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The Golden Horde was the European appanage of the Mongol Empire (1206-1368 CE). Begun in earnest by Batu Khan in 1227 CE, the territory that would eventually become the Golden Horde came to encompass parts of Central Asia, much of Russia, and other parts of Eastern Europe. Later converting to Islam, the Golden Horde would meld aspects of cultures from Europe, Asia, and the Middle East while ruling Russia for over two centuries. At its height, Mongol raids from the Golden Horde extended from the Caucasus to Hungary to Constantinople, inspiring fear across the known the world of the fearsome Mongol horsemen, or, as they knew them, the Tartars.

They Came from the East

Under the leadership of Genghis Khan (r. 1206-1227 CE), the Mongol Empire began the greatest military machine of the medieval world. Expanding from Korea to the Caspian Sea under Genghis' reign, his sons and grandsons would bring the Mongol Empire to its heights, creating the largest contiguous land empire the world has ever seen.

According to Mongol tradition, Genghis divided his empire into appanages for each of his four sons. Genghis' first son, Jochi received the lands furthest from Mongolia, those around the Ural Mountains and beyond. It was to fall to Jochi's son, Batu Khan (r. 1227-1255 CE), to consolidate these future conquests and establish what would become known as the Golden Horde.

Ogedei Khan (r. 1229-1241 CE), Genghis' son and Batu's uncle, ordered a massive Mongol campaign east across the Ural Mountains to conquer Europe. In 1236 CE, the Mongol horde descended into the Volga River valley. Nothing to stand against Mongol warfare as the Volga Bulgars fell in 1237 CE, followed by the major Russian cities of Vladimir-Suzdal, Kiev, and Halych between 1238 and 1240 CE. Only the city of Novgorod, far to the north, escaped the Mongol onslaught.

The mongols sack suzdal

With Russia vanquished, the Mongol horde marched west. A three-prong attack led by Batu and the famous Mongol general Subotai devastated the Polish and Teutonic Knights at the Battle of Legnica in 1241 CE before the main army crushed the Hungarian army at the Battle of Mohi (aka the Battle of the Sajo River) later that year. Europe lay bare before the seemingly invincible Mongol horde, but the death of Ogedei back in Mongolia made the Mongols retreat and allowed Europe to breathe a sigh of relief. These first raids lead the Europeans to dub the Mongols Tartars, both from the name of a Mongol clan, the Tatars, and the fact that they seemingly came from the depths of hell, or Tartarus.

The Mongols would never venture as far as the Adriatic again, but the Golden Horde would remain a significant presence in Europe for the next two centuries. By playing the role of kingmaker following the death of Guyuk Khan in 1248 CE, Batu established the permanence of his family's rule over the Golden Horde portion of the Mongol Empire. Batu set up a capital at Sarai near the Volga and introduced a pattern of tribute from the Russian princes that would become a hallmark of the Golden Horde. In fact, one of the potential origins of the name “Golden Horde” is that the color derived from that of Batu's splendid golden tent. However, the color gold was associated with Genghis' family (called the “golden” family) and it was associated with the center in the Mongol's color system for cardinal directions, so those could also be potential origins.

Looking to the South

Batu's brother Berke (r. 1257-1266 CE) continued the precedent of Batu's robust leadership. He led campaigns into Poland, Lithuania, and Prussia, reinforcing the European fear of the Mongols. But perhaps the most important event of Berke's reign was his conversion to Islam.

The fact that Berke was a Muslim put him at odds with Hulegu Khan (r. 1256-1265), the leader of the Ilkhanate, which had conquered Iran and Iraq and had become one of the four main powers in the Mongol Empire. Hulegu had sacked the great Muslim city of Baghdad in 1258 CE and had killed the last Abbasid caliph by rolling him in a carpet and trampling him to death. The Golden Horde and the Ilkhanate also bordered each other in the Caucasus, which became a flashpoint. In 1262 CE, war broke out between the two nominal parts of the Mongol Empire. Berke formed an alliance with Baybars (r. 1260-1277 CE), the Mamluk Sultan in Egypt. An Ilkhanate invasion of the Golden Horde ended in defeat when the Golden Horde general Nogai led a surprise attack at the Battle of Terek in 1262 CE. At the same time as this Berke-Hulegu War, there was a civil war back in Mongolia over who would become Great Khan.

