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Was looking for something the other day and it hit me how much of a mess my room is now :/ its really bad. I was so happy with it being all cleaned up too. But now its a disaster. Definitely truth to the idea a persons space reflects their mind
I never want to touch circuit layouts ever again. I want absolutely nothing to do with them. For the past week I've been staying until 3-4 AM every day working literally 15 ish hours per day on this assignment 
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And I hate being the incompetent buffoon dragging the group down with my idiotic mistakes while the others carry.
Sorry for this sex ed question, but at how much risk of STDs am I putting myself by having frequent unprotected oral sex with different people?
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Today I had for the first time in my life sucked off a stranger. There was no condom involved though. While I really enjoyed it and would love to do it more often, I feel like I already did a huge mistake by not having used protection today. How risky was what I did?
I don't know numbers-wise, but make sure you're vaccinated for HPV because it can spread like that.
Thank you. I just checked and apparently I'm not vaccinated against it because apparently they only started doing it for everybody after I was born?? And for some reason it isn't a vaccine that the national health service lists as one that I should have taken? And their info page isn't making it clear if, for my age bracket and the gender I still have my on my documents, it is free.
I hate this.
I'm sorry it's not more straightforward, but try to get clarification on whether it can be covered for you. Both for your own health and for the people you're intimate with.
Yeah, sorry. I will try to get the vaccine as soon as possible (if I haven't already contracted it now from that last encounter, given how widespread it is). I just let out my frustration that I wasn't vaccinated against something like that.
Hey it's not your fault; it used to not be recommended for as many people. And there are multiple strains, so even if you did get it once there's still some benefit in getting vaccinated.
Thank you π«
Got hit with a full cognito hazard while at work today. One of the patients had fox news on and I just happened to be in the room while they were talking about the supreme court case regarding bans on trans people in sports.
Transphobia
They refused to ever use the word transgender, just 'biological men' every time. Usually I don't have to hear anything from these ghouls while at work because most of my regulars like watching game shows or shit like Matlock. Just kinda shitty being stressed out having to float and learn an entire new floor and then just hear this absolute dogshit at the same time.
talking about the supreme court case regarding bans on trans people in sports.
We're fucked btw and losing any discrimination protections, fuck me
Pussy acquired π
Congrats! So happy for you.
Incredible news!
Congrats!
Massive win, hoping for a smooth recovery!
mortality, dysphoria
Can't believe my one fucking life I have to forever be in a body I hate every inch of, with a voice I hate, being hated because I have the fucking audacity to hate it. Holy shit it's so fucking depressing. Been crying on and off at work. Fuck me. Fucking hate being trans. I get ONE FUCKING LIFE and it's ruined by this shit. Fuck off. I hate everything about my body, it's genuinely horrid. And then I die and don't get anything else.
If other people suffered half this much we'd be extinct by now.
I have a picture of myself that I like! I look pretty much like a girl in it, and maybe even a pretty one. I wanna look like that all the time...
drop the T? yeah thatβs what iβve been doing
21st bday todayπ Am I going to go out and drink like a normal person? No. Am I going to invite over my brother and force everyone in the house to watch The Pitt? Yes! And will I be discretely checking out all the 30+ year old men in the show? Also yes
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday! I didn't drink on my 21st either, just bummed around with my family.
I will be both drinking AND bumming around, Iβm multi fauceted like dat
Happy birthday!!
Hope not to intrude here, but what's your favorite type of capacitor? Mine are MLCC with C0G characteristics
I cant sleep again.
This time I used my time a little more wisely and organized my tool closet/toolbox It is now nice and neat and devoid of any garbage. The guest room is neater now too.
Im so fucking depressed. I think Im worrying my cat.
I wish there was medication for sleep that was safe long term. I quit smoking weed because it was messing with my ambition and energy and Iβm in college to get into the medical field, but it was the only thing that put me to sleep. I take a Benadryl a few days a week because Iβm so terrible at falling asleep but itβs not good long term.
I know someone trans who very seriously dehumanized me, and I just learned that they got trans affirming surgery. I'm so jealous that a person I hate gets to experience having the opposite of their original genitals.
I want to have my exact genitals, I just wish I could morph my body into having, both, a vag and dick at the same time, whenever I want.
a vag and dick at the same time
The dream, I want it so bad
Phallus preserving vaginoplasty is a thing~
WWWWWWWAAAAAOW I WANT THAT SO MUCH NOW, OH SHIT
That's interesting. I didn't know that. But I have a vag and am wanting a dick too. I don't know if I only want to have been born with both, or if I'd ever get a whole new penis that I wasn't born with. The latter might be too scary, but I'd sure like to know if it's a thing.
Edit: I also wish I could make the penis go away whenever I wish so idk about permanently having a penis that can't instantly disappear and reappear when I want. There are certain days where I prefer no penis.
ugh the urge to have hot swappable genitals is so powerful i am glad someone else understands this but sad someone else has to go through this impossible yearning
Good news! Google "vagina sparing phalloplasty". Also known as "vagina preserving phalloplasty". Exactly what it sounds like.
Well you can keep your current ones and add the other kind; you'll get there someday.
burnout. ramblings, depression
I'm only like a week and a half into work after my break and I'm already burnt out again. I've been burned out for so long. First school and now this. It doesn't end. I just want out.
When I was a kid, I used to look at my dog and think it was unfair that out of the two of us, I was the one that rolled lucky. We were both born into this world and only I got to experience life as a human. I was sad he would never get to experience what I got to. But now I realize how much being a human fucking sucks and I would have done anything to live his life.
lonely
I want to find my family. I'm so fucking lonely and want to find people I feel comfortable with, but they are so rare. There are only 5 people in my life I feel close to, and 4 of them are in my phone. I feel like I'm just going through life wasting away.
Same reason I wanna be a catgirl