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Hello everyone~ The megathread is very eepy this week so I am being very quiet and not posting a whole essay as that might disturb their rest. The megathread does a lot of work for us after all, so they deserve to rest a little. Our regularly scheduled effortposts will continue next week.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)

hello gang, once again here to ask if anyone wants to sign up to make the mega and also claim my spot at the top of the comment pile

Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)
Shaleesh (8/18 - 8/24)
GayTuckerCarlson* (8/25 - 8/31)
Eco* (9/1 - 9/7)
nemmybun (9/8 - 9/14)
Disaster_of_Passion* (9/15 - 9/21)
Carcharodonna* (9/22 - 9/28)
sodium_nitride* (9/29 - 10/5)
peanutbuttercupola* (10/6 - 10/12)
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Wmill (10/27 - 11/2)

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​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 17 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I'm going to wear a skirt tomorrow, i'm going to do it. I'm gonna do it. I'm going to wear one and go into town and look at books. I'm going to browse at the thrift store and buy nothing. I'm going to wile away the day existing in the real world and not from behind the screen.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 6 points 2 hours ago

You can do it catgirl-salute

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 10 hours ago

mental health, some of its harsh from a caregiverBefore me and my ex broke up, for 3 years they had some kind of constellation of depression, fatigue, pain, a lot of stuff. I was happy to step in cause I thought love and patience was enough.

I do remember towards the end, starting to feel incredibly depressed and resentful that I didnt also have a Terminal in our relationship. I still had to go to school and work and change the cats litter on both of our days and cook and clean. But I didnt, I had my ex.

The frustrating part was watching them NOT take steps towards anything. Not trying to get a job, not trying to get welfare, not attending therapy, not going to health appointments - even when I set them up, unless I drove there and from the sounds of it later they never talked much at any of them so I started getting them to write down what was happening day to day (feeling itchy for the 3rd day in a row, emesis x2 today, slept 14 hours, needed hot bath for nausea, etc). I ran into their family at work recently and by the sounds of it, theyre much better.

Part of me is happy theyre FINALLY better and working and taking care of themslef. The other is bitter and mad, why wasn't our relationship good enough to make that effort? I had been a shitty boyfriend sometimes and a much less shitty girlfriend but I thought I was worth taking the effort to, like, eat meals and go to therapy and work at a job. Im still paying consumer debt I took out to support us...

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 11 points 12 hours ago

gonna start putting a "cis dni" on our social media pages

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

are my tiddies just going to hurt forever now? or does pain mean growth? or is both true?

[–] Zorothamya@hexbear.net 1 points 1 hour ago

In my experience random boob pains tend to reduce or disappear with more stable hormone levels. As far as I know, you can have growth without pain, but I imagine certain growth stages will naturally give some random sensations of itching, burning or pain.

Pain means growth~

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 13 hours ago (5 children)

*sigh* the big depression is back again

more bed rotting it is

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 9 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

been able to get back into cooking a little bit this past week. I used to cook a lot and really loved it, loved expressing myself and being creative through food, but then [THE HORRORS] and for so long I just didn't have the energy or the focus.

maybe it's silly, but it feels just... really really nice. almost empowering. like I'm reclaiming a part of my life that I used to love and is actually good for me.

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago

Cooking is very life-affirming and empowering for me as well and I'm glad you were able to get back into it

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 7 points 14 hours ago

i have finally completed my big move to Big Gay Cityβ„’! i'm hoping i can recover from the exhaustion that it caused soon, but for now i'll make good use of eepy mega blob-sleep

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 14 hours ago

If I developed super powers I'd tell my family and friends, idk what powers I'm due based on my personality but I bet it be something weird.

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

This is the last time I do an outdoors event in August, think I might actually die next time blob-on-fire

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Mooooood, went out in a full lolita the other day, petticoat and blouse and all, and it was awfulllllllllll. I need to be smarter about dressing for the heat.

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago

Sounds both cute and miserable lol. I saw someone in a fursuit and I was just like "how are you not dead"

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Do I hate my parents because being with them makes me feel like a child and I hate the feeling of being a child and find it utterly repulsive? Am I terrified of going through another puberty even when my first one was so horrid? Can Sigmund Freud explain what I am feeling?

Find out on the next episode of sodium nitride's hormonal getaways!

I gotta work on that show title.

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

sodium nitRIDER: hormone heist

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago

Can Sigmund Freud explain what I am feeling?

Pretty sure you're only supposed to resent your mom very-smart

[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 18 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

Remember when Luigi shot that CEO?