The Mongol Empire, although it would nominally remain united, was in reality shattered. In the coming decades, the Chaghataids would claim the rest of Transoxiana from the Golden Horde and Berke would die during a march against the Ilkhanate. Later in the 13th century CE, the Golden Horde would become involved in the conflict between Kublai Khan (r. 1260-1294 CE) and the Ogedeid leader Kaidu, supporting the latter. Internecine conflict with the Ilkhanate would continue as well.

Meanwhile, the Golden Horde became involved in the Balkans when a former Seljuk sultan was held captive by the Byzantine Empire. Nogai, with the help of the Golden Horde vassal Bulgaria, invaded the Byzantine Empire in 1271 CE and forced the emperor, Michael VIII Palaiologos (r. 1259-1281 CE) to marry one of his daughters to Nogai. The khan Mengu-Timur (r. 1266-1280 CE) opened the Golden Horde to trade, giving the Genoese and Venice trading colonies at Azov and Caffa, and ordering the Russians to allow German traders into their lands.

After Mengu-Timur's death, Nogai was the de facto ruler of the Golden Horde. He raided Europe from Lithuania to Bulgaria and forced Serbia to accept vassalage. While Nogai was a powerful warrior leader, his death in 1299 CE did not overly halt the campaigns of the Golden Horde.

The Triumph of Islam

The Golden Horde experienced many changes in the 14th century CE. For one, Islam came to stay. While Berke had been the first Mongol prince to convert to Islam, other rulers of the Golden Horde, including Toqta, continued to follow Tengrism (Mongol pagan beliefs) or Buddhism. That changed when Uzbeg (r. 1313-1341 CE) proclaimed Islam as the official religion of the Golden Horde. In this vein, Uzbeg continued to strengthen relations with the Mamluks of Egypt, even marrying a Mongol princess to the Egyptian sultan.

Instead of active military campaigns, Uzbeg and his successors kept the Russian princes subservient and divided by playing them against each other. Tver was the leading city backed by the Mongols, but when the city's population slaughtered their Mongol residents in 1327 CE, Uzbeg switched his support to the city of Moscow.

The 14th-century CE Decline

Yet the success of Uzbeg and Janibeg quickly unraveled. The Black Death had taken a serious economic toll on the Golden Horde. From 1359 to 1382 CE, the Golden Horde was wracked by civil war. During this time the Mongol grip on Eastern Europe also began to slacken. In fact, the Mongols faced their first serious defeats in Europe during this time. Lithuania defeated the Mongols at the Battle of Blue Waters in 1362 CE, following up the battle by conquering Kiev. The Russian principalities scored their first victory over the Mongols in 1380 CE at the Battle of Kulikovo, which is considered a turning point in Russian history.

Under Uzbeg, the Golden Horde remained active. Toqta (r. 1291-1312 CE) married an illegitimate Byzantine princess, strengthening the Golden Horde-Byzantine alliance that had existed since the time of Nogai. Yet under Uzbeg, the Mongols, in alliance with their Bulgarian vassal, raided the Byzantine Empire for two decades. They also propped up an independent Wallachia against Hungary. Meanwhile, Uzbeg opened up the Crimea to trading posts by the Genoese and Venetians. The 1340s CE featured the last Mongol campaigns into Poland.

The 14th-century CE Decline

Yet the success of Uzbeg and Janibeg quickly unraveled. The Black Death had taken a serious economic toll on the Golden Horde. From 1359 to 1382 CE, the Golden Horde was wracked by civil war. During this time the Mongol grip on Eastern Europe also began to slacken. In fact, the Mongols faced their first serious defeats in Europe during this time. Lithuania defeated the Mongols at the Battle of Blue Waters in 1362 CE, following up the battle by conquering Kiev. The Russian principalities scored their first victory over the Mongols in 1380 CE at the Battle of Kulikovo, which is considered a turning point in Russian history.

Revival Under Tokhtamysh

The decline of the Golden Horde was briefly arrested by Tokhtamysh, a protegee of Tamerlane (r. 1380-1395 CE). Tokhtamysh besieged Moscow in 1382 CE and, ignoring a promise to not attack the city, slaughtered the inhabitants when the city opened its gates. The next year Tokhtamysh avenged the loss at the Battle of Blue Waters by defeating the Lithuanians at the Battle of Poltava. Both the Russians and Lithuanians were back under the Mongol yoke and forced to pay tribute.

But Tokhtamysh's successes made him overreach himself. He next decided to turn on his mentor Tamerlane. Tamerlane's vengeful campaign sacked Sarai, burned the Golden Horde's land, destroyed its army, and forced Tokhtamysh to flee. Tokhtamysh fled to Lithuania and later tried and failed to retake the Golden Horde. Meanwhile, Tamerlane had so devastated the trade routes in the Golden Horde that the state would never recover economically.

