16 children)

Over the course of my life, DRM-restricted streaming services. I once thought people would be naturally against that. You're going to want to have your own copy of media you love to keep forever, right? Apparently I was wrong.

[–] Cricket@lemmy.zip 1 points 17 hours ago

I can kind of understand DRM in subscription streaming services. What I don't understand at all is people paying to "buy" DRM-protected media where you don't even get a local copy, like all major digital movie purchase platforms.

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