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Hello everyone~ The megathread is very eepy this week so I am being very quiet and not posting a whole essay as that might disturb their rest. The megathread does a lot of work for us after all, so they deserve to rest a little. Our regularly scheduled effortposts will continue next week.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

hello gang, once again here to ask if anyone wants to sign up to make the mega and also claim my spot at the top of the comment pile

Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)
Shaleesh (8/18 - 8/24)
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nemmybun (9/8 - 9/14)
Disaster_of_Passion* (9/15 - 9/21)
Carcharodonna* (9/22 - 9/28)
sodium_nitride* (9/29 - 10/5)
peanutbuttercupola* (10/6 - 10/12)
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[–] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 13 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

Ive been vegan for a month doggirl-shock

party-blob

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 1 points 27 minutes ago
[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 5 hours ago

nice good work bean

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 7 points 5 hours ago

yippeee proud of u

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 5 hours ago

Current gender is smelling like apricots with a bit of engine oil since I did some car work this morning πŸš—

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

The subreddit for making memes themed around Chinese cultivation novels has, in the span of 2 days, turned into a sub for sharing gay cartoon Chinese porn (that is still themed around cultivation).

This is the most fascinating phenomena I have seen. I mean, I have seen this happen before, but the sheer speed is ... incredible.

That post about the boymodding trans girl cultivator has seemingly caused an irreversible reaction.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 3 points 6 hours ago

mild nsfw

catgirl-heart men

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 20 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I'm going to wear a skirt tomorrow, i'm going to do it. I'm gonna do it. I'm going to wear one and go into town and look at books. I'm going to browse at the thrift store and buy nothing. I'm going to wile away the day existing in the real world and not from behind the screen.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 8 points 8 hours ago

You can do it catgirl-salute

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 17 hours ago

mental health, some of its harsh from a caregiverBefore me and my ex broke up, for 3 years they had some kind of constellation of depression, fatigue, pain, a lot of stuff. I was happy to step in cause I thought love and patience was enough.

I do remember towards the end, starting to feel incredibly depressed and resentful that I didnt also have a Terminal in our relationship. I still had to go to school and work and change the cats litter on both of our days and cook and clean. But I didnt, I had my ex.

The frustrating part was watching them NOT take steps towards anything. Not trying to get a job, not trying to get welfare, not attending therapy, not going to health appointments - even when I set them up, unless I drove there and from the sounds of it later they never talked much at any of them so I started getting them to write down what was happening day to day (feeling itchy for the 3rd day in a row, emesis x2 today, slept 14 hours, needed hot bath for nausea, etc). I ran into their family at work recently and by the sounds of it, theyre much better.

Part of me is happy theyre FINALLY better and working and taking care of themslef. The other is bitter and mad, why wasn't our relationship good enough to make that effort? I had been a shitty boyfriend sometimes and a much less shitty girlfriend but I thought I was worth taking the effort to, like, eat meals and go to therapy and work at a job. Im still paying consumer debt I took out to support us...

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 18 hours ago

gonna start putting a "cis dni" on our social media pages

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 13 points 20 hours ago (5 children)

*sigh* the big depression is back again

more bed rotting it is

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

are my tiddies just going to hurt forever now? or does pain mean growth? or is both true?

[–] Zorothamya@hexbear.net 2 points 7 hours ago

In my experience random boob pains tend to reduce or disappear with more stable hormone levels. As far as I know, you can have growth without pain, but I imagine certain growth stages will naturally give some random sensations of itching, burning or pain.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 14 hours ago

Pain means growth~

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 9 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

been able to get back into cooking a little bit this past week. I used to cook a lot and really loved it, loved expressing myself and being creative through food, but then [THE HORRORS] and for so long I just didn't have the energy or the focus.

maybe it's silly, but it feels just... really really nice. almost empowering. like I'm reclaiming a part of my life that I used to love and is actually good for me.

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 6 points 19 hours ago

Cooking is very life-affirming and empowering for me as well and I'm glad you were able to get back into it

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 9 points 20 hours ago

i have finally completed my big move to Big Gay Cityβ„’! i'm hoping i can recover from the exhaustion that it caused soon, but for now i'll make good use of eepy mega blob-sleep

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 21 hours ago

If I developed super powers I'd tell my family and friends, idk what powers I'm due based on my personality but I bet it be something weird.

[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Remember when Luigi shot that CEO?

That ruled

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 2 points 15 hours ago

Naw, pretty sure the CEO had a preexisting condition.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 20 hours ago

Luigi Mangione? Why he's an innocent man, there's no way that was him who shot Brian Thompson

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

Nah it only rules if you get away with it

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Do I hate my parents because being with them makes me feel like a child and I hate the feeling of being a child and find it utterly repulsive? Am I terrified of going through another puberty even when my first one was so horrid? Can Sigmund Freud explain what I am feeling?

Find out on the next episode of sodium nitride's hormonal getaways!

I gotta work on that show title.

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 2 points 7 hours ago

sodium nitRIDER: hormone heist

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 20 hours ago

Can Sigmund Freud explain what I am feeling?

Pretty sure you're only supposed to resent your mom very-smart

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 6 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

This is the last time I do an outdoors event in August, think I might actually die next time blob-on-fire

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Mooooood, went out in a full lolita the other day, petticoat and blouse and all, and it was awfulllllllllll. I need to be smarter about dressing for the heat.

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 4 points 21 hours ago

Sounds both cute and miserable lol. I saw someone in a fursuit and I was just like "how are you not dead"

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago

Some guy got really close to my face and gave me an air kiss.

What the fuck?

I'm literally boymodding. Do I have gay vibes or something?

I think my parents saw catgirl-huh

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Using Science! to figure out exactly how much of small talk is just lying [IRONIC]

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I love sending texts to people who supposedly love me and not receiving a response for days! inside-im-crying

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 9 points 23 hours ago

*sigh* real

but also if a lot of ur friends r neurodivergent then try sending a second message :p a lot of us will just respond in our head and forget to actually respond (and then forget about the message)

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

I've received similar reactions from friends, even a simple how's it going with a meme and just silence sadness some of them it's been months and I've no clue what I did.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I'm feeling bitter today and am going to take it out on my fuckass parents ....

IS THAT A MAO MAO COSPLAYER IRL?!?!

I kneel _ /---o_

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