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As someone who is currently still in education for their degree looking at the current (and likely future) economic and societal outlook, it seems like employment in fields that cause/perpetuate negative issues in the world (Big Tech/Military-Industrial Complex, industries contributing to climate change, predatory sales/financial firms) continue to maintain strong employment availability and salaries as time goes on.

However, fields that have a neutral or beneficial impact on society and the world (Medical care, Food service, public infrastructure, humanitarian aid work, environmental research), either don't have enough available positions that people are able to transition into, have worsening working conditions due to poor management or limited resources, or just don't pay a living wage to most who work there.

I've read about the broken window fallacy, and I understand how focusing on personal gain without considering the impacts on the wider picture doesn't make for a better world. But can someone feel justified contributing to the "broken windows" of the world knowing that they weren't presented functional alternative pathways, and try to contribute towards the solution in other ways?

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[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I left my industry because it made me question my morals daily. It's not worth the money

[–] northernlights@lemmy.today 7 points 5 hours ago

Not me at least. After looking for a job for 9 months I saw one at Palantir that fit me exactly. Just considering applying made me feel dirty af.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

Thr unsavory businesses are paying a premium for being unsavory. There are SOME people who will not work there, which reduces the size of the labor pool and drives prices up. There are others who can be bought, for a price, and that also drives prices up.

Industries with neutral or beneficial impacts on society do have this pressure, so the wages are lower. Simple supply and demand.

[–] Hudell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 7 hours ago

I find it noble to go against your own best interest for the greater good, but I don't expect it and don't blame anyone for not doing it when it would seriously impact their ability to live life if they did.

I still expect morality though. There's balance and proportion for everything.

[–] Cassa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Great question the answer is pretty much no.

Either you live with the guilt or you change your moral framework to make it not bad.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 12 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Is "I couldn't find another job because nobody wants to employ a 64-year old and I have bills to pay" changing your moral framework?

Or how about "it's the only job offer I got out of 458 applications and I have 3 kids and a mortgage"?

Being able to make an actual choice is a huge privilege.

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

That's what I've come to realize when transitioning from high school to college. I fear that accepting the guilt may lead to rationalizing the behavior - having apathy towards those your work is harming tends to prevent motivation towards changing the status quo.

I think there's a famous phrase as well about "being paid very well to not consider the issue rationally".

[–] Cassa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 hours ago

At least in my understanding: accepting the guilt doesn't make it go away. changing your view of morality is where it rationalizes and erases it.

(which ofcourse is a fine line)

[–] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 hours ago

You should read up on how the nazi's operated the most succesful industrial size operation for genocide while most of the people tried hard not to notice.

You're supposed to feel at the very least uncomfortable with it if your involvement/impact is minimal. And you should carry that guilt for as long as you're there since the least you can do is feel bad about it. And ofc, once you don't, you've lost your moral north and you become one more of them... Maybe try to steal a little or even sabotage things discreetly?

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 4 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (2 children)

they don't have one to begin with.

i taught business ethics for two years as a grad student. 60% of the class would write papers how ethics are stupid because the only thing that matters is maximizing company and personal profit for themselves.

ethics is a nice thing people gesture and worry about, but when push come to shove, they will shove you in front of the bus to save themselves.

Many people will literally die for their beliefs, for the sake of righteousness. But I agree, sometimes people will be immorally self-centered (very often in some cultures, especially the morally relativistic ones).

[–] forkDestroyer@infosec.pub 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

they don’t have one to begin with.

I joined a morally grey child company for a parent company that is, in my eyes, immoral. I did it to see if I could make positive change from the inside.

I don't do anything in my job that directly contributes to the stuff that I think is bad in my company, but I doubt I'll make a change at this rate. I'm too small.

I'm glad I tried but I think I'm just really stupid about how to change the world for the better.

Yes, it's hard for me to continue on. If the job market wasn't horrible and I didn't have a family to support, I'd likely be elsewhere by now.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social -3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

it's not that you are stupid, it's that you're that arrogant.

you're not that morally significant. you're not a hero. you're an average person.

but every average person is under the delusion they are living heroic epic moral adventure that is their own life...

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 hours ago

That implies the existence of special people whose moral choices matter, and a larger population whose choices are irrelevant. Not sure that makes a lot of sense either.

[–] forkDestroyer@infosec.pub 2 points 4 hours ago

it’s that you’re that arrogant.

you’re not that morally significant. you’re not a hero. you’re an average person.

I don't think I was thinking of myself as anything but an average person, in this regard. I figured I could do my part to improve a system, then realized that there would need to be way more of people with that mindset at my level before a change would manifest.

Sorry if I gave the impression that I thought I was going to be a one man army, hahaha. Wouldn't that have been awesome?

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Whatever you do, you're going to be a part of the system.

Even if you become a civil service firefighter you're going to be driving a gas vehicle and working to help preserve capitalism.

Get the best paying job you can, and protect your family first.

Unless you want to become a full time revolutionary.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

There's a massive difference between a civil servant using a gas vehicle, and a software developer for Palantir. There are degrees to this.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 0 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

you realize lots of civil servants, are corrupt, right? and some are in unions that engage in extortionary tactics, like the police.

there is nothing inherently morally superior about one's profession. there are shitty people in every profession.

like maybe you think doctors and nurses are noble, cool. there are doctors and nurses that abuse and murder their patients. there are teachers that abuse their students, etc.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

"There is no ethical consumption under Capitalism" is a useful parallel concept. One can consume at least more ethically by buying in solidarity with, eg, Fairtrade sellers, local sellers, co-ops, or maybe living a vegan lifestyle.

