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[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 minute ago

I gotta try making this sometime

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

excuse

People don't need an excuse to not want to talk to you, which incidentally is itself one of many "great" ways to learn to be quiet. As an example, I once had a roommate who was on some kind of medication for social anxiety, and he was one of the most irritating people I ever met. Failing to overcome his inhibitions was clearly not the main problem, those inhibitions were totally rational, and could have been a stopgap to avoid stepping on people's toes despite not having any intuitive understanding or intrinsic interest in how to do that.

Probably the girl who is dashing around the room squeeling with joy every time a new person arrives and giving them a huge hug, the girl who is excitedly talking about her hobbies, job, or emotional revelations to a circle of smiling friends and acquaintances, the girl who is grabbing people and dragging them onto the dance floor to get the party started.

...

And maybe someone will say that this whole analysis is shallow and misguided, and that pursuing any of these things by opening their mouth and speaking more would be a betrayal of their deep inner self or something.

I think something that people who are casually socially successful often don't understand is how important it is to that success to have the correct emotional reactions to other people, and how difficult it is and how wrong it feels to fake those. That is a betrayal of yourself. You should strongly resist approaching friendship as an instrumental goal or a puzzle to be solved. For this reason it isn't well described as a skill, because the most important factors are not skills.

and you could very easily end up completely alone if you never developed the skill of meeting new people and developing relationships with them.

Solitude really isn't the end of the world, it could be a lot worse, despite how challenging it is to face. It does no one any favors to think of this as a high stakes game with solitude as the punishment for losing, that's not actually how it is.

If you want quiet people to talk to you, the main thing would be helping them understand that it is genuinely safe to do so. If you want quiet people to talk to other people, that's probably none of your business.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I hear good things about NewPipe

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Dropbox link

I think Reddit is using AI modbots that really don't like external links that have superficial similarities to links used by scammers, I was also banned for something kind of similar.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Tried this briefly, can get the game itself to run but run into a .net runtime error trying to launch the editor on linux. It's a neat concept and I hope it succeeds

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

I am mostly ok with this except if it's to the bit about the squirrels I'm getting judgy

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

wonder why the tub overflow isn't working edit: oh good this is already being discussed in great detail

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We have some, believe it or not, though all of our wars seem to harm rather than help them, and especially serve to deny them to others.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

imo the fact the drug works as well as it does is more evidence that the problem is better conceptualized as physiological than psychological. If someone's body insists to them, wrongly and chemically, that they are starving, that's the real problem because making decisions with chemicals is what our brains do, and we evolved to have less direct agency over the things that most directly impact our survival.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Every time this happened to me, it was followed shortly after by sewage backup. It happened because the air in the pipes was forced upwards into the toilet. Might want to take precautions such as move bath mats out of the way, buy a shop vac, etc.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago

And yet it still makes you feel conflicted about it, like Pomni's expression at 0:18 of the op clip makes a lot of sense. Just great writing overall

 

For example, in college I got a bad grade on a history exam.

The biggest part of why I got a bad grade was mixing up two similar sounding words in an essay question, which I vaguely remembered the professor might have made a big deal about not making that particular mistake in a class one time, but I couldn't remember the answer to the question if the question was using the word I thought it was, so I chose to write the answer as if the essay question had used the other word (I think it might have been about the British vs French versions of Parliament, something like that). This essay question was one of a set that you were free to choose from, as long as you answered a specified number of questions. Because I was pretty sure my answer to the first question was wrong, later in the exam I came back to this essay section and managed to answer enough other questions that I was one over the number that had actually been requested. I figured if it happened to be right it could only help my grade, so I left it there rather than crossing it out, and left a brief explanation as a footnote, requesting that that answer be discarded if only the specified smaller number of answers could be factored into the score.

As it turned out, that answer was marked wrong, and I got a pretty bad grade overall on the exam. The marked exam had no visible points accounting, so I didn't know how the grade was being calculated. I thought it seemed unfair that my footnote hadn't been considered, so I went to office hours to ask for a better grade on that basis. I got one, and I was surprised by how much, a full letter grade higher, just for that one question being discounted. This was actually upsetting to me though, I wanted to complain, because that essay section was just one part of a larger exam, and it seemed like that meant that making this one particular word mixup mistake the professor had a pet peeve about gets people marked down a full letter grade, and so you are penalized heavily from following the exam advice everyone gets drilled into them to always prefer putting an uncertain answer to not answering. Also the idea that he was probably just eyeballing the grades and there was no per question points accounting. It just seemed very unfair. But I kept my complaints to myself, since I had already gotten the best outcome I could hope for from that meeting and didn't want him to change his mind. I wonder if it was worth it though, since these events are now part of a rotation of things I sometimes spontaneously think about and feel a little indignation and imagine things I could have said instead, even though it was years ago and is irrelevant to my life now, and even though I think past me was likely taking grades too seriously.

Is that weird? I'd like to hear about it if other people also have little pointless grudges that they can't let go.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/webcomics@lemmy.ml
 

https://www.devilscandycomic.com/comic/ch20p24

I feel like this is a pretty good "in media res" page

 

I was watching this video of a live chicken trapped on a moving truck and thought it was strange that it's not possible to say anything to them even when circumstances might warrant it. All we got is honking and waving. There could be a touchscreen interface with a map of nearby vehicles. It could be voice controllable or the passenger could do it for safety.

 

While alternative app stores operate independently and are required by EU law, Apple is still in a position to exert some control. This became apparent a few weeks ago, when iTorrent users suddenly ran into trouble when installing the app.

Thought this was an interesting story, since it's pretty analagous to the recent Android situation, with third party app stores being enabled to some extent, but the company retaining ultimate censorship power.

 

The Block BEARD bill broadly applies to service providers as defined in section 512(k)(1)(A) of the DMCA. This is a broad definition that applies to residential ISPs, but also to search engines, social media platforms, and DNS resolvers.

Service providers with fewer than 50,000 subscribers are explicitly excluded

 

I can't believe the main antagonist was

spoilerEvil Aslan the Throat Goat

 
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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/snoocalypse@lemmy.ml
 

So I was reading this post and decided to make the tool described, as a userscript (I credit ChatGPT with doing most of the work, which went pretty quickly). To use it, install a compatible userscript browser extension such as https://violentmonkey.github.io/ , then press install on the linked page. Reddit comments should now have a 'copy-context' button that will put the comment chain in your clipboard. I made it for old.reddit so probably won't work with the redesign. Another limitation is that it will only work to copy what is on the current page, so if the comment chain is too deep it's not going to get all of it.

Any feedback is welcome. Also if someone who can read javascript wants to give it a once-over and confirm for people that it isn't malicious that would be cool too.

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