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On the 10th of April 1912, The Titanic set sail from Southhampton in England for her maiden voyage across the Atlantic Ocean. Four days later, just before midnight on the 14th, Titanic struck an iceberg, which caused it to take severe damage and sink during the night, leading to the death of the majority of her passengers.

At the time, Titanic was one of the most advanced ships in the world. It was as a steam-powered ocean liner, a type of ship specifically built to repeatedly make the dangerous crossing between Europe and America. Because air travel was not available at the time, this service was vital, and Titanic was built at a time where different shipping lines were constantly trying to outcompete each other in building the fastest and most luxurious ships. The Titanic was equipped with restaurants, cafes and even a Turkish bath (a sort of spa / sauna hybrid), though due to the strict segregation of first, second, and third class passengers, only a minority were allowed access to these accomodations.

The White Star Line, who built and operated the Titanic, was convinced the ship wouldn't sink, and did not adequately prepare for it, only carrying enough lifeboats to carry a portion of the ship's passengers. While this claim seems absurd today โ€” modern ship are far, far safer than the Titanic, but no one would ever claim they couldn't sink โ€” it was a popular sentiment at the time. Because of the Titanic's novel and highly advanced watertight compartments, it was thought that even if she suffered catastrophic damage, she would bob around on the surface like a cork, rather than sink to the bottom, so there would be no hurry to evacuate the passengers

Later, the story of the titanic would go on to become something of a pop culture legend, the greatest example being the 1997 movie by James Cameron (it's really good actually). A bunch of conspiracy theories about the ship's fate has also popped up over the course of the last century, some gaining significant traction despite the lack of evidence.


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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 4 weeks ago

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[โ€“] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 23 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Lol, I learned about my partner's (who I live with) pronoun shift from they/them to they/she via looking at discord.

meow-bounce

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 20 points 4 weeks ago

My partner saw my hexbear profile before I explicitly came out lmfao cheer

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 22 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

discovered a new type of ewwphoria: boymoding around conservative relatives who tell you โ€œif you donโ€™t cut your hair already everyone will think youโ€™re a girl, didnโ€™t you notice all those people calling you maโ€™am???โ€

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[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 22 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

I forgot to post because Iโ€™m wild busy, but I started E yesterdayyyyyyyyy!!!!! I also started bloodborne, hadnโ€™t touched it since youth when I couldnโ€™t beat the cleric beast. Turns out itโ€™s still hard as shit

Hereโ€™s some tunes

https://youtu.be/Wrwf5fj4zNI

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[โ€“] Nasalstrip@hexbear.net 21 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Iโ€™ve never regretted starting testosterone but it sucks to be on it for 3 years and still having terrible acne despite great hygiene. Iโ€™m almost 21 for gods sake, I already am so insecure about looking young. At least I have professionally done tattoos so people know Iโ€™m not actually in my late teens but still frustrating.

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 16 points 4 weeks ago

Sorry you gotta deal with all that. Acne fucking sucks and I hope for a clear skin future for you inshallah

[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 20 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I have couples counseling today and I am terrified I will out myself before I'm ready. Wish me luck ๐Ÿ’œ

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[โ€“] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 20 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Iโ€™m tired of not having any kind of human contact outside of work, where I still have to boymode. Iโ€™ve been on HRT for almost a year and a half but still donโ€™t feel confident to be myself yet. I have hope still that will eventually change but it definitely gets to me a lot lately.

[โ€“] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago

Are there any trans or queer support groups in your area? The one I went to wasn't super useful to me, but it was a way into a queer social circle that allowed me to meet more people and be myself.

[โ€“] meler@hexbear.net 20 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

transphobiaExplain to me why my roomies are trying to draw a line between when it's correct to accept trans people and when it's not?

I respect trans people and am an ally, but some people are just doing it for attention

Okay and? Even if that were true who fucking cares?

Some people try to force other people to be trans

Damn I wonder what it's like for people to try to force you to to be a gender you don't identify with. Really must suck tho

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 18 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

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I respect trans people and am an ally, but some people are just doing it for attention

yea all that negative attention you get for being trans is actually the reason you transitioned. picard cissies are fucking unhinged.

Some people try to force other people to be trans

ok now but @isuggestforcefem@hexbear.net has some good ideas actually izutsumi-idea

[โ€“] isuggestforcefem@hexbear.net 20 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)
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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 19 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yo this girl convinced her doctor to up her estrogen tablets to 8mg from 6mg, keep her spirolactone at 50mg and is starting prog now at 10 months!

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago

Injections could be better but right now this working well and is hassle free. I've got good breast development I don't want to wait two months.

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 19 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

Imagine we lived in a socialist society and I could get free education/housing so I could actually focus on studying properly instead of commuting 2 hours a day and constantly being depressed about being too scared of telling my parents I'm trans cause they might threaten me with finances.

Wouldn't it be amazing?