Not to be confused with finding an ethical form of capitalism. It doesn't exist. Any system designed to maximize profit will put any other goals (like human rights) secondary.

I think working in this society is similar. I can choose the more ethical option from the limited options available to me and work to make my life and the lives of people around me better. But I can't find or create a system that is ethical. Even that co-op referenced above probably has suppliers who are less ethical, or they may have to rent from a profit-driven landlord.

I try to focus on small improvements over my baseline rather than thinking anything short of immediate perfection is a failure.

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

That's a healthy point of view. I think I've been trying to align with that philosophy, but I feel frustrated by the fact that there will be "inevitable" consequences of my future work that I will likely never be in a position to change course.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

your problem is you think you can, or should have control over those things.

you don't. you don't have control over a lot of things in your life.

you can only be morally accountable for what you can control.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

You can't solve systems by focusing on individuals.

None of us a free moral agents. We're surrounded by systems of family, culture, and law that compel and coerce us. And all of that is built in to the signifiers "employment" and "labor". It's incoherent to slice off a traunch of all these interconnected systems, strip it of all context, and pretend it's a free moral choice.

Changing systems requires collective action. Individuals are weak and the Western obsession with individualism is no coincidence.

[–] etherphon@piefed.world 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

So many people seem to be okay with this, to me, absolutely miserable status quo. I am not okay with the trade-offs we have made for a lot of this technology but it seems most people just don't really care at all about it or don't even think about it. It's funny you mentioned western obsession with individualism, I was thinking about the movie Easy Rider the other day when sitting outside relaxing to the noise of motorcycles passing by, Americans were sold this idea that these bikes were a ticket to freedom but they're just fucking loud and obnoxious, most of the people who drive them are self-important assholes, just like every limp dick driving a big pickup truck seems like they have deputized themselves sheriff of any road they drive on. Anyways end rant. I just dunno what to do, moving is expensive and not an option, so I was thinking just volunteer and do something I guess.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 2 points 6 hours ago

they bond over the miserable status quo.

if you don't like the miserable status quo, you are considered anti-social.

[–] artifex@piefed.social 4 points 9 hours ago

In good faith? No, I don’t think so. But I have a friend who worked at Facebook with the specific intent of dealing damage by delaying or stopping projects and generally slowing things down. It was a drop in the bucket, but she lasted 4 or 5 years before they realized she was adding literally nothing of value.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 5 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

There is rarely a complete agreement on what is "negative impact".

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 hours ago

That's definitely true, although I think there are definitely ways one can gauge if something does "more harm than good". Especially if the business is designed around taking advantage of another person or killing them through deliberate action/inaction.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social -1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

everything you do can be framed as a negative impact or externality, by other people.

it's up to you if you want to accept that framing as legitimate.

What a nonsensically morally relativistic take. Sure, I could spin you feeding the homeless as "communist" and therefore immoral but that doesn't make it true. Just because people lie or say nonsense doesn't mean it's "equally valid".

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 3 points 10 hours ago

Can they? Probably. Should they? Definitely not.

[–] zewm@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I’m gonna be real with it. As long as the money is good I don’t really care about negativity affecting others / planet / future. 🤷‍♂️

It’s a dog eat dog world. My survival or ability to survive supersedes my care of others. As long as I can pay for the roof over my head and food I’m my stomach, other people don’t matter to me.

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Western, ultra-materialistic, morally-vacuous take. Nothing new but that's how all money-worshippers operate and why any group of people that share that core idea can never become a society. You can't build with "fuck you I got mine" people.

[–] zewm@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Agreed. I have no qualms admitting I’m a fuck you got mine mentality.

And I know a good majority of people that on paper are not, but as soon as it affects them directly, that changes.

My survival is more important than yours. Plain and simple. I don’t have to virtue signal or anything. It is what it is.

You don't have to virtue signal but you could have virtue... Idk if it's better or worse that you've reached the point you simply don't care and can be honest about it, at least with us online strangers. But I'll stop now, have a good one.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

This is where I believe Karl Marx’s concept of alienation becomes more of a blessing than anything else. Marx argued, broadly speaking, that under capitalism, workers are doomed to feel disconnected (alienated) from the work they do. I think this disconnection works wonders in the kinds of jobs where what you do has negative consequences. Employees can pull a Nuremberg: “I’m just following orders,” and that way, even though they’re technically helping to create more harm in the world, from their point of view, they were just doing their job. Surviving, like all of us.

It is a clear conscience achieved through self-emptying.

(There’s also the case of people who honestly enjoy causing harm in the world, but that’s a separate issue.)
[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 hours ago
[–] Greg@lemmy.ca 0 points 8 hours ago

The world is complex and the vast vast majority of people in the world are wonderful humans. The closest thing we have to super villains are people like Martin Shkreli, Jeffrey Epstein, Mark Zuckerberg, etc. and those kinds of folks only make up 0.01% of the world's population. If someone's actions appear to be evil then it's far more likely that you just don't understand their perspective. And you don't have to agree with someone's perspective to understand their perspective. For example, maybe someone is working for a defence contractor designing new missiles because they were personally affected by a terrorist attack. I can understand that perspective while also believing that better missiles won't reduce terrorism. I'm not excusing bad behaviour, I'm explaining why other people might not see their actions as bad behaviour and will have a clear conscience.

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