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[–] daofaorao@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

the "communist ml" side on tumblr complaining abt the phrase "the usa has always been fascist" because it isnt accurate to a precise analysis of fascism and that it "whitewashes liberal democracy" has made me realize that site is truly full of navel gazers who have never interacted with anyone irl, much more so with nonwhites.

like when has a person who says that the usa has always been fascist (an effective rhetorical tool mind you!) ever been a proponent of fucking liberal democracy. like jfc. how pedantic.

[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (5 children)

whenever a leftist ik admits they used or use tumblr/4chan/reddit regularly or used to identify with it I keep my eyes on them like they're going to turn into a horse or something

especially "leftists" spaces or boards there because they didn't have a "everything I believe in is wrong I have to rebuild what I know" self critic moment, people who held obvious reactionary beliefs such transphobia or racism then decide one day to become a communist have to either wipe out everything they believe in or exist in nazbol communities, because the moment you start talking some "tradwives" and "all lives matter" bullshit you're getting banned anywhere remotely on the left. They still carry the nonsense they held back then you just won't notice it because it isn't obvious or isn't in the topic, you talk to them for a while and they seem fine then boom they start having nostalgia about the Hamilton Musical and Obama, or if they're a redditor they start talking about Muslims, or if they were a /tttt/ or /leftypol/ user they use abbreviations and slurs no one knows.

[–] daofaorao@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

a lot of these people, and in most communities dominated by westerners in general, is that they retain a lot of their chauvinism, especially the yanks. they would shout for the destruction of the settler state for israel while praising fucking new york city in the next post. the discontinuity between how they treat the two settler states is something i've repeated numerous times.

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[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (5 children)

At the risk of getting put on horse-watch, I'm going to strongly agree with you about reddit-logo

or if they're a redditor they start talking about Muslims

I lurked on /r/atheism a long time ago while grappling with the fallout from my faith shattering, and what I concluded was that that crowd of "new atheists" were racist as hell. If I talked about not being muslim anymore because I wanted God to actually exercise power to make the world better, and since that doesn't happen I can't believe in anything supernatural anymore: Upvotes galore, sympathetic comments, people commiserating and trying to help me cope. If I said that bombing Muslims because you think their governments are too theocratic / autocratic is a horrible way to "liberate" anyone, and anyway people didn't need to be "liberated" by force, they just needed to be socially free to choose their beliefs and lifestyles (and, when free to choose, most people would remain Muslim because it's not actually bad to be religious, and you can be gay and trans and progressive and still be religious): Downvoted to hell and people dogpiling me and even citing the Quran out of context to tell me, someone raised in Islam, that I didn't know shit about it. If I pointed out that it's absolutely ridiculous for a mostly white mostly western userbase to talk so much shit about Islam at all when evangelical christianity is the thing that's actually threatening people's civil liberties: "terrorism", "migrants invading europe and making the crime rate skyrocket" (gee, why would a bunch of refugees suddenly show up? Did western foreign policy have anything to do with that?), and even worse things I don't want to retype out because it's so hateful.

The heel turn that Richard Dawkins took was not a surprise. That motherfucker ended up deciding he was a secular christian because he was so bothered by seeing Muslim women wearing clothes.

Redditors as a group seem to just hate Muslims because redditors are western chauvinists. That's the real reason they don't complain about isntrael committing a livestreamed holocaust on our western goverenments' dime. They like seeing people being murdered, as long as they're the right religion.

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[–] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Leftypol is extremely reactionary. I'm also suspicious of anyone who uses it because they don't have rules like actual leftist spaces against bigotry and slurs.

I only browse 4chan for opposition research to understand and recognize dogwhistles. It's one of the reasons I no longer debate conservatives elsewhere because it's clear mainstream reactionaries have absorbed the Alt-Right into their platforms. This includes 4chan-style """trolling""" where they pretend like they were "just joking" if you call out their shitty beliefs.