Russia Resurgent

After Tamerlane's destruction and the civil wars that followed, the Golden Horde was increasingly limited to the lower banks of the Volga River. The Golden Horde broke up into several separate khanates: the Khanate of Khazan, the Khanate of Astrakhan, the Khanate of the Crimea, the Khanate of Sibir, the Nogai Horde, and the Kazakh Khanate. The last major khan of the Golden Horde, Ahmed (r. 1465-1481 CE), led a campaign against Lithuania and Moldavia that ended in defeat.

Perhaps more importantly for history, Ahmed also led the Mongols during the Battle of the Ugra River in 1480 CE. Ivan III of Moscow soundly defeated the forces of the Golden Horde and the battle has ever since been recognized as the end of the Mongol domination of Russia.

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[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)
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[–] Comrade_Mushroom@hexbear.net 27 points 2 weeks ago

"but North Korea invaded the South!?!?" yeah I love to invade my own country to fight... the foreigners occupying my country, with the overwhelming support of my countrymen,

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[–] BadTakesHaver@hexbear.net 23 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Cuomo lost because the average voter was NOT informed about the Hasan Piker drama enough. If they knew Hasan did an interview with infamous Twitter user BadEmpanada, Zohran would be FINISHED

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[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 23 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Carl@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

pretty fun line about the recent mayoral election: "ya'll spent more money trying to stop zohran than he wants to tax you."

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

i hear this line a lot when there's union busting going on too, the answer is they don't want us to have one good thing because we might get funny ideas about more good things being possible

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[–] PowerLurker@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago (15 children)

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[–] Parzivus@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Didn't go vote today because I assumed the incumbent Republicans in my state would win easily. They both got smoked by Dems, lol. 2024 shouldn't have even been close

[–] Antiwork@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yup, that's how bad Harris was as a candidate. This was also known at the time though. Voter turnout was abysmal and it was felt down ticket

[–] Carl@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

imagine what must be going on in her head right now, seeing zohran cleaning up in ny doing everything she refused to do, and then going on john stewart and saying that she still plans to do the exact same thing as last time next time around

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[–] tombruzzo@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

My girlfriend has been watching Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss. I thought i was cool and could kick it with y'all but if this is gay culture then I'm straight lol

I do not like these shows for reasons that if I explain them make me feel 1000 years old.

Like, fair enough if they're your thing but they didn't come out at the right time of my life in the right cultural climate.

[–] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I believe that you're describing the Steven Universe side of gay culture. The ketamine side of gay culture is pretty different.

It's kinda like I was observing on here recently that the left is divided among people who look up to Xi Jinping as a global leader and people for whom Spongebob fills the same role.

Wait, am I just recreating gender?

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[–] CliffordBigRedDog@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 18 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Have a b'owl in these trying times

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[–] Keld@hexbear.net 18 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I have decided to name this cocktail "Someone gave me half a bottle of some slavic booze I can't read the name of and I'm mixing it with the pear cider that's cheaper than soda"

Edit: You know the worst part is if this turns out to be really good I'm fucked because I can never find this booze again.

Edit 2: That's not gonna be a problem

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[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Getting so fucking baked at work the foreman says "hey man you ok? You seem sick" and immediately playing along 'yeah I'mtrying to push through it though' "ok well if you need to take the day off let me know." This is how you use your flaws to your advantage

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

This is also why even though it's legal here I never make it a part of my personality that I'm a big weed enjoyer.

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[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Comrade_Mushroom@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago

It's amazing to me how much of an open joke everything is here in the U.S. now. Like... weren't all you government officials supposed to be pretending that everything was Super Serious and so because of that, it was of the utmost importance that your shitty, exploitative system of endless misery and suffering has to be upheld no matter what? How are we even supposed to be expected to go along with all these numbers and rules y'all made up now that you're openly expressing how fucking dumb all this shit is?

Just because you're still pointing guns at us, I guess.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago

Every now and then I remember the fact the villains in the first season of Netflix's Iron Fist had evil plans that involved a version of heroin they made where the user never developed any tolerance, so it was like the first time every time. This would be the greatest breakthrough in pain relief medicine and make the company that discovered it billionaires overnight. One of the reasons the opioid crisis is bad is once you're addicted to opiates your tolerance is so high, you get barely any pain relief, so in turn people try stronger doses. But if you got perfect pain relief every time forever, chemical dependance is less of a concern.

[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)
[–] HarryLime@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Funny, I got a call from this store. They said they're running out of you.

