felixwhynot

I got a pair of oakleys second hand with some bold colors and put purple lenses in them. Guideline being, if the conservative dads would think you’re dressing queer, you’re doing it right!

I got to see Kraftwerk perform Computerworld live a couple years ago and it was amazing. At this point I’ve seen the majority of my bucket list artists and I feel fortunate for this.

If I’m thinking time travel maybe an early Daft Punk show in France.

Right answer IMHO!

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I got to see Of Montreal a fee years ago in LA and it was a great show! Would recommend.

I’m traveling outside the US. Got a decent price on the flights too

Eh, “perfect” is relative. There’s still plenty of weird little spots on that Pangolin’s scales

Do be careful with friends with BPD/borderline. It can be tough so take care of yourself too!

Sometimes people just want to hear their feelings validated and reflected back. You could try “that sounds hard, how do you feel about it?” But only if you have the energy for it and you want to!

This is tricky. You aren’t responsible for doing much here besides listening and giving whatever encouragement or support you feel is appropriate. I like to ask my friends if they put themselves down, “hey don’t talk about my friends like that!” It sometimes works. I also believe that skill in many fields is built up slowly and consistently over time, so I would consider asking her which skill she’s trying to develop right now and what she’s doing about it today. HTH

I read a scifi book where this was a plot line. I think everyone just distrusted whatever they read online eventually. Time to touch grass?