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[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 17 points 3 weeks ago

Being agender I don't have that much to say about my gender, so instrad I will say that Dune is not a challenging read as I have heard. Most of the sci-fi is pretty easy to pick up on from context clues. It is, however, very very long, and at the start of the second half I am kinda losing my motivation to keep reading

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

i may have lost a luggage with most of my guy clothes and i feel like this is the universeโ€™s way of saying i have to do social transition already

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (6 children)

Kind of terrible to admit but one of the "good" things about being out to some people is it forces me to shave my face if I'm going to see them.

dysphoriaActually shaving is dysphoric, leaving it to get stubbly is obviously super dysphoric, this forces me to at least try more often. Nothing more humiliating then telling someone I'm a woman while fucking facial hair on me.
spoiler dysphoria + whining fucking hate living like this, everything puberty ruined. I am so miserable. I just want to not be like this anymore. I really can't do this.
suicideshould just kill myself already i dont want to do this. its too hard, too much, too painful. its not even worth pushing through.

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[โ€“] shallot@hexbear.net 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Whoa, Iโ€™m lookin pretty cute today :)

Itโ€™sโ€ฆ nice feeling less like the person in the mirror is someone else?

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

bottom surgery, bottom talkI wasnt planning on stopping E even though surgeons tell you to do it. Its bs, they dont tell cis women to get on estrogen blockers or whatever.

But I might... because I really wanna use my clone a dick thingy so I can literally go fuck myself after. And I feel like a few weeks off without an anti androgen would be the best for that.

[โ€“] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

You should totally make multiple copies for yourself and maybe other people you like enough as a sacredly kinky gift.

Congrats on your upcoming surgery. So exciting.

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[โ€“] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 16 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Late with the post and I have a headache, it's too cold for this shit

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[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

mental healthAsked my therapist if there's a way for me to pursue a gender dysphoria diagnosis (I just needed some affirmation). "Oh, that's been in your file for almost two years now." walter-breakdown

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Wish me luck lads, ladies and ladexes. I need it to prevent my parents from noticing my boobs which have grown since last time. My only hope is that since its winter I can easily wear sweaters inside and never be in a shirt. I've even prepared tops with checker patterns to break up the 3D contour of my boobs doggirl-lol

And since last time, they never checked my bag, I've decided to even take my vibrator over.

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Good lord am I terrified of them finding out about my boobs. This is not going to be an easy vacation.

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

They will almost certainly not notice

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[โ€“] meler@hexbear.net 16 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

UMMMMMMM yeah experiment in pupperhood over. It's a thing now.

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[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago
  • ~~Waiting~~
  • ~~Get better insurance~~
  • ~~Get up to date health records~~
  • ~~Schedule consult~~ !!!!!!!!!!
  • Electrolysis (and more waiting) <--

Take a deep breath, deep breath

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Voice update: reading voice is perfect, I no longer drop pitch while reading, my voice is bright, and my vowels are sharp. Spontaneous conversation is still rough but I'm working on it.

Speech therapist said conversation is the hardest thing to do and that I've come a long way fast. She also said that pitch is the only thing I need to focus on, everything else I've already got down.

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I think I'm going to try laser and voice therapy. It's been a while since I made some actual progress.

[โ€“] Kuori@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago

laser is genuinely life-changing

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Oh vibrator in my bag

Why did you turn on in public doggirl-tears ?

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Sibling smacked my chest earlier bocchi-glitch sensitive as fuck and can't react

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[โ€“] meler@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

guess who just got her ears piercedFUCKIN' MEEEEEEEEE doggirl-happy

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[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Getting destroyed at work and missed my trans support group for the second week in a row ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ I don't know how people enjoy this time of year. I love people and want to have a good time, but there's too much stuff going on for me

[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

On the plus side, got gender euphoria from having feminine earrings and being told they suit me :]

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Sorry the mega is late, i fell asleep bleh

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Beat Celeste's core, wasn't nearly as bad as I was expecting. B sides I did for hearts were worse.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I went to a trans community thing and a new girl dropped!

There was a person who'd never attended before and was super early in transition. It was really exciting.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

Holy fuck I need to shave my arms and legs and fucking everywhere I hate it. Haven't felt good at all or I normally try to

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[โ€“] crosswind@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

After two years it seemed like my mom had almost adjusted to using my pronouns consistently, but now it looks like she's learned the One Weird Trick where she can just constantly say my name and avoid ever having to use any pronouns for me at all.

[โ€“] crosswind@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

Now that I think about it, that's a good reason to finally make that my deadname.

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

It would be funny if I showed up to my parents' house with pride colored nails, wouldn't it? It's just a question if I have the balls to do it.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

Went to go message someone but its too late, maybe tomorrow. I got to get better at messaging people. Figuring out how to- what to say is always difficult for me to navigate. Actually makes me really sad thinking about how many of my relationships have vanished because I don't know how.

Oh, something good though, work gave me a $10 gift card which is pretty sweet. Its to subway but I'll regift to my sister.

[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Getting a basic eyeshadow routine down ๐Ÿ˜„ Feeling good about my progress. I'm so thankful there are a million tutorials on youtube.

Got my dress out of the back of my closet. Wearing it feels natural :)

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago (5 children)

UP WITH TRAAAAAAAANNNNNSSS

RAWR

flag-trans-pride flag-trans-pride flag-trans-pride

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

I keep bumping into shit with my ass at work because I'm not used to being this thicc and it is so affirming sicko-fem

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