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It was valentines day yesterday here in Sweden, which I didn't know at first.
I invited a female friend to fika at my place, I thought she was acting kinda stiff and was wondering why, then she asked "M, do you know what day it is today?" and I just said "uhm, Saturday?" and she laughed and told me it's valentines day.
I felt so embarrassed, I'm both not interested in her in that way and not in a place in my life where I want a relationship or even FWB or one night stands. I apologised and explained and she thankfully accepted and understood, still felt embarrassed and dumb though.
It was a nice fika though and I helped her figure out some personal stuff.

Single old dude here, some friends convinced me to go to Goth night at a local club on Saturday

I confessed to my situationship of almost 2 years that I had feelings the other day, she didn’t feel the same way. So probably not doing anything fun, all my close friends are in relationships and have plans for V-Day.

Probably journaling and watching YouTube all day unfortunately. It’s been a rough week.

However, I hope you enjoy your trail ride! What got you into horse riding?

Going to a burlesque show with my wife, then steak on Sunday

My partner and I are getting haircuts and beautifying ourselves before getting fuckin gakked on drugs all night at home with our cats. I’m very excited.

Edit: oh and eating pieces of sushi whenever we can throughout the night

I'm going to keep up my tradition and send an unsolicited duck pic (yes, quack quack) to a friend.

Then going to the science museum with a different friend.

Me and my partner are going a little punk rock show in a bowling alley.

We got a hotel room with a hot tub. We'll go out for dinner, pick up some drinks, smoke some weed, and soak in the tub.

• edibles
• lube
• goon
• shame

My wife managed to get an appointment for an MRI on Saturday morning, so we'll be driving into the city for that on Valentine's Day.

She'll be in there, and I'll be sitting in the car with the service-dog-in-training, Leo. Someday I would expect him to go in with her, but he's not ready yet.

Then we'll come home and she'll fall asleep while I watch movies.

I'm gonna make pancakes for my girlfriend before her shift, past that no idea were broke rn lol. also gonna make her a card today :)

I’m going out with a girl who confesses she always looks up to me and always feels at ease around me, even when I’m not saying anything.

Then, once I’ve finished playing that gacha game, I’ll drink a beer and go to bed.

I got my gf and I matching underwear 

Sitting at home with my kids while my wife takes another course about horses. I think this time is for license to be a judge at competitions.

Probably going to rub one or two out and try not to cry.

Taking bae to the vintage computer fair this Sunday then getting dinner after

Nothing much, my wife and I don’t really care about the holiday. We might pull some wild duck out of the freezer for a nice dinner

That’s nice, I hope you have fun 😊

I never celebrated Valentine’s Day unless my partner wanted to do something. This year I was going to bake a dessert and take some fun photos for my crush as a simple gesture but things haven’t been going well so most likely I am going to work and get some chores done instead.

The wife and I will be playing Project Zomboid all day. It's going to be glorious!

Gonna be Carnaval in Brazil (also, we don't care about Valentine's day for whatever reason, our lovers' day is June 12), so I plan on sleeping

Buffalo is running. Gonna watch filthy groms get lickens. Might even get lickens too.

O! and fat boy doin' the dead cockaroach.

Wait for the better holiday, Feb 15th, aka cheap chocolate day.

Shit post.

Smoke a fat bowl with my wife and hope the kids sleep til 7

cry and masturbate

I am doing the prescribed thing because I am an automation who cannot think for themselves (actually I just like it): for my wife a dozen red roses, a box of chocolates, a card, some red lingerie nd dinner at a michelan listed restaurant. ive had reservations for over a month 👌

Watch some rom coms (movies like As Good As It Gets and anime like Kimi ni Todoke and Wotakoi), eat some good ice cream, and maybe go to emo night at a bar

I don't got anyone, but coincidentally I will be at a Lunar New Year event that the college club I'm in has a table at so we can fundraise.

Bed athletics while the kids are downstairs, watching morning cartoons. Then, full day for me, driving the kids to their sports clubs while the Mrs is working on her upskilling certs. Then early bedtime because Sunday is my long run day.

Oh shit.