The place was ground zero for online neo-nazis recruited by Steve Bannon outside of actual Stormfront.

they use abbreviations and slurs no one knows.

Exactly 💯%. They'll carry over their reactionary thinking and hope anyone won't notice.

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[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (4 children)

spoilerAll I'm saying is if a bunch of white people were being hanged from trees in 2025, it'll be considered an act of a serial killer and not ruled out as a suicide

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

I'm trying to figure this out...... If this is what fascism is to white folks wtf is what poc and the imperial periphery have been going through called?

something that happened 400 years ago and is part of the past

[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Poc are getting the brunt of the fascism in America, not white people. This is just white centricism

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[–] homhom9000@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago

It's crucial to be materialist during these times. Losing 13 billion in soybean, car manufacturer plant stalled because deportation blowback, un finally saying its a genocide, all of these things are related and interdependent on each other. All else that's happening is facism thrashing for the only power they can control and capitalist hoarding wealth by budding up to power.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

🪱 my gf 🥺 she won't stop shit talking Castro 😩

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

whats she saying about him? he’s too hot so he must have been the devil?

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

She mostly eats dirt but it's vibes based insults

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Seeing anti immigrant British bump freddie mercury songs all the way up when he's queer and of indian descent show the power of the west to really subsume all into itself.

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have a feeling that telling them that about Freddie would put them under pressure.

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[–] homhom9000@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Grieving is ass. I hate having to hold myself together because my parent doesn't want to think about it or talk about it but I know it's eating them up and it'll be better to just let it out. Hopefully they'll let out some grief when I go back home, I know I will.

[–] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I hate how my ability to care about the struggles of white people seems to be diminishing a lot, even if they're legitimate struggles.

For example, seeing white queer people complain about queerphobic legislation just doesn't bother me anymore, even though I'd be impacted by that very legislation.

The legislation does concern me, yes, but the white complaints about it? I don't care what they have to say because I can't get over how common it is for white people to only care about injustice insofar as it goes after them personally.

These same white queer people would never give a damn about anything pertaining to systemic racism, and if they posted some tweet saying they did, it'd just be performative bullshit.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The legislation does concern me, yes, but the white complaints about it? I don't care what they have to say because I can't get over how common it is for white people to only care about injustice insofar as it goes after them personally.

I hear what you're saying. I think I reached this point in like, Spring of 2024 at the latest. And it was entirely because of that dynamic. Watching white and even so-called "radicals" rush to ignore genocide because they actually don't consider brown people human (again! They did this with Afghanistan and Iraq too, but this was so much worse!), well, that I should have expected. But to then in the very same breath act terrified that Trump was going to win and be a fascist just seemed selfish. Like ok white people, if you don't care about people being murdered in an open air concentration camp then don't suddenly expect people to care that you (and the rest of us) are going to get some more persecution at home. Be fucking consistent.

I mean, I was also basically frustrated with this dynamic: All of a sudden for the first time in their lives, many of these white people around me were grappling with fear that they were going to be directly persecuted by the government. I mean "they're going to put us in camps!" fear. That's something that the rest of us had to learn how to cope with as children. Grow the fuck up, white people. Or don't, but don't expect me to humor your childishness.

And I was so frustrated because I'd been trying to educate white people about the fascist threat for over a decade at that point, by pointing out the many ways the US government murders people abroad and persecutes immigrants domestically and was already putting immigrants in camps and cages and had been jailing black people to use for prison labor longer than I'd been alive, but most of my pleas for people to care about other people had fallen on [ableist language I won't say actually, because that ableistly ascribes to disability what is better ascribed to whiteness. My words fell on white ears]. I'd been called "psychotic" even for saying that this white american nativist movement was evil, was going to kill people, and needed to be treated as such. But now all of a sudden wouldn't you know it, Trump is fascist! The fascist threat suddenly looms out of nowhere! So we have to have to have to support Democrats to protect us from Trump! And if I pointed out that the Democrats were actively committing a holocaust right in front of our eyes, it was drowned out by "but the genocide will continue no matter who's in power! We're in danger! Save us!" I looked around. Was I alone in thinking this. I could be the odd one out and still be right, but if it was only me I should consider that maybe I was just wrong. But then other trans immigrant influencers I followed started saying it too: "Don't use our queerness to excuse genocide. Fuck Trump, but fuck Biden and Harris and the Democratic Party as a whole too." So no, it was (mostly) whiteness.

