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Flying boats are fixed-wing aircraft with hulls like boats, allowing them to land on water instsead of runways. Lakes, seas, reflecting pools, you name it.

In the early history of flight this kind of thing was popular because there were a lot of places without runways and airstrips, and a lot of those that did exist were too small to accomodate larger, long-distance airplanes. There were other advantages too - because their size wasn't limited by the length of runways, they could be built to an impressive size, and had longer range than land-based airplanes. I imagine it was also comforting to be able to land safely on the water in case of mechanical problems.

I think my favorite flying boat is the Dornier Do X (pictured in the thumbnail) which was made in the 1920's. In addition to seats for about a hundred passengers, its three decks contained an onboard kitchen, a dining room, multiple bathrooms, and a bar. Each nacelle on the top has two engines, for a total of twelve. There's just something magnificent about it.

In the 21st century flying boats are quite rare, although there are a few models used for fighting wildfires. The CL-415 Super Scooper for example, can skim the surface of a lake or reservoir for a few seconds and take in more than six thousand liters of water without stopping!

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Sometimes I feel very basic for the name I chose, it's one of the most common trans girl names and is very close to my birth name but female. But I always loved it and wished it was my name if I was a girl.

[โ€“] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

As long as you like your name, that's what's important trans-heart

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[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

::: spoiler harassment

So, why is harassment funny sometimes? Like, today some guy walking past me said "damn, I still wouldn't fuck [unintelligible (possibly 'that')]" in a very overemphasized tone, and it just was kinda hilarious. Like, buddy, I wouldn't fuck you either but ya dont see me whingeing on about it. And I know its supposed to be a put down, and that its rooted in cishet mans self importance that he is the arbiter of who (or rather, what, as the proverbial cishetman doesn't relate to those he finds attractive as people) is "fuckable", but goddamn it was just kinda funny. Like, I'm living rent free in this guys head, all his thoughts about me are about sex and how he doesn't want to have sex with me, and I'm just living my little life over here bridget-pride-stay-mad

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[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Yoo, I'm 6 months hrt!!!!!

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[โ€“] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

transmisogyny Update to this: got banned now aubrey-sad lovely to know all these ppl we thought we could trust care more abt keeping transmisogynists safe than abt keeping trans girls safe

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[โ€“] 3rdXthecharm@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Ladies and Gentlemen, we did it, my husband and I moved to a new city in a new state. We checked it out before and loved the community.

I might finally start trying to leave the house as Me. I can finally get a doctor that can get me hormones. It might finally work out

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[โ€“] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (20 children)

I have an appointment in 30 minutes to hopefully get my gender dysphoria diagnosis. I am bricking it tbh. Also I need to think about

  • Do i actually want bottom surgery? It scares me quite a lot and idk if it would benefit me that much other than not having to tuck. And the recovery seems quite bad. But it's free though so... maybe? I'd have an orchi in a heartbeat if it were available
  • Do i want to apply for a gender recognition certificate (mostly worthless since a the government decided that your gender is your sex in most circumstances) as a woman? I'm not a woman but, if forced to pick one of the two available gender options, F would be the least incorrect. In some imaginary timeline where I can afford to travel internationally, I'd be able to get a passport with an F marker rather than M. You don't need a GRC to change your gender on your driving licence (which is the de-facto state-issued photo id here currently). But, again, you may choose M or F and nothing else.
[โ€“] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Comrades, I am officially transgender. Wow.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Glad I started hrt when I did, as long as nothing happens I could be moving out by the end of the year (and always wear hoodies and stuff by fall anyway). And I'll have a whole year head start on it.

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[โ€“] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

venting, transmisogynyGot indefinitely muted and threatened w a ban on a discord server weve been v active in for over 4 years and have a bunch of friends in for being too loud and catty/mean/impatient abt transmisogyny. At one point this server was basically the only place we socialized in and we have a ton of good memories of the ppl there, so were pretty upset that we might now lose all that for being a trans girl doggirl-cry

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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Okay so I've seized control of the BBC (so much blood gosh).

Doctor Who. Now played by a tall clocky trans woman. Explicitly brought up in episodes that this regeneration has gender going on.

The doctor doesn't understand because she has had both male and female bodies in the past and is chill. People ask if she's a man and she say "no galifreyan"

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Okay so I've seized control of the BBC (so much blood gosh).

catgirl-salute

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

~~So I got an "official" offer for the job but it was still conveyed verbally. Hoping they get me the offer letter DocuSign today so I can give my two weeks at current job... Although honestly I might just give my two weeks today anyhow. They still need me for a bunch of stuff~~

Lol nvm just got the DocuSign in my inbox HELL YEAH

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Finally came out to the other boymoder at work over tacos the other day, it was nice. She very clearly didn't want to talk about our transness though, she is shy tbf. She was surprised I'm trans, which in turn surprised me because I don't feel like it's that subtle.

She's on hrt which is good, really wanted to make sure she was taken care of in that department before I leave. But we mostly talked about other stuff.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Since sodium came out, she has inspired me to come out myself.

I own one of the most chud things imaginable, take your guesses nowI have a mypillow :catgirl-flop: my chud dad bought it for me.

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[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (10 children)

I've been involuntarily free from weed for about six weeks now because my dealer left me on read and I'm too embarrassed to double text. Also I don't know any other dealers.

Oh well it's kinda nice. I feel like I have my shit together a bit more when I'm not getting high all the time

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I hate people who go around spreading that they "used" to be trans. Like no, you're either trans or you were confused. There is no way to resolve being trans. You didn't have a "trans phase". You're a bumfuck cis person. Stop spreading this shit. It hurts trans people.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You know I had this thought a while ago that some of the worst perspectives on a topic are the people who are superficially close to but not in the group being talked about.

