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I would never buy the subscriptions that most people buy (YouTube Premium, Netflix or similar). It's just too easy to pirate.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I don't know if never.

But I don't want a smartwatch.

I've never carried a watch in general and I don't see the appeal of it when I carry a smartphone all day anyway.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 points 7 hours ago

I freaking love wearing a wristwatch, but it's most useful for stuff when you're running around grabbing stuff trying to get kids out the door, or carrying a ton of stuff while setting up/tearing down a display for an event, basically situations not condusive to most smart watches where you have to do a gesture of some kind to wake the screen, you just want to quickly glance and continue

Also having been getting heavy into fitness (biking specifically but also some running and hiking), I get how cool having heart data and whatnot is, but ehhhh. Kinda not really necessary. I get handy GPS data from my phone and that's sufficient. I can't do anything meaningful with the heart data, but I can make very useful decisions with distance/time metrics! Or when lifting just knowing the weight I'm working with, how many sets & reps is more than enough

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[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 29 points 5 days ago (6 children)

After building my first pc I will never buy a pre built again. I might never buy a pc again (pc of thesius!)

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[–] monovergent@lemmy.ml 35 points 5 days ago (18 children)
  • Phones on contract payment plans
  • New monitors: Maybe my eyes suck, but my set of two 21-inch LCD monitors from 2005 is still going strong
  • Third-party meal delivery: I'm fine sitting down with a microwaved meal or some canned soup if I don't feel like cooking
  • A new car every x years: My car of choice is old and relatively cheap, so I could afford to pay in full in cash. Bonus of being spyware-free, so I'll just maintain it for as long as I can.
  • Stuff from Aliexpress, Temu and the like: the user experience is horrendous, customer service is nonexistent, and discount codes are pure gimmicks
[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 17 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

New monitors: Maybe my eyes suck, but my set of two 21-inch LCD monitors from 2005 is still going strong

Your eyes don't suck. You just want to abuse them for some reason. Modern display tech is way easier on your eyes.

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[–] FlyingSpaceCow@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I was with you up until aliexpress.

There's definitely junk on there, but if you look for high purchase volume plus good ratings you'll get plenty of high quality stuff (minus the middle-man markup).

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[–] basilisa@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (4 children)
  1. A car
  2. Subscriptions of any kind (except a good VPN)
  3. New clothes (I always buy used)
  4. If the app is paid or even freemium I don't use it.
  5. Food delivery (Really? $40 for a fucking burger)
  6. Guess that leaves rent and renter's insurance which I have to have if I want a roof over my head.
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[–] artifex@piefed.social 79 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Lottery tickets.

They’re basically just a tax on the dumb. But man the slogans β€” all you need is a dollar and a dream, you gotta be in it to win it, etc. β€” sheer marketing genius.

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[–] yaroto98@lemmy.world 81 points 6 days ago (6 children)
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[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 73 points 6 days ago (11 children)

Streaming subscriptions. I swear the average nowadays seems to be like 4 per person because ppl don't know how to torrent anymore

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[–] Bwaz@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago (7 children)

Tickets to sports events. Yawn.

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[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 57 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Thanks to Technology Connections - Dishwasher/Laundry pods. Soap with pretty colors, and probably more soap than you need per load. I've swapped to powder and literally cannot tell a difference at all, and instead of 8 dollars for 10 loads I now am getting an entire box with like, 40 loads for $8.

And if you want something convenient for laundry they have the laundry sheets that don't release plastic into your water so that's nice.

But personally if I want a known amount each time for each load I just use a scoop.

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[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 days ago

Car. I hope I never have to buy a car. They suck.

[–] lowrads@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Holiday decorations. They are just plastic shit. Put a gun to my head, I would already know that every other weekend estate sale is going to have a whole room full of decor that is headed for a landfill. Some psychotics even buy new gimcrack every single year. They are evil, and they need to be stopped.

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[–] melfie@lemy.lol 27 points 5 days ago

Software subscriptions. I’ll buy a perpetual license if there’s no decent open source alternative as long as it will run offline. For example, $300 for Marvelous Designer back in the day was reasonable, but they can fuck right off with the subscription-only model.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 18 points 5 days ago

Alcohol, tobacco

[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 22 points 5 days ago (18 children)

Television. It's like paying to see ads.

Hand soap. Dish soap works better and you can use it on dishes in addition to your hands.

A dining table. I eat at my desk or standing at a counter. I was pressured into buying one by family because it was apparently bizarre to them I did not have one. Got the cheapest one I could find to appease them. I have now owned it for 4 years and it has never been used once, it just takes up space.

[–] oscar@lemmy.ml 21 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Just wanted to add that dish soap is actually very strong and removes all the natrual oils from your skin. If you are prone to sensitive skin it's a bad habit to regularly use dish soap as it can aggrivate it. Every now and then isn't going to hurt though.

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[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

Smart home devices. IOT devices. Subscriptions to things I paid for at purchase (car stuff like upgraded performance or heated seats)

[–] BrianTheeBiscuiteer@lemmy.world 44 points 6 days ago (17 children)

K-Cups. They might save you a grand total of a minute over loose grounds and a disposable paper filter, but they're more costly per cup and create more waste.

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[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 38 points 6 days ago
[–] CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world 36 points 6 days ago (7 children)

Pre-built computers. I’ve just been building PCs for so long I can’t imagine buying something that meet my specifications within a reasonable budget. And it’s fun.

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[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 42 points 6 days ago (2 children)
  1. Nestle products (I am bad at explaining why, and would just again end up researching their shit for 2 hours)
  2. Alcoholic drinks - kills braincells, and I'd prefer to keep both
  3. Cigarettes or vapes
  4. Closed-source software licenses (for personal use)
  5. Digital content that does not come on physical media
  6. Hardware with license-unlockable components (e.g. some networking equipment may limit throughput unless you pay more)
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[–] pedz@lemmy.ca 30 points 5 days ago (17 children)

A car. Gas/petrol for a car. A parking spot for a car. Car insurance. A driver's license. Winter tires for cars. Anything car related.

It's so ridiculous to pay for a mobile living room that needs to be parked everywhere people go with it.

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[–] PiraHxCx@lemmy.ml 39 points 6 days ago

Streaming services subscription.

[–] ZeroHora@lemmy.ml 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 35 points 6 days ago (10 children)

A brand new car.

Buy used, let someone else take the depreciation hit.

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[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago

Most people go to the supermarket and buy cruelty, torture, violence, atrocity, and slavery.

[–] q1p_@lemmy.zip 9 points 5 days ago (4 children)
  • P*rn premium subscriptions
  • Tinder premium
  • Paper news subscription or any printed magazine
  • Paid tv channels
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