It sent a clear message: Oh, they have no solidarity. They don't actually care about fascism. They don't actually care about systemic violence being done to people. They just care about themselves. All those years when I had solidarity with oppressed white people meant nothing to them, because they just wanted to take but never give. And I stopped being able to care or respond in emotionally supportive ways. Friends would confide in me "I'm really scared, what if they try to round us up?" and all I could say was "welcome to the club, how do you think they treated Muslims here? But even then, most people didn't get caught up in the dragnet so you're probably going to be fine and shouldn't worry so much, it's needlesly stressing you. Here's what helped me cope and not stress so much, maybe it'll help you: "If they come for me, I won't die alone, but til then I'm not going to torment myself worrying about a day that may never come." I was trying to share my hard-won wisdom and help people not have to reinvent the wheel. But these ingrates didn't appreciate it.

It reminds me of what I find so funny about HP Lovecraft's writing, actually: the white supremacist attachment to being at the top and suddenly finding out they're not. For Lovecraft's characters, it was because there were older and more ancient powerful civilizations that predated Mankind. For Lovecraft himself, it was similar, except he was losing his shit about nonwhite cultures. For these people, it's finding out that their whiteness will not protect them from other white people.

idk, it's probably not the best thing for solidarity-building to vent those feelings but this is an EMPOC only space. And on the other hand, I'd really like to see white people who are relatively new to being systemically oppressed to this extent account for their position and maybe with a bit of humility say "I'm freaking the fuck out about possibly being on a government kill list, can those of you who've already had to grapple with this help me cope?" instead of "so y'all need to listen to me when I tell you that the best way to protect me is to throw your comrades under the bus".

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

Only 2 whites in the Senate voted against lionising this Kirk guy. Once again us-foreign-policy

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Fetishism on a Facebook postWhite woman with the caption "POV: Black men just hit different... had me weak every time"

2.4k likes

275 comments

Couldn’t find a single one being critical of this dehumanizing behavior.

This is, once again, more insight into the problem of racial fetishism being an extremely socially acceptable form of racism.

This is more insight into the issue of people being racist so long as they can get away with it.

This is more insight into the tendency for people to reduce what counts as "racist" down to men in white hoods lynching dark-skinned people.

It also is a yet another instance of white nonsense that continues to validate my decision to never date out again.

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I will say things that will end up being fedposting so I'll just keep quiet

[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is why there's no crime that's too old to remember, there's not "it was so long ago you have to move on", because when they [the colonizers] step on you, they won't rest until you apologize for hurting their foot, they won't rest until they stomp you out.

song by red bone that was banned by radio stationshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-exUl-TnQ0

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

The transcription interview went very well. It was also with a Black woman.

I now have to do one more assessment, and once I get graded on it, I'll be able to start the job soon!

Seeing as how transcription is something I'm adept at, I'm confident! I got a week to complete this assessment but plan on completing it either tonight or tomorrow.

Regarding pay, she said that this could be a full-time job for me, as they are the largest legal transcription service for the US, and she used a calculator that considers both my typing speed and hours I want to work and calculates an expected rate.

Based on her calculations, she says I should expect to make 18 to 20 USD an hour as a conservative estimate. Nice.

I hope this goes well.

Fingers crossed!