Sincere desisters/detransitioners feel a proximity to trans-ness through lived experience, but as you say, they are cis, their experience is fundamentally different.

I saw a similar thing where a feminine twink insisted he understood what trans women go through, because of the discrimination a feminine mans goes through, and no he doesn't.

Personally for me I thought I was non-binary for a long time, but I wasn't, I am a binary trans woman. I don't go around using this to tell people what being non-binary is about. Because I wasn't non-binary.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I saw a similar thing where a feminine twink insisted he understood what trans women go through

Also yes I was like "Oh baby-girl, is there maybe a deeper reason you might think you understand what a trans woman goes through?" just incase that helped crack anything.

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[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

So a client asked if I work here, then said there's a woman at the front who needs to talk to a female staff member. At first I was looking around for one of my coworkers to help but then I realized he meant me???

I got confused at which woman he was talking about and thought everything got taken care of so I went to check on something else, and when I came back he was still there with the lady he had actually indicated, he saw me and was like "oh here she is!" Then the lady comes up to me and says she started her period and needed some new clothes...

Thank God my cisf coworker bailed me out and took her to the clothes donations because I legitimately could not form proper sentences during all this. Jesus

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Literally rhe moment I get out of my exam and think that I get to relax for a day I start thinking bad thoughts again.

Hell, I even started thinking things during the middle of the test.

This is why I just can't let go of distracting myself with cheap dopamine. But it's just so exhausting. Whether I confront my thoughts or not. Whether I try to have personal growth. Nothing helps. The thoughts just do not stop.

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[โ€“] Leiri@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Got pretty drunk during some local summerfestival, came out to several of my friends which seems to have went well. Still very drunk, might not be fully happy about it when I stop being drunk but feel like it is definitely a good thing right now.

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Jesus, this younger trans girl is going to kill me. I'm going to pride on Saturday, dancing all night at a queer club (literally 10pm to noon Sunday), then going to another pride on Sunday. At some point I may just have to take a nap at the club. I'm actually planning for this like you'd prepare for a marathon, eating super clean, carb loading the day before, making sure I hydrate like crazy, etc

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

This teenager at work called a 13~ year old, to their face mind you, a cum dumpster. What possessed you to do that. Kid's mom was not happy.

Didn't get fired btw.

picard

Me personally? I would not do that.

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[โ€“] Dispossessed@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)
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[โ€“] Romeo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I spent 120 Canadian fun bucks to buy ethereum to buy estrogen and fucked it up because I didn't read a guide and now I don't have girl juice nor do I have my money and now some random crypto asshole has my womoney because I sent it to the wrong bajillion digit crypto wallet. Pity me, and let my woes be a cautionary tale to do the reading lest you hurl money into the void. catgirl-flop

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[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

how do you pack for a trip as a girl? besides obvious hair care, makeup, skincare, spare estrogen, what am i going to forget?

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[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

things with my mom went pretty okay. We didn't talk about it at first but then when I was talking about health insurance at my new job she had a bit of a spiel about starting mammograms early since i'm at higher risk of breast cancer due to hers. She did balk at my recollection that guidelines suggest waiting until 5 years of HRT (which is true) but no matter how you cut it seems like i'll be starting at ~30. I don't mind her harping on that so much because I know it's something of a love language for her and she has the good sense to recognize i'm capable of making my own healthcare decisions.

We talked more about my identity and pronouns and stuff. It did feel a little more interrogatey than I would've liked but this time I had confidence in myself which really made a difference. I think we're gonna be okay

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[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Me immediately after my coffee and a bowl: why is my voice so ass in the morning thonk-trans

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Some questions science just can't answer

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

me w a joint in my fingers: wow iโ€™m so hoarse and congested, what could this be

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (7 children)

One thing I've wanted for a long time was to get out of the shower and feel sexy. I realized as I was getting out tonight that I did feel sexy! It was a great feeling. Was just thinking about how hot [blank] and [blank] are and then was like, oh, dang, this is exactly what I'd been wanting forever. So that was a nice thing that happened today.

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Glad my previous crushes lead to no where, would have been terrible overall. My gf is amazing so like it all worked out in the end.

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[โ€“] Wake@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

It just dawned on me that my 2 year transiversery for starting hrt was yesterday. It also just dawned on me Iโ€™m like 3 days late this week on my shot.

Long skirts r great for us in this weather, way less hot and sweaty than pants, dont have to worry as much abt sunscreen or shaving, plus look rly good (in our opinion at least) bridget-pride

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

Being in my body is so comfortable these days. I get to wake up and be like "woah I'm girl shaped!"

[โ€“] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Every day my misogynist block list grows longer. Just a few hundred to go until hexbear becomes usable.

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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Huh, so Estrogen lower ones risk of gout. Funniest pretend excuse for transitioning yet, given I've got a family history of that.

Its the disease of kings not the disease of queens after all

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

My parents found out my younger sister (young teen) has been drinking energy drinks and both flipped their shit. Thank god they didn't find my shit oh-shit I might slim down more but I gotta keep my E if nothing else.

[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

ATTENTION NONBINARYIES AND TRANSEGENDERS!!!

DELTARUNE TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (10 children)

My day be so fine

Then boom

spoilerSudden feeling that I am a fundamentally unlovable freak, forever mangled by male puberty, lacking the divine spark of humanity that rests in every "real" human's heart, and better off dead

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