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Hi everybody!

~~no big post this week,~~ down with cis

since multiple people recognized it, it's not officially OTD Appreciation Week!

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

sodium_nitride* (5-11 - 5/17)
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[โ€“] meler@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I haven't been on the site in a while 'cause I needed a break. I've missed you all trans-heart

[โ€“] meler@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I didn't need a break from you all, I needed a break from the internet

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago

Id be taking internet breaks all the time if my friends didnt live there, tbh

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Might fuck around and come out to my dad tomorrow... hope it goes well or I'll be going to mother's Day brunch in a foul mood

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

debating doing this at work, hope all is well!

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

hellllll yes i'm so happy for you!

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

spoilerI still feel so awful, I could barely function at work today. Have to go out for mother's day. And I feel so, so shit.

Took a nap. Same.

I'm so sick of this. I am so sick of where I am in transition. This whole fucking thing.

Teenager at work got his second tattoo, right on his hand. First is far up on his other forearm. Great choices from this guy.

[โ€“] Busgirl@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

guinea pig in my bosom
His name is Rocky

Awww, he has that puppy kinda look in his eyes

It's official, a second coworker is now they theming me! Honestly better than I hoped for. possum-party

I went out dancing until the early morning last night. I'm so tired, and a little hungover sleepi

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

A new Cannons and MUNA album this early in 2026? Pretty great time to be a trans lesbian.

[โ€“] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I've started replaying Of the Devil episode 1 on high roller mode, partially due to this thread. Thank you for taking the time to regularly switch out the thread's thumbnail to showcase how many amazing characters this game has.

[โ€“] Tomato_Queen@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 3 days ago

dysphoriaI am not visibly trans in real life or online, today is not safe to even be trans in my little chat rooms anymore, the bare minimum of having a profile picture you like or your chosen name as an account can become dangerous once you open your phone around other people, not so long ago I felt like I am who I was, I wish that the invisibility was recognized and respected, I can not afford to expose my self. What I am getting into is that some trans people and allies seem to get the idea that anyone that is not visibly trans to them is not trans and therefore can not feel dysphoria or face transphobia. An example I saw once here was someone saying "if you are a man who cares about x you should get over it, except if you are trans", if that person met me, talked to me in real life or on one of my accounts what would they tell me if I cared about x?

A lot of us are facing danger, with state sponsored transphobia growing all over the world, and mass online surveillance, I believe we should put it into consideration.

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago (4 children)

So uh what's up with this tagline?

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

I couldn't make it past the first paragraph, i pity every woman who isn't a total and complete lesbian.

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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago (4 children)

You WILL make a pie this weekend.

garcia-cock-shotty

This is not a suggestion.

Can I make a plum apricot strawberry pie?

But I don't know how to make pies :(

[โ€“] queermunist@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 days ago

That's... a really good idea.

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

i've been making so many pies but I have some apples I need to get rid of, so yes mrs. commisar

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[โ€“] Azarova@hexbear.net 20 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Happy Victory Day to the queer people in my phone cat-com

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

spoilerHoly fuck doomjak I feel so, so awful.

I wonder how much longer life is going to be like this. When and how will it end. Everything is foggy and miserable.

Life is horrible and a huge amount of why is other people. Fuckers. Not like you can escape them either.

spoiler voice dysphoria also fucking hopeless about my voice.

FUCK TESTOSTERONE, FUCK OTHER PEOPLE, FUCK BEING BORN IN THE WRONG BODY

ACTUAL HELL. KILL ME :::

I am just so tired. Can this wrap up or whatever

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Glad I'm allowed to misanthropy post here

there aren't many things i like about my current appearance, but i do just sort of naturally have incredibly removedy eyelashes so that's pretty great

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I snooze, i lose. Open labs is out of enanthate kitty-cri dont need rn, but thought it would be good for emergencies and i love a good deal

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

But if you don't snooze you still loose because eepy time is very important

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

look, the snooze was great, just sometimes stuff happens while snoozing

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I had a nightmare last night that I looked in the mirror and my areola had gotten massive and it freaked me out so bad I woke up

I have very normal insecurities and worries btw

Take this as a sign that you brain is fully rewired into girlOS. Affirming insecurity to have.

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My aerola got big lol, I was pretty happy with small boy nipples but E gave me baby feeding sized nipples. I dunno, I like em!

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[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

The other night (in a dream! forgot to mention that) my tooth enamel got so mushy that it sloughed off with light contact until I just had little nubs. Good times

Finally got my split open ear pads for my headphones switched out with the new ones I bought, much comfier. And not broken.

Trans representation in media further thoughts:

cw

spoiler mention of SA

There is a reason why the current novel (xian ni) I'm reading really stood out to me and why I made a post about it.

One detail I left out from the scene is that I kinda related to that character when she appeared again. I thought it was neat for her to say "I was always a woman" and was self inserting a bit.

So imagine how I felt when immediately after her introduction not only does the narration misgender her, but the perverted side kick with barely any screen time shows up and starts acting like a chaser and threatens to SA her.

That's a level of ick that fully caught me off guard. This was like 900 chapters in. Even the "perverted side kick" only acted like a horn dog in like 2 scenes and it was never this egregious. In both cases he pretty much fell in love and tried to court, pretended to be a gentleman, even save his crushes. I say all this to emphasise just how out of left field this whole scene was.

Overall? I wouldn't really say that I'm going to drop this novel cause of this scene. It was a 3 chapter subplot in a 2000 chapter serialisation. And the author had a bad rep when it came to writing women so I should have braced myself. But it's like eating a pizza and you bite down on a rock that's in there for some reason.

(The real reason is I'm too far in to drop this novel. If this scene happened in the first 100 chapters I'd have dropped it. I also don't plan on reading other works from this author anymore)

(FYI the name of this author is er gen in case you want to ... idk, get into Chinese web novels and know who to be cautious of?)

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[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago

hornypostingI can't stop flirting with my friends blob-help. I saw a container with "TRANS" on it, made a post on ig asking "who wants to join me in the trans [container]?", and my friend replied "YES". I sent them "see you when you get back janet-wink" and uhhh I'm feeling things in my stomach lol. What's funny is they and their partner are poly and me and their partner have already been messing around (they both know). Dreaming of being a plaything for my two hot friends: aubrey-happy

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago

I've been getting into Medieval Fairs since transitioning. My outfit has been that of a Norse woman (transitioning the one cool trick that lets you get into Viking history without looking like a chud). But I've been thinking about how I'd like to wear a cool sword, because I'm a lesbian.

I've decided actually my persona is a trans lesbian (at least in modern parlance). She went to Constantinople and served in the Varangian guard. While there she met eunarch/trans women sex workers/courtesans and was like "wait you can just be a woman?", so she got an orchiectomy/castration from the surgeons, drank fermented pregnant mare's piss and sequestered herself for a year.

Now she's a bodyguard for Byzantine noblewomen, ostensibly a eunarch, but actually just a 6'1 trans lesbian.

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