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I don't know if keeping the usernames visible is a good or a bad thing at this point, but it kinda sucks for insecure people who don't wanna get roasted lol

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[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 40 points 2 months ago (2 children)

People who delete their post after getting an answer are bad citizens of the community.

If everyone did that it would be a wasteland.

If I see you do it regularly I will block your posts so as to not waste time.

[–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Otoh sometimes people realize they posted something rude and insensitive, and are not the kind of asshats who double down on bad positions but instead prefer to take our lumps and try to do better in the future

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 13 points 2 months ago

There’s a difference between regretting a post and taking your ball to go home.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If so, it's entirely possible to edit the post by crossing out or even erasing all the offensive words and adding or substituting an apology. "I've realized I posted something rude and insensitive here, so I've deleted it and will try to do better in the future."

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

In a similar vein, I wish people who lose arguments could be better about leaving it up.

We’re all anonymous here so you shouldn’t let your ego get in the way of debating ideas and debunking bad ones.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 months ago

Especially since there's no accumulation of points here! I like to look and see the reaction numbers, but they don't affect anything beyond that one moment in that one place.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 2 months ago

yes i often do it because it sounds wierd or it is could be a misinterpretation. usually people are aggressive with things like misinformaiton/propaganda usually leave it up. aside from teh bots who delete theirs immediately.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

Unless it’s legitimately a mispost (egregiously wrong place) I’ll usually just edit if I was wrong and let it stand for posterity so other fediverse users aren’t left wondering

[–] Juice@midwest.social 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Sometimes someone says something awful, and I just go the fuck off on them. Paragraphs of refutal, logic argument, citations. And I let it sit for a minute, and go back and delete it because I just don't like my vibe and honestly what difference will it make?

But then I get upvotes because some users can see deleted comments, and it makes me feel pretty good

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I can't see deleted comments but I still upvote them because why not

[–] Juice@midwest.social 2 points 2 months ago

Thank you for your service

[–] jaygray91@piefed.zip 4 points 2 months ago

I do that as well, except I don't hit send and delete it. Sometimes I just need something let out and doesn't need it to be out in the public

Sometimes typing it out makes it sound way more stupid than I initially thought so why bother

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[–] roserose56@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] yakko@feddit.uk 11 points 2 months ago

created by deleter

[–] kolmaskommentoija@sopuli.xyz 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I delete my comments regularly few weeks after posting them, because often my paranoia kicks in, and I feel like I have to at least cover my tracks a bit. I do however, do my best to leave up all comments that answer something or have relevant information.
When I switch accounts to a new one, I delete my full comment history, though. I know this is bad for the continuity and history and everything, but I have not figured out ways to lessen my paranoia. And it does not help, that I somewhat lack in emotions, and do not care much, what people I do not know, think about me or my actions. So my options are, either keep doing this, or stop commenting. So far the first one has won.

[–] polle@feddit.org 4 points 2 months ago

Seems like good practice. I just recently learned that your up/downvotes are also visible for everyone, which seems odd and sketchy privacy wise. Which result in way less voting by me.

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[–] Astronut@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Here’s a fact! It doesn’t matter unless they actually a judge!

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)
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[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (4 children)

If I post in the wrong place I delete it. Don't care how you look at me.

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

From what I understand, this is more about legitimately good posts getting deleted and basically the solid info amid the responses getting lost/inaccessible as a result. Despite the decreased anonymity, the loss of information for the hive mind is severer than on Reddit, where deleted stuff can still show up in search engines, or something like that. I don't remember the details of how it works but it's a mounting problem with Lenny's design. Perhaps a better explanation here: https://programming.dev/comment/24979223

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[–] jdf038@mander.xyz 8 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Being roasted isn't the end of the world. You will emerge cooked but flavorful.

Seriously though just remember we are all just bots anyway /s

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[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 months ago (13 children)

I really need to make an undelete instance. It would be incredibly easy to federate and then just ignore the code that executes a delete when it receives it via ActivityPub.

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[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Deleted by Tyler, the Creator

[–] amio@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Out of a hundred possible good reasons to delete, it'll probably be perceived as something you did wrong, because then people can gloat.

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I dont even edit my misspellings anymore. Take me as I am, dumb ass and all.

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 4 points 2 months ago

dumb
as you are
as you were
as I want you to be

[–] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago

Removed by mod

[–] Xylight 4 points 2 months ago (6 children)

They really need to add a way to view mod removed posts

[–] AlteE@programming.dev 2 points 2 months ago

Do you mean the improvement of existing mod blog?

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[–] AvocadoVapelung@hexbear.net 3 points 2 months ago

that's how they look at me if i don't delete it

[–] LadyCajAsca@hexbear.net 3 points 2 months ago

For comments that don't have any comment on them, it's like whatever but for I guess 'heated' internet arguements then really it's up to the moderators at this point but the current implementation is fine if we assume the two or more people arguing are more cordial or respectful, and if not, there's always a need for moderators in that way, I guess. Just my uninformed opinion.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 months ago

I have anxiety, and I talk wayyyy tooo much, okay? okay. [deleted] ;)

[–] fedikitty@piefed.social 3 points 2 months ago (3 children)

What happens if you delete your account?

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You disappear in real life, like inception

[–] fedikitty@piefed.social 3 points 2 months ago

Wandering the void until your mind vegetates from 1000 years of boredom.

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[–] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I thought of deleting a comment here for the pun's sake, but someone did it already.

[–] BigBoyShuanzee@aussie.zone 3 points 2 months ago

As an Australian, with 8-10 shots of alcohol in my system I seem to get the same response I got on Reddit.

I'm just talking shit and people are getting offended. At least here I wake up with 1-2 replies telling me how wrong and foolish I am instead of Reddit where I woke up with multiple replies and downvotes because everyone is so self-righteous.

It's why 4Chan was good.. Was good I could get tipsy, Talk a bunch of shit, call the French, Italians, Greek and Turks a bunch of arse holes. 1 or 2 of them would call me the N word or call me a cunt and tell me to kill myself and I could just laugh and move on.

Reddit you say Lol I don't like Nazis and Israel is a terrorist state and I get banned.

Here I can fairly call Israel a terrorist state but people still get offended if I call France, Italy or Greece useless.

Don't get offended I'm a drunk Australian arsehole.. Insult me back..

[–] mirshafie@europe.pub 2 points 2 months ago

deleted your creator

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