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[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago

Gotta love capitalism! Went to donate plasma yesterday and had a seizure in the middle of a cafe afterwards. Fortunately my girlfriend was there to take care of me, and took care of me better than anybody in my life had done previously. It was a particularly bad seizure too, so I'm amazed that she handled it so well.

[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)
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[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Haven’t heard white guys say inshallah in a while, major recession indicator.

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[–] BadTakesHaver@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Boy am I glad my lawyer was able to prevent me from going to jail!


ⓘ 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘶𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢 r𝘢𝘵.

Please whack him to protect the Gambino family's best interests

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[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

Most annoying part of being a guy has to be sipping on glow stick fluid twice a week to restock your urine’s tracer rounds.

[–] Hohsia@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Re Mamdani: When America falls, the red scare will still be there in the background more alive than ever I guarantee it. Genuinely thought we were beginning to recover from its damage but holy fucking shit the overt racism cloaked in red scare nonsense that I’ve seen is off the charts.

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[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

Today has been such a wonderful day. I am glowing. Not only is Cheney burning for eternity but this was in the new york post today

What a day

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[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

The cool thing about the first season of incest and dragons is that every time Eddard Stark speaks my brain thinks I just completed a wonder.

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[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

My mom thinks Im cool. Just checked.

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[–] Grownbravy@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

American politics comes down to how much people like you, and that’s why communism will never take off here.

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[–] tombruzzo@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I like it when people make a typo putting in "a" instead of "s" so they sound Italian for one word.

"This store sella that product"

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[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Tv show idea: guy with a long and thin dick and guy with a short and thick dick teaming up to solve crimes.

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[–] CrawlMarks@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

CW: Horny posting.

I am not built for the streets. I was at a kink event and we held hands.

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[–] UmbraVivi@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Woke is back. Anyone without pronouns will be sent to the gulag. Misgendering gets the death penalty, but if it's someone with neopronouns and the judge likes you you may get away with 20 years in prison. White people are not allowed to vote.

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[–] FuckyWucky@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

It makes me happy to see the corporate Democrats just like the Republicans don't like him very much.

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[–] InevitableSwing@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I'm watching the tv series V (2009). The Vs are the space alien visitors. People don't know they are trying to take over the earth.

The good guys discover a plot by the Vs to make people panicked into getting vaccines from them. In reality - the "vaccines" are toxic and are a linchpin in the Vs efforts. The storytelling and dialog gets very clumsy but the characters say that everybody would rush to get vaccinated because such actions are "human nature" and it's "what makes us human". It's simply implied that "human nature" and "what makes us human" is - of course - the common sense logic of getting vaccinated from disease.

It's cute story arc considering how batshit the US is in 2025.

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Ninja edit

In other news - two spiders of the same species just crossed paths on the ceiling. I wondered what would happen. Would they try to eat one another? Mate maybe? Nope. One spider suddenly stuck its leg out and the second spider lost its footing and fell to the floor.

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[–] BadTakesHaver@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Scientists Create First Ever Combined Bag of Various Halloween Candies Where One of The Candies Doesn't Suck Ass

[–] Grownbravy@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

ADHD is irritating, cause you can be busy with intense focus, and you still have thoughts intrude that you're trying not to have, like for example, thinking about someone you miss while watching a software tutorial

[–] PowerLurker@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

as a fellow yearner with the ADHD: i think the last part might just be the universal human experience of heartbreak, my friend

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[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Proof that chatgpt is nearing super intelligence:

It told me I'm smart, and constantly tells me I'm making the right decisions

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[–] LeninWeave@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (4 children)

My dream is to drop three atomic bombs on New York City.

  • Raul Castro (probably fake).
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[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Not getting paid for my commute to work is fucked

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[–] ratboy@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I was really hoping she wouldn't care, but just found out my mom has a fucking "I stand with Charlie Kirk" hat. She's an apolitical Gen Xer turned conservative that really doesnt understand what the fuck she's talking about, and I know she doesn't really stand for what they stand for but her brain is being fucking poisoned and she's so insanely hard headed and just won't listen to me no matter what I do.

I went no contact for a while during the George Floyd uprisings because she just would not listen to me no matter how patiently I tried to explain things and engage with her.. but my brother told me she had cancer several months later so we started talking again.

I feel so stupid to be fucking crying over a stupid hat but I just know there's nothing I can do, and I just don't know if I can have a relationship with her anymore. I try hard to just not bring up politics when I see her but she always has to fucking pick at me so....idk. This really sucks.

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