That ruled

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 2 points 8 hours ago

Naw, pretty sure the CEO had a preexisting condition.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 13 hours ago

Luigi Mangione? Why he's an innocent man, there's no way that was him who shot Brian Thompson

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 9 points 18 hours ago

Nah it only rules if you get away with it

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 21 hours ago

Some guy got really close to my face and gave me an air kiss.

What the fuck?

I'm literally boymodding. Do I have gay vibes or something?

I think my parents saw catgirl-huh

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 8 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Using Science! to figure out exactly how much of small talk is just lying [IRONIC]

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 13 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I love sending texts to people who supposedly love me and not receiving a response for days! inside-im-crying

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 8 points 16 hours ago

*sigh* real

but also if a lot of ur friends r neurodivergent then try sending a second message :p a lot of us will just respond in our head and forget to actually respond (and then forget about the message)

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 18 hours ago

I've received similar reactions from friends, even a simple how's it going with a meme and just silence sadness some of them it's been months and I've no clue what I did.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

I'm feeling bitter today and am going to take it out on my fuckass parents ....

IS THAT A MAO MAO COSPLAYER IRL?!?!

I kneel _ /---o_

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I gotta stop feeling so angry with my parents.

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 7 points 16 hours ago

this is false

parents are just people, you dont owe them anything. you are allowed to be mad at them, you are allowed to cut contact with them. you dont have to forgive them, ever. they are no different than a stranger on the street.

[–] rtstragedy2@hexbear.net 9 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

::: spoiler gamedev rambling The fun thing about working with Rust (or maybe Bevy?) is that every silly little thing feels like such a huge accomplishment. It's like studying the arcane arts, I'm deep into Bevy source code or sparse documentation and when 0.17 comes out some of my code will probably need to change (for the better, of course), and occasionally if you cancel compilation at the wrong time it corrupts your build directory.

Anyway, I present to you, loading .ron files from a folder to populate item stats! This is probably a one-liner in Unity, lol, but that just ain't me.

The file structure:

InventoryItem(
  id: "sword_test",
  friendly_name: "Test Sword",
  scene_path: "sword_test.glb",
  item_type: Weapon(
    slot: PrimaryHand,
    two_handed: false,
    damage: ({
      Slash: 2
    })
  )
)

And partial code to actually deal with async loading:

#[derive(Resource, Default)]
pub struct ItemRegistry(Handle<LoadedFolder>, HashMap<String, InventoryItem>);

fn load_items(asset_server: Res<AssetServer>, mut item_registry: ResMut<ItemRegistry>) {
    // Preload everything in the folder.
    item_registry.0 = asset_server.load_folder("items");
}

fn folder_loaded(
    mut er_loaded_folder: EventReader<AssetEvent<LoadedFolder>>,
    folders: Res<Assets<LoadedFolder>>,
    items: Res<Assets<InventoryItem>>,
    mut item_registry: ResMut<ItemRegistry>,
) {
    for event in er_loaded_folder.read() {
        let AssetEvent::LoadedWithDependencies { id } = *event else {
            continue;
        };

        if id != item_registry.0.id() {
            continue;
        }

        let folder = folders.get(&item_registry.0).unwrap();

        for file in &folder.handles {
            let item = items.get(&file.clone().typed()).unwrap().clone();
            info!("discovered item {}", &item.id);

            item_registry.1.insert(item.id.clone(), item);
        }
    }
}

I am not sure at this point whether I'll keep the "stripping the InventoryItem out of the Handle," it doesn't seem necessary but it might be handy to not have the items cloned into player inventories - to ensure all instances of an item are the same, but if I want to do item XP or anything like that that kind of precludes it.

Of course, all this is to say nothing of the actual design of the game which uh looks like this.

And once again, I am very proud of the view model, which is apparently a somewhat standard term for the view of the player's hands and weapons in first-person (although I just resized the window and its no longer visible, so that's a problem lol oh no). Several confused rounds in Blender as the co-ordinate systems are weird and I basically had to set up the camera view to roughly match the game by eyesight in Blender. Oh, and I guess the 5-hour donut tutorial paid off because look at that HIGH-DEF ART.

[–] rtstragedy2@hexbear.net 7 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

more lolalso this one time i accidentally right clicked in blender and accidentally selected a menu item that made the entire view the outliner:

and I didn't know how to get it back and I nearly cried, even saving and loading didn't fix it. anyway turns out I had clicked this:

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