🤞🏿🤞🏿🤞🏿🤞🏿

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I think a lot of my anxiety comes about from being colored in public, it's that family guy skin tone meme where if you too dark it's loitering. Anyway fuck do-not-do-this and fuck anti-cracker-aktion

[–] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Gonna go on a rant about bad therapy time, I'm just going to cw since even I feel content warned thinking of it

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Been having a rough couple of weeks, worthy of a telenovella, super sick relatives that may die, terrible time at work getting sexually harassed, and existential dread. Add to all that shit my theorycasting of trauma dumping on a brand new therapist out of the gate was a complete disaster, ofc in this area what could I fucking expect, white chud dismisses not only bigotry I experience, also a damn hate crime I experienced the reason I'm going in, my terrible burnout, but also belittles me as the public typically does retail workers, if he didn't read my file, and tbh he probably didn't its a medicaid clinic ffs, but this is almost as bad as the therapist I had that started ranting on me about some random other client that didn't care for her child and called me the wrong name while scolding me, lol. I should have stopped her, but I was morbidly curious, and in this case I sort of wonder how bad he's going to continue fucking up, I'm already about 70pct offended, son that takes WORK. To a large degree I realize in Gringolandia I'm basically a lime colored teapot unicorn, poor fuck has never seen something like me, nor ever will again, so he utterly lacks the framework, and in such a therapeutic environment you're just going to standardize all the patients, RIP me the shiny outlier. I don't want to exactly burn bridges and call him out, but I'm not going to be able to take an ultra patronizing 6th grade tier biology of anxiety lecture without losing my last shred of patience with all the shit going down. I can't exactly ditch neither for reasons, at least not right away.

When its shit like this it becomes to harder to realize how much is me trying to process trauma when I'm still in actively being traumatized survival mode vs an actual new offense. I also have that to consider. I hate having to backseat therapy like this, why couldn't I have gone to gradschool and all that work out? Lol, at least I will never harm someone with my knowledge but myself I suppose.

Also I want to say fuck, talk therapy 50% bourgeois cishet white nonsense other 50% metaphysics! Grrr.

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

cringiest urb✱n d✱ction✱ry definition i've ever seen

cw: white boy victim complex

[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

@vegeta1@hexbear.net about your comment in the last mega, Charlie Kirk is literally against minorities having civil rights.

On a different topic, westerners who say shit like "oh I don't eat vegetables" I've seen multiple say it like it's a normal thing... how?

[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

on a somewhat similar topic, I've noticed something about right wingers, they genuinely tie political beliefs to how a person looks, they act surprised when a white cis male doesn't like Charlie Kirk and hates feminists and minorities, and it's what makes Kamala and other marginalized racists even more pathetic because this logic also applies to them. it's writing books for the illiterate.

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

And they putting him side by side with MLK thats-why-im-confused A man he literally shat on thats-why-im-confused If this populace were anymore brainwashed they'd be a tyranid hivemind thats-why-im-confused

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

I hate how I feel like a job offer is so close to me but simultaneously feel like it'll never actually be in my reach.

[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

I expect cannibalism to return as a mainstream racist rhetoric in the next 10 years

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Reading about heroin and Afghanistan just reminds me back to opium and China etc, I'm straight edged vegan myself but yeah cracker really do be pushing poison. I remember hearing on crack too and don't doubt it was tied to Iran Contra but like I haven't read any books on it yet, if someone has a good one be cool for a title big-cool

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Finding the American hysteria over comedians doing the Saudi gigs funny. Your own billionaires lobbied to keep your healthcare and so many other quality of life markers down. They also largely support this orange fascist and the genocide. They are directly involved in your immiseration. Not that the Saudi in power are good but the energy different innit

[–] daofaorao@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

criticism of marriage as an institution aside, i dont know what its like where you live but thee fact that people in my country think that marrying in your early 20s is the norm and not even question it is fucking absurd with me.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I remember the hell that was watching the George Lopez show, I always kept hoping it would get better but nah. The literal 🪱 grandfather I could never be sure if they were fully making fun of him in the yells-at-cloud way or not but if memory serves his family had slaves.

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